~Love Me Or Hate Me. Either Way, You're Thinking About Me~
If you message me, the name I go by is ~Ms. Fancy~
I owe DMZ a lot for surprising me with this Premium Membership. Thanks DMZ! *hugs and kisses*
This is Bob... Bob says, "If You Hurt Her, I Use My Mad Ninja/Army Skills to Blow Your Head Off". Say Hi To Bob
~My Introduction~
I am not gothic at all. I love pink, I love cute little frilly things, and I am not Emo. Stereotypes I know. I do not believe in Vampires or werewolves or any mystical creature of that nature. It is a fun concept to imagine these beings but alas, you have to face reality at some point in time.
I live with my mother. Unfortunately, I don't have a job and am a struggling college student. (Psych Major). Also had a mild car accident in 2008 so I am still recovering from that. Nothing serious. Just aches and pains.
I am an intelligent young woman and would appreciate it if people treated me as such. I find it demeaning when one messages you asking for sexual favors. I am not that type of gal and would hope you respect that.
I am a very possessive woman. What mine is mine. I tend to take control over social matters. And I definitely do not play well with others who like to be in charge of things. We tend to butt heads and I get my way anyway.
I am 19 years old. I have big beautiful brown eyes that are hidden behind glasses and nice full lips. I am about 350 lbs. I live in California. Was born and raised here. I love it. I am from a very very small town in Northern California that most people have never heard of. I had a really screwed up childhood, as have many people. I do not act my age. I normally act older. I am serious and contemplative.
~VR Family and Friends~
angelofdarkness is my best friend. She means the world to me. You hurt her in anyway, and there will be hell to pay!
LascivoCuore is a very good friend of mine. She has stuck up for me many times from a lot of the jealous females on VR. She is a sweetie and if I could do anything for her, I would.
BlackrocWarloc is probably the best man I have ever met. He's sweet, caring, handsome, and my LUMPY! Only LascivoCuore and I can call him Lumpy!
~Annoyances~
I find it annoying when people I do not know add me to their friend's list. But that can not be helped. Just know it annoys me. I am not a very friendly person to women, so if you are a woman and you do message me.... expect something not so nice. Fair WARNING.
I can not stand people who do not spell correctly. Did you choose to be stupid, or were you genetically pre-destined to be? Learn to spell and use proper grammar. Then you may speak to Me.
I can't stand people who make a mockery of the BDSM lifestyle. Now, I'm not saying that I live the lifestyle, but I am an avid participant. When people are online talking about their "pets" and their "Masters/Mistresses" that they have never met before... it sickens me to the core. Get a life you idiots. Just because you may like bondage or roleplay/have cyber sex...does NOT mean you are a Master/Mistress. Read up on BDSM and the lifestyle.
Online relationships really bug me. It's one thing to tell someone you care about them. But a whole different thing to declare your undying love for someone you've never met face to face. How can you fall in love with words or a voice?
These little girls on here who like to play like they are older. And even worse, the guys who decide that just because they are online, they won't get into trouble for having cyber sex with this 15 year old girl. NEWSFLASH! On the internet, AOC is 18 across the board. Fucking pedophiliac monsters.
~My Thoughts On Suicide~
When I was a few years younger, I thought everything revolved around me. And honestly, sometimes I still do. I get pissy when things don't go my way, but my brain is slowly maturing.
At the Age of 16, I tried to kill myself. A few times. The first time was over a guy who abused (mentally and physically) me, and who broke up with me. I thought I would never ever get over him. The second time, was over another guy. One from VR. How stupid I was.
The third time, I had lost my unborn child. The man who had abused me got me pregnant. I was so happy because I had the most wonderful thing growing inside of me. Him and I were no longer together, and I would have never told my child who its father was. But I was still happy. I fell down a flight of stairs. I was thrown into a deep deep depression and overdosed on OxyCotton. Luckily, my ex-sister-in-law found me before my nieces did.
While in the hospital, I talked to Mental Health, pastors, counselors and family members. I realized I was being selfish and weak.
To take your own life is trying to escape so YOU don't feel the pain. What about the people who love and care about you? What will you leave them with? Your possessions and the memory of you lying on the floor, white as a ghost, your wrists cut and blood everywhere? That was not fair to them.
To take your own life is the weak way out. Instead of facing your problems, and getting help... You chicken out and leave everyone else holding the bag.
~My Thoughts on covens~
Covens are not such bad places if you give them a chance. I dislike being in a coven, but that's how VR works. So suck it up and get over it. Most of these people are pretty cool. Of course, you'll get a few coven masters in which VR is the center of their world, thus expect you to earn favor, post in forums etc... every minute.
Overall though, Covens are pretty cool. I can't wait until I start my own. It'll be the most hated coven of them all! hehe.
~Rating~
I use all the numbers in the rating system. If you don't like it, you may ask me for a re-rate. But I will still give you what I think you deserve.
~If I have to scroll for hours to get to the bottom, you will get nothing higher than an 6.
~If you have graphics upon graphics with barely any writing, you will get no more than a 5.
~If you are a new member and have tried to add things to your profile right off... I will take that into consideration and rate you a bit higher.
~If you claim you are anything but human, you get an automatic 1.
~If you claim you are someone who you are not (ie. Movie Star, Celebrety, bodybuilder etc...) you get a 1. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. I will NOT re-rate.
~If your text blends into your background and I am unable to read it, you will not get over a 5. Normally.
It seems that Premium Members feel they are entitled to a 10 rating. That just is not so when it comes to me. No matter if you are premium member or a regular member, You get what I think your profile deserves. Same goes for Staff. Give me whatever you like. It doesn't really matter. A higher number is great, but a lower number isn't going to make me cry in a corner like most of the people here.
Feel Free to add me. But it does not mean that I am going to add you. I don't like shit to be bulky, and adding 100 of you people that I don't know, don't like, or don't talk to, seems pointless.
Music has been my life since I was real young. I love all types. I was addicted to Boot Scootin' Boogey when it came out. My mother said I wouldn't go to sleep without a car ride and the song. *giggles*
I remember growing up to country music and Keith Sweat. That man had a sexy ass voice. When I was about 10, I started getting into rock. I also was in band from 10 to 16. I played the tenor saxophone. Man was it beautiful
~Hell Yeah, I'm Into It~
I am a submissive woman. Please do not confuse that with weak. I relinguish my own self control to One who I choose.
BDSM is a compound acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&s, D/s, or Ds), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM).
BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always eroticized by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of conventional sexual activities and human relationships.
BDSM encompasses many activities, including — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions.
An important distinction is that BDSM is not a form of sexual abuse — although some BDSM activities may appear to be violent or coercive, such activities are conducted with the consent of all partners involved. BDSM relationships and practices are exercised under the philosophy of "safe, sane and consensual" (SSC), or the somewhat more permissive philosophy of "risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK).
Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active — applying the activity or exercising control over others — are known as tops or Dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles—either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship—are known as S/switches.
BDSM is often practiced within the context of a limited and defined encounter known as a BDSM scene. Such scenes often have ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior, forms of address, codes of conduct, dress codes, and many other aspects of theater and role playing. As such encounters are often, but not always, at least partly sexual in nature, people outside of BDSM have a tendency to view it as a form of "kinky sex".
Some participants incorporate aspects of BDSM into their everyday relationship(s) with their partner(s), especially those who practice dominance and submission or power exchange (especially Total Power Exchange). For these individuals, BDSM is part of their lifestyle and in some discussions is referred to as "The Lifestyle".
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