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Wow. This one's a crock. I HATE when people depend on me. It makes me let them down on purpose, LOL!

05:28 Feb 26 2007
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You scored as Sorceress. Your a sorceress. You cast a spell on people the first time you meet them, and you love for them to depend on you. You get upset when things don't go your way. Well, guess what, your in for a shock, 'cause you don't always get what you want.

Sorceress

100%

Dragon

92%

Drow

92%

Elf

83%

Goddess

75%

Wolf

67%

Zombie

33%

Faerie

25%

Vampyre

25%

Shadow Spirit

0%

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What is your Egyptian Zodiac?

05:01 Feb 26 2007
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Isis





Honorable, straightforward and idealistic. Active and self-confident.


Colors: male: white, female: blue
Compatible Signs:
Osiris, Thoth
Dates:
Mar 11 - Mar 31, Oct 18 - Oct 29, Dec 19 - Dec 31


Role: Goddess of motherhood, women, and magic; goddess of the South; protector of Imseti (the son of Horus who watched over the canopic jar containing the liver)
Appearance:
Woman wearing the hieroglyph for "throne" on her head



What is Your Egyptian Zodiac Sign?
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Snow

01:51 Feb 19 2007
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I LOVE the snow; don't you?



Well, for those of us from the West to the East that are experiencing snow right now, let's all stay safe and warm!



Speaking of safe... Let me tell you about this guy I saw driving today. Chris (Euphoric_Death to those of you not in the know) and I were driving around, running some errands today and got caught at a red light. So we sat there and watched this dude at the cross-section. He drove into a snow bank, backed out and then drove right back up on that snow bank. Know what we did? Drove right by him because the second time, he looked right at the damn snow bank and drove right into it!!!



And let's not forget those people who think red lights don't apply to them.



In December, during the snow/ice storm, and now again in February, during our blizzard, I sat at a specific intersection (on my way to work) and watched people pause at their red light and then just go on. This is especially dangerous during a blizzard - white out conditions and not all people are smart enough to turn their headlamps on. What if a white care with no lights is coming and they have a green light?



The world is full of idiots. Unfortunately, I seem to speak to most of them on a daily basis.



And then I come on here and there they are again. Woo. Hoo!


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Is there salvation in the tub?

15:12 Feb 15 2007
Times Read: 667


I know; you think I'm off my rocker. Well, maybe I am. Unless you know me personally and have a PhD after your name, that's not really your call, is it?



But seriously, is there salvation in the tub?



My cat LOVES the tub. Well, if there's no water in it. I was in the bathroom last night and he came running in - and lept about 5 feet into the tub.



While Peter loves to be held and petted, he seems to love even more to just be in the tub.



This got me thinking; don't we ALL love to be in the tub? Granted, most of us prefer showers for getting clean, but we all enjoy a good soak in hot water.



It relaxes us, it soothes us, it comforts us. A lot of us are water signs; we have an affinity to water. Some of the more eclectic vampires can feed from water.



Religious groups baptise with water. Some with dribbles, some with pools, others with rivers and lakes. The Catholics have holy water; isn't that water that's blessed?



So, it seems inherent in humanity that water and salvation go hand in hand.



I say yes, there is salvation in the tub. What do YOU think?



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St Valentine's Day

03:07 Feb 15 2007
Times Read: 668


Earlier I saw some jawing in "the box" about St Valentine's Day and two people making asses of themselves arguing about it...



We all know there are a few various different stories about the origins of this day.



Did anyone study this before spouting? Here's what I've seen posted:





Saint Valentine's Day or Valentine's Day is on February 14. It is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other; sending Valentine's cards or candy. It is very common to present flowers on Valentine's Day. The holiday is named after two men, both Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.



The day is most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of "valentines." Modern Valentine symbols include the heart-shaped outline and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten notes have largely given way to mass-produced greeting cards. The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines are sent each year worldwide, making the day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year behind Christmas. The association estimates that women purchase approximately 85 percent of all valentines.[citation needed]

Contents



* 1 History

o 1.1 February fertility festivals

o 1.2 Chaucer's love birds

o 1.3 Medieval and modern times

o 1.4 Valentine's Day in North America

* 2 Valentine's Day and its equivalents in other cultures

* 3 References

* 4 See also



History



February fertility festivals



On the ancient Athens calendar, the period between mid-January and mid-February was the month of Gamelion, dedicated to the sacred marriage of Zeus and Hera.



