Gonna clear out this journal. Then idk maybe let it sit see ya on the other side
Watch Being Human on Tubi: https://link.tubi.tv/ZOQR004TT3b
Watching season 1. Cuddle up get comfy . Turn off the lights .
Quantum measurement theory describes how observational interaction constrains or defines the possible states of a system. In contrast, magickal and spiritual traditions often describe intention as influencing subjective or experiential outcomes. While these frameworks arise from fundamentally different epistemologies, it may be analytically useful to consider whether there are conceptual parallels or instructive distinctions between the role of observation in physics and the role of intention in human experience. This comparison is not intended to conflate scientific and esoteric models, but to clarify how different traditions conceptualize agency, perception, and the shaping of reality.
In quantum mechanics, measurement influences the behavior of a system, and in various magickal or spiritual traditions, intention is described as influencing experience. I’m not equating these frameworks, but I’m interested in whether people see any conceptual parallels or useful contrasts between the role of observation in physics and the role of intention in human experience. How do you interpret the boundaries between these ideas from a scientific perspective?
“Quantum physics says a thing behaves differently when it’s witnessed. I’m curious how others interpret that — as pure measurement, or something more subtle in the fabric of reality.”
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I think it s important to note like in Hoffman's MUI theory that what we as human beings perceive as reality is quite different than actual objective reality even using technology to go beyond our natural senses. By natural selection in evolution over millions of years the ones that get to mate and produce offspring and flourish tend not to see reality clearly but have the dominant gene pool to survive. So it's more about what is relative to that interface that contributes to a gene pool's survival as a species not objective reality.
Remember When We Used to Talk About D/s as Symbiosis?
Friend of mine dropped the word symbiosis in the comments on one of my posts yesterday. Brought back so many memories from the old IRC days. Back then, folks would spend hours discussing power exchange, relationships, and how to build healthy D/s dynamics. One idea came up again and again: symbiosis. In simple terms, that meant both people being better off because the other is in their life.
We broke that down through Yin Yang. Just ‘cause… it makes sense. Think about it. A Dominant and a submissive. Two different forces. Complementary. Interconnected. And together, their differences complete the picture. Inspire each other to be better people. And make life better for each other.
Somewhere along the way, that language faded. These days, lots of D/s discussions revolve around control, authority, hierarchy, and power. Fair enough. Those conversations matter. But I reckon they’re missing that important piece.
Maybe that's the real lesson hidden inside the idea of D/s as symbiosis. A healthy dynamic should improve both lives. So every now and then, ask yourself: “Is my life better because this person is in it?” Then ask whether they’d give the same answer about you.
D/s’s a partnership. Between different but complimentary parts. Both invest. Both contribute. And both benefit. Their strengths cover each other’s weaknesses. Their victories become shared victories. Their burdens become shared burdens. And over time, the power of the whole becomes significantly greater than the sum of its parts!
So folks in the old IRC days were onto something there. I still see Yin Yang in D/s. Different roles. Different strengths. Different responsibilities. Each giving meaning to the other. Not a battle. A partnership. A symbiosis.
Your turn! Do you think D/s works best as a form of symbiosis, or do you have a different way of understanding it? Drop your take below.
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I can't remember how many weeks after I moved in with Dee, my now wife. Not many, it was towards the colder months of the year.
The fire was lit in the hearth, she'd tied me up in front of it, nothing new or surprising by that point for me. Hands behind me lying on my back. Pretty good tie. I was about as mobile as a roll of carpet.
She'd stuck a poker in the fire, I saw, I wasn't bothered because I didn't believe she'd ever touch me with it. The minutes passed, the poker got hotter, and she told me she was going to burn my chest.
I didn't believe her, I played along, now I knew Dee, for various reasons, was a little abnormal, and I started to take her seriously over burning me as the minutes passed by.
The poker remained in the fire, and she convinced with her words alone she would do it, burn me.
I became angry, basically thought fuck it, fuck her, fuck it all and do it and I said as much to her.
She told me she would do it.
I told her to fuck off and do it.
I started baiting her to do it.
I taunted her to do it.
I just wanted to go through with it. I wanted to come out the other side of it and go through it. I wanted to be stronger than the fire and I felt I could and would be.
