COMPASSION FOR THE HOMELESS
08:56 Jul 31 2014
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THIS REALLY TOUCHED ME. IF ONLY WE COULD ALL FIND WAYS TO BE COMPASSIONATE TO THOSE LESS FORTUNATE THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE. EVEN ONE KIND ACTION OR A KIND WORD CAN MAKE SUCH A POSTIVE DIFFERENCE TO SOMEONE WHO IS HAVING A HARD TIME.
ONLINE AND PERSONAL SAFETY
10:49 Jul 08 2014
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ONLINE SAFETY AND PERSONAL SAFETY.
NEVER GIVE YOUR PERSONAL DETAILS
LIKE YOUR HOME ADDRESS PHONE DETAILS ETC UNLESS IT'S A PREPAID CELL PHONE.
ALSO IF YOU KNOW ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS PLANS TO MEET SOMEONE ALONE FOR THE FIRST TIME, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE A MINOR AND UNDER 18, TELL THEIR PARENTS IF THEY WONT -DONT LET THEM FALL INTO THE HANDS OF A VICIOUS RAPIST THUG OR MURDERER. ITS BETTER THEY YELL AT YOU AND ARE ALIVE, THEN YOU SEEING THEM FOR THE LAST TIME DEAD IN A COFFIN OR BODY BAG.
WHEN OUT EATING WITH ANYONE YOU DONT KNOW WELL OR HAVE JUST MET FOR THE FIRST TIME, DONT LEAVE YOUR FOOD/DRINK UNATTENDED . IF YOU NEED TO GO TO THE BATHROOM, WHEN YOU COME BACK, ALWAYS ORDER A NEW DRINK OR FOOD SO THAT YOU DONT BECOME A VICTIM OF YOUR FOOD/DRINK BEING SPIKED, MANY PEOPLE HAVE DIED DUE TO THEIR FOOD AND DRINK BEING SPIKED. ALSO IF YOU SUDDENLY NOTICE YOUR FOOD /DRINK TASTES WEIRD STOP AND DONT EAT OR DRINK ANYMORE OF IT. IF YOU SUDDENLY BEGIN TO FEEL VERY UNWELL DIZZY ETC CHANCES ARE YOUR FOOD /DRINK MY HAVE BEEN SPIKED .. CALL 911 AND GET THE PARAMEDICS NOW!
NEVER MEET ANYONE YOU HAVE BEEN SPEAKING TO ONLINE ALONE AND NEVER INVITE THEM TO YOUR HOME UNTIL YOU KNOW THEM WELL.
ALWAYS KEEP A FULLY CHARGED CELL PHONE AND SOME MONEY WITH YOU AT ALL TIMES
IF THE PERSON APPEARS MENTALLY ILL DRUNK OR HIGH ON DRUGS OR AGRESSIVE OR YOU OBSERVE A WEAPON ON THEM THEN RUN!
IF ANY OF THEIR BEHAVIOUR MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE LEAVE STRAIGHT AWAY AND CALL A FRIEND TO LET THEM KNOW
IF YOU CHANGE YOUR PLANS ON WHERE YOU WILL MEET OR WHAT YOU ARE DOING, THEN LET A FRIENDOR FAMILY MEMBER KNOW SO THEY KNOW WHERE TO START LOOKING FOR YOU SHOULD THEY NEED TO.
IF YOU CAN AND YOU HAVE LAW ENFORCEMENT FRIENDS GIVE THEM THE PERSON'S DETAILS THAT YOU ARE MEETING AND ASK THEM TO RUN A BACKGROUND CHECK ON THEM, AND IF THEY COME BACK WITH ANY VIOLENT OR ACUTE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES CANCEL THE MEETING AND HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM
ALWAYS ASK FOR THEIR PERSONAL DETAILS -IE HOME ADDRESS PHONE NUMBER WORK DETAILS DATE OF BIRTH ETC IF POSSIBLE HAVE THEM VERIFIED BY A CONTACT IN LAW ENFORCEMENT. IF THEY WANT YOUR PERSONAL DETAILS BUT REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THEIRS, THEN RUN AWAY FAST!