In Ancient Rome, February 15 was Lupercalia. Plutarch wrote:



Lupercalia, of which many write that it was anciently celebrated by shepherds, and has also some connection with the Arcadian Lycaea. At this time many of the noble youths and of the magistrates run up and down through the city naked, for sport and laughter striking those they meet with shaggy thongs. And many women of rank also purposely get in their way, and like children at school present their hands to be struck, believing that the pregnant will thus be helped in delivery, and the barren to pregnancy.[3]



The word Lupercalia comes from lupus, or wolf, so the holiday may be connected with the legendary wolf that suckled Romulus and Remus. Priests of this cult, luperci would travel to the lupercal, the cave where the she-wolf who reared Romulus and Remus allegedly lived, and sacrifice animals (two goats and a dog). The blood would then be scattered in the streets, to bring fertility and keep the wolves away from the fields. [4] Lupercalia was a festival local to the city of Rome. The more general Festival of Juno Februa, meaning "Juno the purifier "or "the chaste Juno," was celebrated on February 13-14. Pope Gelasius I (492-496) abolished Lupercalia. Some historians argue that Candlemas (then held on February 14, later moved to February 2) was promoted as its replacement, but this feast was already being celebrated in Jerusalem by AD 381. The pope also declared in 496 that the feast of St. Valentine would be on February 14.



Chaucer's love birds

A portrait of English poet Geoffrey Chaucer by Thomas Hoccleve (1412). The earliest known link between Valentine's Day and romance is found in Chaucer's poetry.

A portrait of English poet Geoffrey Chaucer by Thomas Hoccleve (1412). The earliest known link between Valentine's Day and romance is found in Chaucer's poetry.



The first recorded association of Valentine's Day with romantic love is in Parlement of Foules (1382) by Geoffrey Chaucer:[1]



For this was on seynt Volantynys day

Whan euery bryd comyth there to chese [chose] his make [mate].



This poem was written to honor the first anniversary of the engagement of King Richard II of England to Anne of Bohemia[5]. A treaty providing for a marriage was signed on May 2, 1381.[6] (When they were married eight months later, he was 13 or 14. She was 14.)



Chaucer's Parliament of Foules is generally set in a supposed context of an old tradition, but in fact there was no such tradition before Chaucer. The speculative explanation of sentimental customs, posing as historical fact, had their origins among eighteenth-century antiquaries, notably Alban Butler, the author of Butler's Lives of Saints, and have been perpetuated even by respectable modern scholars. Most notably, "the idea that Valentin'e Day customed perpetuated those of the Roman Lupercalia has been accepted uncritically and repeated, in various forms, up to the present"[2]



On the liturgical calendar, May 2 is the saints' day for Valentine of Genoa. This St. Valentine was an early bishop of Genoa who died around AD 307.[7][8] Readers incorrectly assumed that Chaucer was referring to February 14 as Valentine's Day. However, mid-February is an unlikely time for birds to be mating in England.[3]



Medieval and modern times

Swedish calendar showing St Valentine's Day, February 14, 1712

Swedish calendar showing St Valentine's Day, February 14, 1712



Using the language of the law courts for the rituals of courtly love, a "High Court of Love" was established in Paris on Valentine's Day in 1400. The court dealt with love contracts, betrayals, and violence against women. Judges were selected by women on the basis of a poetry reading.[9][10]



The earliest surviving valentine dates from 1415. It is a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife. At the time, the duke was being held in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt [11].



It is probable that the various legends about St. Valentine were invented during this period. Among these legends:



* On the evening before Valentine was to be martyred for being a Christian, he passed a love note to his jailer's daughter that read, "From your Valentine."



