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This weekend was going great until today. Based on things that happened yesterday, my family disowns me for making a choice that was by far better than the alternative. I'm being treated like a child and I'm almost 26 years old. They've tried to control my life and when I make a decision that they don't like they get pissed at me and tell me they will not help me anymore.



I'm hurt that I'm my mothers only daughter and yet I'm being fed to the wolves by her. She's always hated the fact that I grew up as an individual and didn't follow people. I chose my own path and because I didn't turn out to be some prissy bitch she hates me for it.



I will be soon be moving and she is in danger of losing her only daughter for the rest of her life and my brother losing the only sister he's got all because they disagree with me. They are the only family I have outside of my children and it does hurt that I will lose them because they can't be supportive. Instead they judge me with everything I do and I don't know what to do about it.



I guess I could just move on with my life and let them regret their decision to treat me like an outcast because I am not like them. I am me and I have stayed true to myself no matter what life has thrown at me and I will continue to do so. I am a strong person and can take alot but when it's my own family turning their backs on me I do have feelings and they do get hurt by those people I love.



Trying to handle and deal with it alone is the hardest thing to do and I don't want to fall apart because of it.

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Laura202
03:38 Mar 02 2010

I have been in your shoes. My mother loved her husbands more than her only child. You just hold your head high and shoulders back. Life has a way of evening the playing field.

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placidchaos
06:52 Mar 07 2010

I've been in a similar situation. My mother and sister are Jehova's witnesses, I left. According to their beliefs they're not supposed to speak to me.

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masterofevil
06:38 Mar 26 2010

Some of my family is the same way and i say F them if they cant love me for me then I dont need them. Yes it hurts but I think that they are hurting themselvs more..because they are losing some one very special....

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colemack
03:27 May 20 2010

talk to mei am here for you..

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