ALWAYS MAKE YOUR PERSONAL BOUNDARIES CLEAR AND IF THE PERSON DOESNT RESPECT THEM THEN, GET OUT FAST AND NOW. WHILE YOU STILL CAN..
PERSONAL SAFETY
. IF YOU ARE UNDER18 OR EVEN OVER 18 TELL SOMEONE ,ESPECIALLY YOUR PARENTS IF SOMEONE WANTS TO MEET YOU. NEVER GO ALONE ONLY SEE THEM WITH AN ADULT IN A PUBLIC PLACE .I F YOU ARE OVER 18 TAKE AT LEAST TWO OTHER ADULT FRIENDS AS THERE IS SAFETY AND STRENGTH IN NUMBERS. EVEN AN ADULT CAN BE OVER POWERED AND ATTACKED. ALSO IF THEY SUGGEST /INSIST ON MEETING THEM IN SECRET ALONE RUN AWAY FAST!
ALSO IF YOU KNOW ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS PLANS TO MEET SOMEONE ALONE FOR THE FIRST TIME, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE A MINOR AND UNDER 18 TELL THEIR PARENTS IF THEY WONT -DONT LET THEM FALL INTO THE HANDS OF A VICIOUS RAPIST THUG OR MURDERER. ITS BETTER THEY YELL AT YOU AND ARE ALIVE, THEN YOU SEEING THEM FOR THE LAST TIME DEAD IN A COFFIN OR BODY BAG.
A TIP FROM TAE KWON DO: THE ELBOW IS THE STRONGEST POINT ON YOUR BODY. IF YOU ARE CLOSE ENOUGH TO USE IT DO SO..
2. IF A THUG DEMANDS YOUR WALLET /CELL PHONE/ETC DONT MAKE IT EASY AND HAND IT TO HIM THROW IT AS FAR AWAY FROM YOU AS POSSIBLE . CHANCES ARE THE THUG IS FAR MORE INTERESTED IN YOUR WALLET/CELL PHONE/ETC... RUN IN THE IN OTHER DIRECTION AND THEN GO FOR HELP.
3. IF YOU ARE EVER THROWN INTO THE TRUNK OF A CAR, KICK OUT THE BACK TAIL LIGHTS AND STICK YOUR ARM/FOOT OUT THE HOLE AND START WAVING LIKE CRAZY. THE DRIVER WONT SEE YOU BUT OTHERS WILL AND THIS HAS SAVED LIVES.
4.WOMEN HAVE A TENDENCY TO GET INTO THEIR CARS AFTER SHOPPING/WORKING /ETC, AND THEY SIT THERE DOING THEIR CHECKBOOK MAKING LIST'S READING MAIL ETC. DONT DO THIS AS YOU CAN GIVE A PREDATOR/THUG THE PERFECT CHANCE TO ATTACK YOU. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR LEAVE.IF SOMEONE GETS IN YOUR CAR DONT DRIVE OFF ,INSTEAD CRASH YOUR CAR INTO SOMETHING . YOUR AIR BAG SHOULD PROTECT YOU AND IF THE PERSON IS IN THE FRONT PASSENGER SEAT OR IN THE BACK THEY WILL BE CRITICALLY INJURED. AS SOON AS YOU THE CAR CRASHES JUMP OUT AND RUN!
5. A FEW NOTES ABOUT GETTING INTO YOUR CAR IN A PARKING LOT OR GARAGE.BE VERY AWARE AND LOOK AROUND YOU IN YOUR PASSENGER SIDE IN THE BACK SEAT AND THE FLOOR AND DONT KEEP ANYTHING LIKE A RUG IN YOUR CAR THAT SOMEONE COULD USE TO HIDE UNDER IN YOUR CAR AND KEEP YOUR CAR ALWAYS LOCKED,EVEN WHEN YOUR DRIVING.
IF YOU ARE PARKED NEXT TO A HUGE VAN,ENTER FROM THE PASSENGER SIDE ONLY AS MOST THUGS/PREDATORS ATTACK THEIR VICTIMS BY PULLING THEM INTO THEIR VANS WHILE THE PERSON WAS ATTEMPTING TO GET IN TO THEIR CARS.