* During a ban on marriages of Roman soldiers by the Emperor Claudius II, St. Valentine secretly helped arrange marriages.[12]



Valentine's Day is mentioned by the character Ophelia in Hamlet: "Tomorrow is Saint Valentine's Day."



In 1836, relics of St. Valentine of Rome were donated by Pope Gregory XVI to the Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland. In the 1960s, the church was renovated and relics restored to prominence.[13]



In 1969, as part of a larger effort to pare down the number of saint days of purely legendary origin, the Church removed St. Valentine's Day as an official holiday from its calendar however within the Church the day is still marked by some local communities and by over 1 Million Traditionalist Catholics throughout the world.



Valentine's Day in North America

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Valentine's Day postcard, circa 1910

Valentine's Day postcard, circa 1910



Valentine's Day was probably imported into North America in the 19th century by British settlers. In the United States, the first mass-produced valentines of embossed paper lace were produced and sold shortly after 1847 by Esther Howland (1828-1904) of Worcester, Massachusetts. Her father operated a large book and stationery store, and she took her inspiration from an English valentine she had received. Since 2001, the Greeting Card Association has been giving an annual "Esther Howland Award for a Greeting Card Visionary."



In the second half of the 20th century, the practice of exchanging cards was extended to all manners of gifts in the United States, usually from a man to a woman. Such gifts typically include roses and chocolates. In the 1980s, the diamond industry began to promote Valentine's Day as an occasion for giving jewelry.



The day has come to be associated with a generic platonic greeting of "Happy Valentine's Day."



In some North American elementary schools, students are asked to give a Valentine card or small gift to everyone in the class. The greeting cards of these students often mention what they appreciate about each other.



Valentine's Day and its equivalents in other cultures

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Part of a series on Love

Historically

Courtly love

Religious love

Types of Emotion

Erotic love

Platonic love

Familial love

Puppy love

Romantic love

See Also

Unrequited love

Problem of love

Celibacy

Sexuality

Sex

Valentine's Day



Thanks to a concentrated marketing effort, Valentine's Day has emerged in Japan and Korea as a day on which women, and less commonly men, give candy, chocolate or flowers to people they like. This has become an obligation for many women. Those who work in offices end up giving chocolates to all their male co-workers, sometimes at significant personal expense. This chocolate is known as giri-choko (義理チョコ), in Japan, from the words giri ("obligation") and choko, a common short version of chokorēto (チョコレート), meaning "chocolate". This contrasts with honmei-choko, which is given to a person someone loves or has a strong relationship with. Friends, especially girls, exchange chocolate that is referred to as tomo-choko (友チョコ); tomo means "friend" in Japanese.



By a further marketing effort, a reciprocal day called White Day has emerged. On March 14, men are expected to return the favour to those who gave them chocolates on Valentine's Day. Many men, however, give only to their girlfriends. Originally, the return gift was supposed to be white chocolate or marshmallows; hence "White Day". However, men have interpreted the name differently and lingerie has become a common gift.



In Korea, there is an additional Black Day on April 14, when those who did not receive anything for Valentine's Day or have anyone to give a gift to gather together to eat Jajangmyun (Chinese-style noodles in black sauce). In South Korea, there is also Pepero Day, celebrated on November 11, during which young couples give each other romantic gifts.



In Chinese Culture, there is a similar counterpart of the Valentine's Day. It is called "The Night of Sevens" (七夕), according to legend the Cowherd and the Weaver Maid meet in Heaven on the 7th day of the 7th month of the lunar calendar. The last "Night of Sevens" was on August 30, 2006. A slightly different version of this day is celebrated in Japan as Tanabata, on July 7th on the solar calendar.



In Egypt, there is another love day which is on November 4 each year. It is called "The Egyptian Love Day".



In France, a traditionally Catholic country, Valentine's Day is known simply as "Saint Valentin." It is celebrated in much the same way as it is celebrated in the US.



In Persian culture (Iran) Sepandarmazgan is a day for love, which is on 29 Bahman in the jalali solar calendar. The corresponding date in the Gregorian calendar is 17 February. Sepandarmazgan were held in the Great Persian Empire in the 20th century BC.



