A longtime VR member passed away yesterday: Cajome. I am waiting to see the obituary for the confirmation needed on VR's behalf- but I will have to disband the coven- the members are inactive and the coven has been dormant for a good while. Those under Sire will come to Eternal (a coven master's death is no reason to get chucked to the VR wilds for random induction). Lux Aeterna was a spin-off coven from House Eternal. After Jamie was removed as Master Vampire in the very early stages of the society system implementation, several of the members moved on to create that society under Yendor. I want to save their pages in House Eternal and give the last Coven Master a spot of remembrance as well. I will began that process as soon as documented confirmation is online.
I can’t believe this. I feel awful. At one point, Cajome and I were very close, with me serving as ACM in Lux Aeterna, and with her serving as ACM in my coven as well. We talked all of the time, and she was so funny, and so intelligent. We clicked instantly. She was an amazing person, an amazing soul. In the recent years, with work and personal issues in my own life, I have not been active on Vr, and therefore have not been keeping in touch with as many of my Vr friends and unfortunately Cajome was one of them. I feel so selfish and self centered to have allowed our friendship to dissolve the way that it had, but I was stupid enough to take it for granted that she would always be here. I’m so sorry, and I just can’t believe she has passed. Rest In Peace CAJOME, you will be missed greatly.
I just viewed her profile, and she still had a graphic up that I made for her a long time ago when I was just learning how to put text on a photo. Haha. The things she said about me....how close we were, yeah, I feel really bad.
She was a dear friend and helped me so much. She took me into Lux. It's been my home for many years now. I will miss her greatly. I'm still in a bit of shock over this.
Wow. I am stunned and so very saddened.
I was a newbie 10 years ago and I respected sites and didn't really reach out and talking much to them. But when she was online she seemed pretty cool. Its sad that her life has been taken in the worst way, and slow. I listen a friend to Cancer too and it hurts when you get the news.
May she be pain free wherever she is at now.
this is very sad..all them years I met her in a online chat room and we had become close friends and talked often, it was her who introduced me to VR....over the years we had drifted apart but still she was considered a friend and will be missed...
Rest in peace sweet lady .
She is going to be missed so very much. Wish I could rewind the time. I sat here last night reading over some conversations we had had on both her and other social media sites and laughed and cried.
I loved her! Witty, kind, smart. She was the best.One of her profiles is in my Coven. RIP :(
I'll be honest with you all, I never had a personal conversation with Cajome- only VR-related message exchanges. But I know she was a friend to many here and I want to pay respects to that. Any of the members I bring in to House Eternal will be free to go anywhere they wish when they come back to the site, just as is the way of Eternal. I have only ever charged favor if a member was a problem. I let people go free and in kind I don't generally *ever* pay favor for members to come to Eternal. It's just the way I do it. I don't care about the standings on my behalf or another society's behalf. It's just the way I've always led my societies.
I do not know her personally ,but deeply sorry for the loss of this person I know she has had touched many in vampire rave, i have sadness i never got to meet them. But Again deeply sorry for the loss of this member.
Does Lady K know? I know they were good friends. I have Lady K's address since we exchange holiday cards/gifts and can send word when it is confirmed. She seems to have vanished from fb.
From what Saetan told me last night she was the one who informed her. Saetan called to inform me that she passed because she knew that we were friendly when I was originally in Hell with her.
Cajome and I weren't the closest truthfully but she was indeed a good person with one hell of a sense of humor. I'll always remember some of the posts from her in Hell or her kismets on all of her accounts.
PM me, images when you know. I would appreciate letting Lady K know.
I am in bed right now and posting this from my phone. I’ll talk to people tomorrow if they need. This is a copy and paste from my Facebook message just now.
“LadyKrystalynDarkstar sends her heartfelt condolences to the Lux Family and the all who knew and loved CAJOME.
Cara was my friend.
We had our ups and downs but we remained touch. I found out through Abhorash. It was a phone call he DID NOT want to make. In fact, I asked why the hell he was calling...
Thank you Imagesinwords for doing this for me.
Cara forever 1982.”