ALSO LOOK AT THE CARS THAT ARE PARKED ON BOTH SIDES OF YOUR VEHICLE AND IF A MALE IS SITTING IN THEM ALONE GO GET A SECURITY GUARD OR A POLICEMAN TO WALK YOU BACK TO YOUR CAR ESPECIALLY AT NIGHT. DONT TAKE CHANCES WITH YOUR SAFETY, BE WISE AND PLAY IT SAFE..
WHEN OUT EATING WITH ANYONE YOU DONT KNOW WELL OR HAVE JUST MET FOR THE FIRST TIME DONT LEAVE YOUR FOOD/DRINK UNATTENDED . IF YOU NEED TO GO TO THE BATHROOM WHEN YOU COMEBACK ORDER A NEW DRINK OR FOOD SO THAT YOU DONT BECOME A VICTIM OF YOUR FOOD/DRINK BEING SPIKED, MANY PEOPLE HAVE DIED DUE TO THEIR FOOD AND DRINK BEING SPIKED, ALSO IF YOU SUDDENLY NOTICE YOUR FOOD /DRINK TASTES WEIRD STOP AND DONT LET ANYMORE OR IT. IF YOU SUDDENLY BEGIN TO FEEL VERY UNWELL DIZZY ETC CHANCES ARE YOUR FOOD /DRINK MY HAVE BEEN SPIKED .. CALL 911 AND GET THE PARAMEDICS NOW!
ARRIVE AND LEAVE SEPARATELY DONT ALLOW THEM TO GIVE YOU A LIFT .
DONT DRINK ALCOHOL OR TAKE ANY DRUGS AND STAY SOBER SO THAT YOU STAY SAFE.
IF THEIR BEHAVIOUR MAKES YOU FEEL AFRAID RUN AWAY FAST!
IF THE PERSON APPEARS MENTALLY ILL DRUNK OR HIGH ON DRUGS OR YOU OBSERVE A WEAPON ON THEM THEN RUN AWAY FAST!
IF YOU CHANGE YOUR PLANS ON WHERE YOU WILL MEET OR WHAT YOU ARE DOING, THEN LET A FRIEND FAMILY MEMBER KNOW SO THEY KNOW WHERE TO START LOOKING FOR YOU SHOULD THEY NEED TO
IF MEETING THEM FOR THE FIRST TIME ARRANGE TO HAVE SOME OTHER FRIENDS WITH YOU THERE IS SAFETY IN NUMBERS ND MOST THUGS WHO ATTACK SOMEONE DONT WANT WITNESSES AROUND FOR OBVIOUS REASONS.
IF YOU CAN AND YOU HAVE LAW ENFORCEMENT FRIENDS GIVE THEM THE PERSON'S DETAILS THAT YOU ARE MEETING AND ASK THEM TO RUN A BACKGROUND CHECK ON THEM AND IF THEY COME BACK WITH ANY VIOLENT OR ACUTE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES CANCEL THE MEETING AND HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM.
ALWAYS ASK FOR THEIR PERSONAL DETAILS -IE HOME ADDRESS PHONE NUMBER WORK DETAILS DATE OF BIRTH ETC IF POSSIBLE HAVE THEM VERIFIED BY A CONTACT IN LAW ENFORCEMENT. IF THEY WANT YOUR PERSONAL DETAILS BUT REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THEIRS, THEN RUN AWAY FAST!
ALWAYS ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INTUITION IF YOU FEEL UNEASY TRUST YOURSELF AND DONT MEET UP WITH THEM. IF IN DOUBT THEN DONT!
ALWAYS MAKE YOUR PERSONAL BOUNDARIES CLEAR AND IF THE PERSON DOESNT RESPECT THEM THEN GET OUT FAST AND NOW.
WHILE YOU STILL CAN..
PLEASE LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE SAID HERE CAREFULLY AS I DONT WANT TO BE READING ABOUT YOUR RAPE OR MURDER OR VIOLENT ASSAULT IN THE NEWSPAPER OR HEAR ABOUT IT ON THE NIGHTLY NEWS.