According to Jewish tradition the 15th day of the month of Av - Tu B'Av (usually late August) is the festival of love (hag haahava). In ancient times girls would wear white dresses and dance in the vineyards, where the boys would be waiting for them (Mishna Taanith end of Chapter 4). In modern Israeli culture this is a popular day to pronounce love, propose marriage and give gifts like cards or flowers.



In Brazil, the Dia dos Namorados (lit. "Day of the enamored", or "Boyfriend's/Girlfriend's Day") is celebrated on June 12, when couples exchange gifts such as chocolates, cards and usually a flower bouquet. This day is chosen probably because it is the day before the Saint Anthony's day, known there as the marriage saint, when many single women perform popular rituals in order to find a good husband (or nowadays, a boyfriend).



In Colombia, the Día del amor y la amistad (lit. "Love and Friendship Day") is celebrated on the third Friday and Saturday in September, because of commercial issues. In this country the Amigo secreto ("Secret friend") tradition is quite popular, which consists of randomly assigning to each participant a recipient who is to be given an anonymous gift (similar to the Christmas tradition of Secret Santa).



In Mexico, the Día del amor y la amistad is celebrated similar to Colombia but this one falls on February 14.



In Finland, Valentine's Day is called Ystävänpäivä which translates into "Friend's day". As the name says, this day is more about remembering your friends than your loved ones.



In Slovenia, a proverb says that "St Valentine brings the keys of roots," so on February 14, plants and flowers start to grow. Valentine's Day has been celebrated as the day when the first works in the vineyards and on the fields commence. It is also said that birds propose to each other or marry on that day. Nevertheless, it has only recently been celebrated as the day of love. The day of love is traditionally 12 March, the Saint Gregory's day. Another proverb says "Valentin - prvi spomladin" ("Valentine — first saint of spring"), as in some places (especially White Carniola) Saint Valentine marks the beginning of spring.



In Romania, the traditional holiday for lovers is Dragobete, which is celebrated on February 24. It is named after a character from Romanian folklore who was supposed to be the son of Baba Dochia. Part of his name is the word drag ("dear"), which can also be found in the word dragoste ("love"). In recent years, Romania has also started celebrating Valentine's Day, despite already having Dragobete as a traditional holiday. This has drawn backlash from many groups, reputable persons and institutions[4] but also nationalist organizations like Noua Dreaptǎ, who condemn Valentine's Day for being superficial, commercialist and imported Western kitsch.



In Denmark & Norway Valentine's Day (14 Feb) is known as Valentinsdag. It is not celebrated to a large extent, but some people take time to be romantic with their partner, or send a card to a secret love. In Sweden it is called Alla hjärtans dag ("All Hearts Day") and was launched in the 1960's by the flower industry's commercial interests, and due to influence of American culture. It is not an official holiday, but its celebration is recognized and sales of cosmetics and flowers for this holiday are only bested by those for Mother's Day.



Valentine's Day also has regional traditions in the UK. In Norfolk a character called 'Jack' Valentine knocks on the rear door of houses leaving sweets and presents for children. Although leavings treats, many children were scared of this mystical person.



In Asia, people celebrate it with a candle-light dinner.



In Wales many people celebrate Dydd Santes Dwynwen (St Dwynwen's Day) on 25 January instead of or as well as St Valentine's Day. The day commemorates St Dwynwen, the patron saint of Welsh lovers.



See also: Chinese Valentine's Day



References



1. ^ Oruch, Jack B., "St. Valentine, Chaucer, and Spring in February," Speculum, 56 (1981): 534-65. Oruch's survey of the literature finds no association between Valentine and romance prior to Chaucer. He concludes that Chaucer is likely to be, "the original mythmaker in this instance."[1]

2. ^ Oruch 1981:539.

3. ^ Kelly, Henry Ansgar, Chaucer and the Cult of Saint Valentine (Brill Academic Publishers, 1997), ISBN 90-04-07849-5. Kelly gives the saint's day of the Genoese Valentine as May 3 and also claims that Richard's engagement was announced on this day[2]

4. ^ Valentine`s Day versus Dragobete





**** This was pulled from Wikipedia ****


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