*I am easily annoyed
*I don't care what your assumptions of me are
*I use to go by the name NocturnalMistress
*I am married, a mother, and not looking
*I am a Gemini
*I can be hostile, moody, loud, and opinionated
*I am an Army veteran
*I only like a very small amount of people on this site
*I don't like messages from people who cannot spell and are unable to grasp what "fuck off" means
*I am naturally a red head

Let’s start this spew of words that is suppose open the mind to others as to who I am, shall we?
I am far from new to this site. I’ve been a member with this account for a decade and counting. I’ve been under other names, most notably “NocturnalMistress”. It changed, along with me, over the years. I went with a name that was mine, but not mine. Those who know my real name, understand my username. There are very few people who I count as friends here, and even fewer who I talk to outside of VR. I once was a very active member on here, but with time that changed. I went from a publicly active person to more of a reclusive person, as per my nature. I fluctuate with how I feel.
I guess this is where I tell you about “me”, eh?
I am an Army veteran, a mother, a wife, and a devote enthusiastic lover of literature, nature, art, and music. I am originally from Boston, Massachusetts but moved to Northern Texas on February 28th, 2014. I have since resided in Texas. I am a mother of an incredibly bright and intelligent eight-year-old boy and the step mother to an incredibly active and bright eleven-year-old daughter. I used to run the Ghost Tours in Dallas but gave that up in 2018 when the tours started to bore me. I am a Chef by trade, but that isn’t my only skillset. Prior to my father passing in 2010, he taught me everything a person needed to know in order to personally fix their own home and vehicles. I’ve held contractor licenses for repairs on both commercial and private properties, have worked as a mechanic, and as a landscaper and roofer, to name a few extra jobs outside of the Service Industry. In SI I have held every job possible outside of owning my own joint.
I can be moody. If a person bores me I will either ignore them to avoid being annoyed or ask them to go away. I have no time for games, as I lead a very busy life, and don’t dwell with online drama. Whether I am popular or not, doesn’t bother me. I don’t need friends to enjoy this site, but I do have a few. Other’s opinions of me don’t matter and I find it laughable when one assumes that it does. Hate me or love me, I still go about my day with no issues.
If you message me stupid shit, I will ridicule you. Don't like it? Good. Maybe that will persuade the dimwits out there to leave me be. ;)

This list will be forever updating. For now, here are some:
Nature/Camping
History/Documentaries
Live Steel Martial Arts
Cooking/Baking
Dancing in the rain
Concerts
Bar scenes (drunk people can be amusing)
Working/Crafting
Crotcheting
Wood work/carpentry
Sculpting
Painting
Drawing
Wood burning/Carving
Paint pouring
Writing
Photography
Dark, spooky things
Animals
Children and their safety
Traveling
Art museums
Ah... Another section of things that will forever be changing.
For now, my favorite painting ever is "Starry Night" by the Dutch painter Vincent van Gogh from 1889.

If you feel you must message me, make sure your grammar and spelling doesn't suck. I ignore messages containing that nature and please be original. I have biting blocked so if you send me a "bite", regardless of how original you may seem to think it is, I will just automatically block you.