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BEFORE PUMPKINS HAD FACES

18:28 Oct 08 2026
Times Read: 26





The Strange and Rather Terrifying Origins of the Jack-o'-Lantern




Traditional carved Halloween turnip lantern


A traditional Irish-style turnip lantern.




Every October, millions of pumpkins find themselves hollowed out, given crooked smiles, and placed on doorsteps with candles burning inside them.



Some look frightening. Others look positively delighted to be there.



But long before the cheerful orange pumpkin became the face of Halloween, people in Ireland were carving something considerably less friendly.



Turnips.



And if you have ever seen an old-fashioned Irish turnip lantern, you will understand why nobody needed to add fake vampire teeth.



These things were terrifying enough on their own.



When Vegetables Were Supposed to Frighten You

In Ireland, particularly during the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, people hollowed out turnips and carved grotesque faces into them. A candle placed inside transformed an ordinary root vegetable into something that looked remarkably like a small, furious demon.



These lanterns were associated with Halloween, a celebration closely connected with older Irish traditions surrounding Samhain, the seasonal turning point marking the beginning of winter.



In traditional folklore, Halloween was a time when the boundary between the living and the supernatural seemed dangerously thin.



Spirits might wander. Fairies might interfere. Strange things could be waiting beyond the candlelight.



A frightening face glowing in the darkness was believed to help keep unwelcome visitors away.



Of course, it could also scare the living daylights out of your neighbours.



Which, one suspects, was occasionally part of the entertainment.



The Man Who Cheated the Devil

No history of the jack-o'-lantern would be complete without the legend of Stingy Jack.



According to a popular Irish folktale, Jack was a thoroughly unpleasant fellow with a talent for trickery and a remarkable ability to make bad decisions.



One evening, Jack encountered the Devil.



Rather than panic, Jack persuaded him to turn himself into a coin so that Jack could pay for a drink.



Naturally, Jack had no intention of spending the money.



He slipped the coin into his pocket beside a silver cross, trapping the Devil in his new form.



Eventually, Jack released him, but only after extracting a promise that the Devil would not claim his soul.



In some versions of the story, Jack managed to trick the Devil a second time, this time involving a tree.



Clearly, the Devil had a rather unfortunate habit of trusting Jack.



When Jack eventually died, Heaven refused to admit him because of the life he had led.



Hell was not an option either, thanks to his bargain.



And so Jack was condemned to wander the darkness, belonging to neither world.



The Devil reportedly gave him a burning ember to light his way. Jack placed it inside a hollowed-out turnip, creating a lantern that would accompany him on his endless journey.



Thus, according to the legend, came Jack of the Lantern, or Jack-o'-Lantern.



An eternity of wandering the Earth with a root vegetable for company.



There are worse punishments, perhaps.



But not many more ridiculous ones.



The Pumpkin Takes Over

When Irish and other European immigrants brought their Halloween traditions to North America, they encountered something much more convenient than a stubborn, hard-fleshed turnip.



The pumpkin.



Large, plentiful, and comparatively easy to hollow out, pumpkins made excellent lanterns.



They also offered considerably more room for artistic expression.



Where the old turnip lanterns tended to look like angry spirits suffering from particularly unpleasant dental problems, pumpkins could accommodate enormous grins, elaborate designs, and eventually everything from cartoon characters to celebrity portraits.



By the late nineteenth century, carved pumpkins were becoming firmly associated with American Halloween celebrations.



The pumpkin had taken over.



The turnip, meanwhile, quietly retreated into folklore.



A Face from the Past

One particularly striking example of the older tradition survives through the collection of the National Museum of Ireland.



In 1943, a schoolteacher named Rois Ní Braonáin donated a carved turnip lantern from the Fintown area of County Donegal.



She explained that lanterns of this kind had been customary in the area around 1900.



The museum created a painted plaster cast of the object, preserving its extraordinary appearance.



Its pinched features, hollow eyes, and deeply unsettling expression are a reminder that Halloween decorations were not always intended to be adorable.



This was a face designed to frighten.



And more than a century later, it still does a remarkably good job.



So, What Have We Learned?

The next time you see a smiling pumpkin sitting on someone's doorstep, remember its much less cheerful ancestor.