I felt powerful, strong, no fear, nothing, just exhilaration and as she pulled the poker out of the fire I said, well, I can't remember exactly what I said, but along the lines of 'do it' and she did.
She stuck that poker in my chest.
And for about three seconds I could feel it.
And then I could'nt. Because there was no pain. My brain just thought there was and expected the pain and I reacted to that thought.
She did put the poker on me — a cold one — she had two identical pokers, and I didn't know.
It was still a test.
There've been many other tests.
Is this Ds? Maybe.
Is this an appropriate reply?
I don't know? That's what came out of me when reading your post Baby.
If I'd read it an hour later, maybe a different reply entirely, I feel a bit stoked at the moment, exhilarated. Excited for odd and extraordinary reasons.
Not quite the reply I intended to write but I don't feel like scrubbing it and starting again.
X
I understand.. she did play a mind fuck with you. Smiles like the way she thinks smiles. Anyway it is about trust in the end .
Def a mind fuck.
The fire wasn't as bad as when she started chaining me up and electrocuting me through the chains to a point my brain shut down to a tiny white dot, but that's another story.
I could type a shopping list out if I let myself.
The electrified pinwheel on to bollocks was fun.
Thrashing me with fresh nettles gave her a giggle too.
I'll be here all night if I carry on.
I'll add a x as I can't quite bring myself to add a 'lol' to the above.
I've left out the weirder shit.
Lol. Shakes head .. it's all good . X back atcha
Anyway, I'm derailing your thread, I'm off x
Watch Mortal on Tubi: https://link.tubi.tv/ZieJ6atpR1b
Sounds interesting.
Watching The Witch Files
Watch The Witch Files on Tubi: https://link.tubi.tv/ixlbncjcI3b
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Is alright movie .. I give it a C
Next up league of extraordinary gentlemen... ❤️ That movie
Watch The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen on Tubi: https://link.tubi.tv/V4apZ9uDk3b
I haven't watched anything on it yet apart from The Collector, ep 1 with you.
I watched Twilight 3 last night where Jake offered Bell poly, I'm not kidding Lol. PMSL. Oh, I'm doing a soooo blog on that Lol.
Jake basically says 'You can love more than one man, Bella'
I love this show Lol.
Smiles
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To be continued....
Very nice, love it. Can't wait to read the rest.😁
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I am super excited
The series The Collector
begins tonight with the first episode ...
Streaming which is awesome 😎
🍿🍾🔥
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pm you about it xx
I'm excited ! Streaming night !
Twilight 3 can wait - it's killin' me lol
Lol sounds like a plan
All sorted baby xx
Jobs beckon x
Cheers baby, you gave me a new media platform and a lot of free new content to watch, love you, thank you. Leaving this here to round of your Movie Night thread. x
I really miss watching YouTube videos movies.. use to watch with my former CM ..
We would get everything ready and he would say go in 5 or 10!sec and we would chat about the movie whilst we watched.
Really miss that ..
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Ahh, that's right the first of the month is tomorrow. It really takes some finessing to actually see a journal entry after the next day technically starts on V.R. at a certain time (4pm for me) and the actual next day doesn't register for the mechanics of the site so the next month link doesn't show up. I found if you just switch to another part of journal then back you'll be able to see it where it doesn't show up the first time. There's all kinds of nuances on this site.
Maybe we can work something out. Might be cool to share a movie with you x
Smiles I would like that
Yeah, me too, a lot, we'll sort something in pm, later on in the day.
I'll get my jobs out of the way and catch up with properly about this later on.
Still drinking coffee atm and chilling
Sounds like a plan
Morning Tree, you're cracking me up with your posts lmao, still chuckling over 'power bottom' and the bro one too.
We have a plan baby it's gonna be fun. Headphones, film, snacks and chat, this could be so cool.
Lol Tree is letting us know the irritation of VR system flaws.
Absolutely
I'm off for a wander, songs in the stream I want to listen to. x
You got me on the bat phone to grab my attention as and when.
Wait, you got bat phones??!
Its morning over "there" while its the witching hour over here.
Yes it is irritating but I figure I'd provide the solution for others to try that run into the problem that read your journal.
Enjoy your time together. I'm off to work on my mentorship.
Thanks Tree, just playing catch up with a few replies atm.
Lol alrighty then
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