I’ve given plenty of people chances. But depending on the type of life you have lived, and the type of deeds you have done, you will never get a chance from me. It’s not to say that I’m going to try to continually punish you – but to say that you’re not somebody to give any trust. I can peacefully live alongside those I have no faith in. But it would be ludicrous for me to give credence to a miscreant. No offense to someone reading who might be a fan... but let’s just say I’m likening this to choosing to get in a relationship with R. Kelly.
I see from the World Visitor Map we have a user online right now in Spain- I wonder who that is? I hope it's not a proxy. I have always wondered if we had any members in Spain.
Back when I first joined, there was a guy from Spain who lived in the US for six months for a school study. I couldn't find him afterwards, when the six months ended. He was a well written and kind person. His name was Marco, but for the life of me I cannot remember what his username was.
Once upon a time, a persona non grata was banished from a village. Rules were not adhered to and beyond that- actions whilst carrying a village title were distasteful. The village was then less one scoundrel and better for it. But lo and behold... the scoundrel would return, again and again. The ruler of the village would allow the scoundrel to come back each time and judge him as brand new on each venture (what a guy, amirite?)- allowing him to be different and maintain a citizenship in the village once again if he minded. But the scoundrel was so determined to be loud and obnoxious- trying to point out every 'supposed' flaw he saw in the village. He didn't have to be in the village- he could go anywhere in the world, but he couldn't help himself and would come back and back, and back again. He just wanted to stand there in the town square screaming how horrible it was to be there. He could leave and go anywhere else on the planet where he could enjoy himself, but he didn't want to leave. He wanted to be where he 'hated it' and could only find flaw in the surroundings. He had no chains, no letter of detention, not even an invitation. He would choose to break the rules upon each return, banished yet again.
Although he was a blemish upon the society, the townspeople knew he must have a self-esteem problem that required him to keep pointing himself out. He needed people to look at him. Even if it were to be a negative glance, it was better than no glance at all. Sure, life would be better in a realm where his own subjective needs were being met- but he wouldn't be able to cry, whine, and complain anymore. What good could be a life of happiness? A life of satisfaction seemed so plebeian.
Oh no, fellow citizens... he shall remain, be kicked, and come back again- this is the breath of complicated air and much finer an inhale than any free flowing breeze in biased superior lands. He shall bind himself in his own unlockable chains, self-purchased from the local sundry and shout his oppression (and the unknown and unfelt oppression of other villagers).
We knew you came from a land down under- but we didn't realize men really did there, plunder. The plundering of sensibility.
Carry on, fellow citizens... it's just the cyclical event.
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Years ago there was this person who had a middle admin position on Vampire Rave. He got infinitely suspended due to stuff offline toward another member of this site- here's a circumstance where offline things will get you booted (if you are a member of the admin team). Since then, he's continued to come back with a vengeance to try and point out all the "flaws" in this system. He was so happy to be on this team, but after... well, lol... a horrible place of course!
When a member makes it their purpose just to try and rip apart this website- you have to ask yourself what their game is. If this place sucked that bad- they wouldn't be here. There are many avenues of accessing the internet and making friends- the last place I would hang out would be one so "fundamentally flawed"... People love drama though. That's something he'll always find here. Like-minds! People who want to get together and act like there is oppression and horrible online conditions! LOL What kind of person would subject themselves to such depravity??? Well, someone who isn't experiencing one iota of that. This guy fucking LOVES this place. He can't stay away. *Ever* We've gotta be damn good. Like Lays Chips- you can't eat just one! (He can't leave just once).
What happened to ignoring the drama and setting a good example? Nobody likes a Drama Llama! Especially a woman in your position.
This isn’t personal drama. This is Vampire Rave specific. This is me, an Administrator, trying to ensure the rest of our site knows that you’re just a troublemaker with a vendetta- I want to set the membership at ease while you have a very different agenda. That’s what your journal entries are all about. This has nothing to do with the kind of “drama” I spoke of before. Thanks for pointing yourself out, I wouldn’t have mentioned your name here.
You want to be free to talk shit about Vampire Rave- but if an admin dare call you out on it they are the drama llamas. My position is exactly why I defend the site.
That’s right- I just blocked you. Leaving you unblocked won’t stop you from spinning tales and untruths in your journal... but I’m sure you’ll end up doing something to get yourself suspended as usual anyway.
LOL way to just step up and claim the position, kid. This is the saddest type of narcissism. Enjoy your stay, even if it is compulsive...