Before plastic skeletons, inflatable ghosts, and battery-operated witches, there were people sitting in candlelight, patiently carving monstrous faces into vegetables.



They were marking a season associated with darkness, death, mischief, and the supernatural.



And somewhere in the folklore, a thoroughly dishonest man was still wandering the night with his little glowing turnip.




Before Halloween had pumpkins, it had turnips.

And frankly, they were terrifying enough.



Sources & Further Reading




Stingy Jack is a character from folklore, not documented history. Details of his story vary between retellings.




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FREE IMAGE HOSTING

17:38 Oct 06 2026
Times Read: 91


Still have broken Photobucket links on your profile or portfolio?

There are still free image hosts that let you upload your images and use direct links without covering them with a giant watermark.

Postimages
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For Vampire Rave, make sure you use the direct image link rather than the gallery/viewer page.
And whatever service you use: keep a copy of your original images. Free hosting services can change or disappear — as Photobucket has rather spectacularly demonstrated.

Your old image host may be dead.
Your profile doesn't have to die with it. 🧛


COMMENTS

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Adain
Adain
19:03 Oct 06 2026

I'll try the ones you mentioned

I need a host for my pictures





Witchykitten
Witchykitten
20:07 Oct 06 2026

I'm rating profiles to level up and I see so many with missing images or with that stupid watermark from Photobucket. I hope it will help a few people since both are free :) If you need any other help, just send me a message :)





Adain
Adain
20:19 Oct 06 2026

Thank you 💜 I will if I get a bit stuck 🐭 I'll have wander to the host sites later on and see if I can make myself a new account. I had imur but it's not working out for me anymore.





Adain
Adain
23:46 Oct 06 2026

I got my off-site image hosting working! Yay! Thank you so much for the recommendations, Witchy 💜 I was getting a bit stuck on which site to use. xx





Drayton
Drayton
02:02 Oct 07 2026

I also think the VR file storage link has a second spot for your photo hosting link . If your premium expires. Where it says "real vampires love vampire rave" I haven't tested this yet...





Witchykitten
Witchykitten
06:24 Oct 07 2026

I don't host my pics on VR, exactly for that reason. I like to have control over my stuff lol.





Drayton
Drayton
09:52 Oct 07 2026

Yes but you could have one with the VR file storage and one of your own.





Witchykitten
Witchykitten
13:57 Oct 07 2026

I have a paid account on Bravenet with enough hosting space, so I don't need any other :)





 

HALLOWEEN WAS ONCE FOR LOVERS

16:01 Oct 06 2026
Times Read: 107


Forget the ghosts. Your future husband was the real mystery.

By Witchykitten


Today, Halloween comes with a fairly predictable set of expectations.


There will be pumpkins. There will be sweets. Someone will wear a costume that seemed like a much better idea before they had to use the bathroom. There will be skeletons, witches, ghosts and at least one black cat who never agreed to participate in any of this.


But a century or two ago, a young woman celebrating Halloween might have been preoccupied with something rather different.


She wanted to know whom she was going to marry.


And apparently, the supernatural powers of the universe were perfectly willing to tell her.


Provided she had an apple.


Halloween's Other Kind of Fortune-Telling

Divination has long been associated with Halloween and the older traditions surrounding the season. But not every glimpse into the future concerned death, spirits or the coming winter.


A surprising number concerned romance.


By the Victorian era and into the early twentieth century, Halloween parties in Britain and North America featured games and rituals intended to reveal a future husband or wife. Historical newspapers are full of them, and the Library of Congress notes that romantic fortune-telling was a particularly popular form of Halloween entertainment among young single people. [Source]


In other words, before dating apps asked for your age, location and preferred relationship type, Halloween asked whether you owned a hazelnut.


An Apple Knows Who You Will Marry

Apples turn up again and again in old Halloween matchmaking games.


One particularly charming method required peeling an apple in one long, unbroken strip. The peel was then thrown or dropped, and whatever letter it appeared to form was supposedly the initial of your future spouse.


A 1906 American newspaper described a version in which the apple peel was swung three times around the head before being dropped to the floor. If it formed a letter, there was your answer. [Source]


There were variations, naturally. Folk traditions have a habit of changing as they travel from family to family and place to place.


One version that survived long enough to reach this writer's childhood involved peeling an apple while reciting the alphabet. The letter reached when the peel broke was supposed to be the initial of your soulmate.