ALSO IF YOU KNOW ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS PLANS TO MEET SOMEONE ALONE FOR THE FIRST TIME, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE A MINOR AND UNDER 18 TELL THEIR PARENTS IF THEY WONT -DONT LET THEM FALL INTO THE HANDS OF A VICIOUS RAPIST THUG OR MURDERER. ITS BETTER THEY YELL AT YOU AND ARE ALIVE, THEN YOU SEEING THEM FOR THE LAST TIME DEAD IN A COFFIN OR BODY BAG.
ALSO IF YOU ARE UNFORTUNATE ENOUGH TO BE ATTACKED RAPED OR HARMED GO GET HELP AND CHARGE THEM! THAT WAY YOU LESSEN THE CHANCE THAT THEY CAN DO THIS TO SOME ONE ELSE AND YOU CAN THEN START THE HEALING PROCESS. NO MAN WOMAN OR CHILD EVER DESERVES TO BE HARMED EVER..
ONLINE SAFETY IN CHAT ROOMS FOR KIDS AND ADULTS
NEVER GIVE OT YOUR PERSONAL DETAILS OR YOUR REAL NAME UNLESS YOU REALLY KNOW THE PERSON WELL.
PERSONALLY I FEEL KIDS SHOULD ONLY BE ALLOWED IN CHAT ROOMS ONCE THEY ARE 15 YEARS OF AGE AND ONLY IF THEY HAVE A COMPETENT ADULT SUPERVISING THEM WHO HAS ALL THEIR PROFILE/ EMAIL/ WEBSITE/ PASSWORDS.
IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN WHO ARE ONLINE MAKE SUE THAT YOU HAVE ALL THEIR ONLINE SCREEN LOG IN DETAILS PASSWORD REGUALAR WEBSITES THEY VISIT AND CHECK THEIR EMAIL WEB PAGES PROFILES REGUARLY WITHOUT WARNING AND IF THY HAVE BROKEN YOUR SAFETY RULES OR THEY ARE RECIEVING INAPPROPRIATE MAIL ETC THEN SUSPEND THEIR USE STRAIGHT AWAY.
KEEP ALL FAMILY COMPUTERS USED BY CHILDREN AND TEENAGERS IN A SHARED AREA OF YOUR HOME, SO THAT YOU CAN MONITOR WHAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE DOING ONLINE.
TEACH YOUR KIDS TO COME TO YOU WITH ALL THEIR ISSUED BY BEING KIND LOVING AND MOST IMPORTANT UN JUDGMENTAL. THAT WAY IF THEY ARE HAVING PROBLEMS WITH CYBERBULLYING ETC THEY WILL COME TO YOU .
TEACH AND ROLE MODEL APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOUR SO THAT YOUR CHILDREN TEENAGERS AND FAMILY MEMBERS DONT BECOME CYBER BULLIES. IF YOU CATCH THEM BULLYING REMOVE THEIR INTERNET ACCESS AS NOT ONLY IS CYBER BULLYING IMMORAL IT IS ALSO ILLEGAL.
NEVER SEND PHOTOS OF YOURSELF TO ANYONE THAT ARE NUDE ETC AS YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN THEY COULD BE USED AGAINST YOU AND PUT UP ON THE INTERNET SOMEWHERE, CAUSING YOU TO LOSE YOUR JOB FRIENDS GREAT EMBARESSMENT OR EVEN TO LOSE YOUR LIFE.
NEVER NEVER EVER GIVE YOUR PASSWORDS FOR ANY OF YOUR ACCOUNTS TO ANYONE EXCEPT YOUR PARENTS AS THEY COULD DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT SEND NASTY MESSAGES CYBER BULLY AND AS YOU AER RHE ACCOUNT HOLDER IT IS YOU THAT CAN BE CHARGED AND WHO WILL GET THE BLAME AS IT IS YOUR ACCOUNT. IGNORANCE IS NO EXCUSE INTHE EYES OF THE LAW!
TRY NOT TO DO INTERNET BANKING OR FINANCIAL TRANSACTIONS ONLINE, AS YOU CAN BE HACKED INTO AND LOSE ALL YOUR MONEY.
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