As of right now i plan on making all coven's happy by being in metal and lace i'm out for redemptionin hell as well once i reach sire of course i plan on hitting the shadows coven or maybe sin this year at level 100 then i'm outta here i won't even contribute to the drama i will just see what's wrong from now on why everyone is mad and do what i can on my best behalf to get it all fix at least now with the glitch that we had will be resolved and issued and no one else can't use it sure it might be gone but at least what was causing most of VR to not work proper hopefully will be working
Not sure why you're making this comment on this particular entry- but, what you're talking about wasn't a problem of "Vampire Rave not working properly"- that was a loophole you found and not something the membership had an issue with. You found it, you exploited it, and a couple weeks later acted like you were finding glitches and planned to report them to Cancer. That's not what you did. You decided to talk to Cancer like an innocent person once he signed on and reverted your actions, after being provided a recorded call of you explaining how you got out of a coven without being honestly traded. If you had any intention of reporting a "glitch" to Cancer- you would have told him when you first got accounts out of the Hell Coven. Instead you acted like you had no idea at all what happened when questioned by Saetan. You and your mom currently have your main accounts suspended due to this- so let's not act like it's anything different than it is.
Isn't it funny how the guilty will always tell on themselves?
$10 on that being who I think it is...
I don't get the "keep coming back even if you hate it" thing. It's not healthy. Get a new hobby. Try some therapy. Watch some Bob Ross.
At least the glitch was found and it's getting fixed not like anyone would probably listen to me anyway if i had have found it
i'm surprised the admins didn't even bother trying to find the glitch first for over many years
Just so you know- my journal entry here wasn’t about the “glitch”- I was talking about something different yet the comment section went to a different topic.
Maybe no one was trying to manipulate the system in this particular way before. Seriously... it takes trying to weasel your way out dishonestly to have figured it out. So it was a good thing no one else had done it before.
At least no one can use it now and maybe the site won't lag anymore maybe that option was making this system lag???
A phone number over load?
Seriously, stop trying to redirect as if it's all Vampire Rave's problems and not you manipulating and breaking ToS. I wouldn't have ever needed to have mentioned this beyond two days ago if you didn't keep bringing it up. You didn't come in and "save the day"- you broke the rules and got suspended. Done and done.
What a load of nonsense. The concept is simple: If you find a glitch that allows you to move around the basic rules of the site, you can:
a. Report it.
b. Exploit it
c. Do nothing
You chose to exploit it and you got caught. It doesn't make you clever or helpful to require near constant cleanup because you're incapable of doing the actual right thing. To turn it around on the Administrators and make it seem like it was a lapse in their work that they didn't prevent you from sticking your hand in the cookie jar shows how incapable you are of accountability. This is why you lack credibility and as long as your attitude stays like this, that isn't going to change.
If Morrigon's explanation is not clear enough after Heidi's perfectly clear explanations have already been given, I do not know how else one could word it!
Oh, there's other ways to word it. I'm sure images and Morrigon were just giving the "polite" versions. LOL!
Be careful. I really do think better of most of you. Nothing happens up here at the top for no reason.
People are throwing about screenshots- so this is the truth here for any member who feels uneasy that Cancer was "working with" shady members to fix something. Everything comes out in the wash. As I told someone earlier- every member here is judged by the same yardstick. I kiss no one's ass and I only make decisions based on a set of rules Cancer has in place- and beyond that, having gotten to know him after 13+ years, I will make decisions I feel he would if he is not here. Today a couple people tried to pull one over on me- people who manipulated the system, had their actions reverted, and then messaged him as innocents. When it all came down- Cancer listened to the whole thing and agreed these people were wrong and deserved a time out from Vampire Rave.
These people thought they'd came between Cancer and I and "won"- that didn't happen. There was never a competition. He trusts me because I am honest with him and have never taken advantage of him. If I were the type to do something like that- these people wouldn't be here at all.
Don't fear this system. WE ARE FAIR.
That situation became a clusterfuck quickly.
I knew something wasn't right with Hell when one of the other Assistant Coven Masters talked about 2 members quite literally being missing so I used what resources I had to get to the bottom of it. Cat was very helpful in this as well as she was the one who actually got everything. Perhaps the second chance I got there isn't a deserved one, but I have every intention to make the most of it.
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