This raises several questions.


What happens if you are exceptionally good at peeling apples?


Does your soulmate's name begin with Z?


And what if the peel breaks immediately?


Congratulations. You are marrying Andrew.


Put Your Love Life in the Fire

If apples seemed insufficiently scientific, there were always nuts.


One Scottish custom involved naming hazelnuts after potential suitors and placing them in the fire. Their behaviour was then interpreted as an indication of romantic compatibility.


Unfortunately, accounts disagree about exactly what constituted good news. In one version, the nut that burned steadily represented the future husband; in others, the behaviour of the nuts could indicate whether a relationship would endure. [Source]


Which is perhaps the first warning sign that hazelnuts are not licensed relationship counsellors.


Still, the imagery is wonderful: a group of young women staring intensely into a fireplace while several nuts crackle in the flames.


"Thomas jumped."


Gasps.


"I knew he couldn't be trusted."


Thomas, meanwhile, is presumably at home and entirely unaware that his romantic prospects have just been destroyed by a roasted hazelnut.


And Then There Were the Mirrors

This is where old-fashioned romance begins to look suspiciously like the opening scene of a horror film.


Mirrors were repeatedly used in Halloween divination. One ritual instructed a young woman to enter a darkened room, stand before a mirror with a candle and look for the face of her future husband appearing over her shoulder.


Other versions involved walking backwards while looking into a mirror, sometimes outdoors beneath the moon. Historical descriptions of such games survive in early twentieth-century newspapers. [Source]


Apparently, the desired reaction was:


"My future husband!"


Modern horror films have trained us to respond somewhat differently.


If I am alone in a dark room at midnight and an unfamiliar man's face suddenly appears behind me in the mirror, I am not asking for his star sign.


I am leaving.


He may be my soulmate.


He can text.


Halloween Tinder Was Complicated

There were plenty of other methods.


A strand of hair released into the wind might reveal the direction in which your future spouse lived. A ring suspended on a string could be used with the alphabet to discover an initial. Certain foods eaten before bed were supposed to make the future beloved appear in dreams. Even bobbing for apples became associated with courtship and predictions about who would marry first. [Source]


It is easy to laugh at all this now.


We probably should.


But underneath the nuts, apple peel and potentially terrifying mirror encounters is something remarkably familiar.


People wanted reassurance.


They wanted to know whether they would fall in love. Whether somebody was waiting for them. Whether the person they already fancied fancied them back.


We still ask exactly the same questions.


We have simply replaced the fireplace with an algorithm.


And frankly, considering modern dating apps, the hazelnut deserves another chance.


For the Record...

I tried the apple version myself once.


I no longer remember which letter I got.


I do, however, remember that I never dated anyone whose name began with it.


So much for supernatural matchmaking.


Then again, perhaps the apple is playing the long game.


If I meet the love of my life at eighty-seven and his name begins with Q, I owe a fruit from approximately 1983 a very serious apology.


Until then, I remain sceptical.


Although I do have some hazelnuts in the kitchen.


Just in case.


ODDLY.Things are stranger than you think.


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Adain
Adain
17:25 Oct 06 2026

Oh, this is very good. I enjoyed reading that!

I'm so in the mood for Halloween. I've got my Wednesday Addams box set ready, my Halloween books together, and I'm wearing my Halloween watch!

I don't know when we're buying pumpkins. It's probably a bit early, but all the Halloween chocolates have been bought, and we put them away so we don't eat them!





Witchykitten
Witchykitten
20:06 Oct 06 2026

lol I like the whole month :) October is MINE lol. And I enjoy to come with new images of Moon and me for the stream lol. And I'm sorry my cat chewed a bit on you lol





 

Guilt by Association: When Someone Else’s Conflict Becomes Yours

14:44 Oct 03 2026
Times Read: 188


Guilt by Association: When Someone Else’s Conflict Becomes Yours



There is a peculiar social phenomenon that appears everywhere from workplaces and friendship groups to fandoms, gaming communities and long-running online spaces.



Two people fall out.



You have nothing to do with it.



And somehow, you are expected to pick a side.



This is guilt by association: the tendency to judge someone not by their own behaviour, but by the people they interact with.



“If You’re Friends With Them, You’re Against Me”

The logic is deceptively simple.



Person A dislikes Person B. You talk to Person B. Therefore, Person A begins to view you with suspicion.



You may know nothing about their disagreement. You may like both people. You may have met Person B entirely independently. You may not even know that a conflict exists.



None of that necessarily matters once social relationships are treated as alliances.



A conversation becomes loyalty.



Friendship becomes endorsement.



Joining a group becomes taking a side.



And neutrality becomes suspicious.



Suddenly, other people’s conflicts come with invisible borders that everyone around them is expected to recognise.



Social Contagion

Psychologically, this is related to the way humans evaluate people through their social connections.



Usually, this shortcut is useful. The company somebody keeps can tell us something about them. If a person consistently surrounds themselves with people who behave terribly and actively supports that behaviour, it is reasonable to take notice.



The problem begins when association is treated as proof.



Knowing someone does not mean agreeing with them.



Being friendly with someone does not mean endorsing everything they have ever done.



Belonging to the same group does not mean inheriting every feud attached to that group.



And most importantly, someone else's enemy does not automatically become your enemy.



The Loyalty Test Nobody Told You About

Guilt by association becomes particularly unpleasant when it turns into an unspoken loyalty test.



Nobody explicitly says:




“You must choose between us.”




Instead, the pressure arrives indirectly.




“You seem distant lately.”


“I noticed you've been spending time with them.”


“I didn't realise you two were friends.”


“So you're with that group now?”




The person receiving these comments may have no idea that their perfectly ordinary interaction has crossed an invisible political border.



That is what makes these situations so exhausting: you can break rules you were never told existed.



Why Small Communities Are Especially Vulnerable

This behaviour can become particularly intense in small or long-established communities.



People accumulate history.



Friendships form and collapse. Arguments happen. Alliances shift. Old grievances survive long after newer members have forgotten—or never knew—what originally happened.



After enough time, a community can develop an invisible map of relationships:




  • These two don't speak.

  • Those three used to be friends.

  • Don't mention her around him.

  • He's friends with someone she hates.



For long-time members, this map may feel obvious.



For everyone else, it is completely invisible.



Someone can innocently walk straight through a twenty-year-old feud without even knowing there was a battlefield.



The Orbit Problem

There is another stage where guilt by association becomes almost absurd.



The conflict expands outward.



First, someone dislikes a particular person.



Then they distrust that person's friends.



Then their friends' friends.



Then anyone belonging to the same group.



Eventually, people who have never participated in the original disagreement are treated as though they inherited it simply by entering the wrong person's social orbit.



At that point, the conflict is no longer about behaviour.



It is about proximity.



And proximity is a terrible substitute for evidence.



Adults Are Allowed to Have Separate Relationships

One of the healthiest principles in any community is also one of the simplest:



My relationship with someone does not have to be your relationship with them.



You can dislike someone I like.



I can remain friendly with someone who hurt your feelings.



Two people can have completely different experiences with the same individual.



None of this automatically invalidates anyone else's experience.



There are exceptions, of course. Serious abuse, harassment or dangerous behaviour can make neutrality far more complicated. But ordinary interpersonal conflict is not automatically a moral emergency requiring everyone nearby to declare allegiance.



Sometimes two people simply dislike each other.



The rest of the world does not have to reorganise itself around that fact.



Refusing to Inherit Other People's Feuds

The simplest response to guilt by association is often a boundary:



Judge me by what I do.



If I mistreat you, hold me responsible.



If I lie to you, confront me.



If I betray your trust, reconsider our relationship.



But if the only accusation is that I speak to someone you dislike, then the problem is no longer my behaviour.



It is an expectation of loyalty I never agreed to.



Friendships are not treaties.



Communities are not battlefields.



And people are not territory.



You are allowed to decide who belongs in your life based on your own experiences rather than inheriting somebody else's list of enemies.



Because sometimes the most mature position in someone else's war is simply:



This isn't my war.


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OccultRanger
OccultRanger
15:37 Oct 03 2026

You are going to find a lot of immature behavior on this site. I agree judge people by what they do. If I can't inspire somebody when another does then I start to question why. When people start to behave like those they have surrounded themselves with which is natural to fit in that's when I start to question their motivations.





Drayton
Drayton
05:46 Oct 04 2026

Great post, thanks for sharing








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