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Ok.....

10:20 Aug 26 2007
Times Read: 696


So Now I am finding myself falling in Love...



Scary.... Exciting.....





The terrible memories are at last, only smotherings of dust. I hardly think of my ex and all that Abuse/lies/pain/anguish, nowadays.





My New guy,he treats me in ways that are Brand new. It is SO refreshing to have a Man around me, with a Healthy Mind and thought process... It's Beautiful, actually. His Natural, Autonomic way of thinking... God, it makes me realise How Fucked UP my ex really was/is.



I am So happy to be in this place right now.



We both have really strong feelings for each other.. We have both Cried together and reflected how we feel...



We are Both Scared because we have been hurt before.. YEt, that in itself, comforts me too.. Because we both understand hot that feels, and How eachother feels. That has helped us.. Become closer.



I am loving this feeling... I am Smiling again.


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Sometimes....

22:29 Aug 22 2007
Times Read: 702


You have to Get close to the edge to find out what you want or need, from the core.













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WOW... OK.....

22:26 Aug 22 2007
Times Read: 703


..you have the bone structure of an Albi princess... eyes cold as ice but with an inner glow too often missed... a strong yet graceful jawline drawing the eye to the sweep of your neck... hair that pours over your head like the downpour of a elven waterfall... the taut frame of a warrior goddess... like Arwen....


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If a Man Wants You.....

11:54 Aug 17 2007
Times Read: 710


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.



If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay..



Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.



Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.



Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.



Slower is better.



Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.



If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends.



" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend".

Don't settle.



If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.



Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.



The only person you can control in a relationship is you.



Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?



Always have your own set of friends separate from his.



Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.



If something bothers you, speak up.



Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.



You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.



Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.



Do not make him into a quasi-god.



He is a man, nothing more nothing less.



Never let a man define who you are.



Never borrow someone else's man.



Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. (DAMN I SHOULD HAVE GUESSED THIS ONE)





All men are NOT dogs.



You should not be the one doing all the bending....compromise is a two-way street.



You need time to heal between relationships..............there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a "new relationship''



You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you....a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.



Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.



Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.



Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.



Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.



They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.



BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A, PSYCHOLOGIST; A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.. ............."



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CHECK THIS OUT!!

11:57 Aug 16 2007
Times Read: 715


On topic of Memory... And part of my studies.. I have learned this, and it is helping me in a HUGE way with my personal capabilities to help 'me' forget, certain things.

I am continuing my study, One of Freud's key claims was that humans "repress" unpleasant memories. Such memories continue to lurk within the brain, and they occasionally resurface in disguised form -- say, in the eerie symbolism of dreams or in embarrassing "slips of the tongue," he argued. But skeptics have questioned whether such repression really occurs.



Now, using a technique called functional magnetic resonance imaging, or "fMRI" for short, researchers have caught human brain tissue in the act of suppressing simple memories in the form of paired words. The scientists report the findings in today's issue of the journal Science.



The findings suggest that despite the brain's astonishing ability to archive a lifetime of memories, one of its prime functions is, paradoxically, to forget.



Our sensory organs continually deluge us with information, some of it unpleasant. We wouldn't get through the day -- or through life -- if we didn't repress much of it.



Previous research, mostly in animals, has uncovered brain systems for erasing unneeded memories, which helps keep circuits from overloading during early life.



The new results "confirm the existence of an active forgetting process and establish a neurobiological model for guiding inquiry into motivated (voluntary) forgetting, " said the researchers, who included Stanford psychology Professor John D.E. Gabrieli.



In the Stanford experiments, 24 volunteers ages 19 to 31 began by memorizing word pairs such as "ordeal-roach," "steam-train" and "jaw-gum."



Then each volunteer lay down inside the ring-shaped fMRI scanner, located inside Stanford's Lucas Center for Magnetic Resonance Spectroscopy. Each volunteer gazed at words flashing on an overhead mirror, which reflected a computer screen. (They had to lie still for an hour to prevent blurring of the brain image.)



Initially, when a word appeared, such as "ordeal," the volunteer was expected to recall the word paired with it -- in this case, "roach." Later, though, volunteers were asked to try not to recall the second word -- in effect, to forget it.



Afterward, they were tested on their recall of all the word pairs. As it turned out, they had a harder time recalling the words they had previously endeavored to forget.



What's important, though, is what was going on inside their brains while they were lying inside the fMRI scanner and trying to forget words.



At such times, the brain regions previously suspected of repressing memories -- the left and right frontal cortex -- were more active (reflecting intensity of blood flow and oxygen consumption). Meanwhile, there was less activity in the hippocampus, which is involved in the remembering process. Typically, the best "forgetter" was one whose frontal cortex was most active.



"The big news is that we've shown how the human brain blocks an unwanted memory, that there is such a mechanism, and it has a biological basis," Gabrieli said in a separate statement issued by Stanford. "It gets you past the possibility that there's nothing in the brain that would suppress a memory -- that it was all a misunderstood fiction."



The lead author of the Science article is psychology Professor Michael Anderson of the University of Oregon, who conducted the experiment with Gabrieli and six other researchers: Kevin Ochsner, Brice Kuhl, Jeffrey Cooper, Elaine Robertson, Susan Gabrieli and Gary Glover. Except for Anderson and Kuhl, all team members during the experiment worked at Stanford. Ochsner has since moved to Columbia University.



Anderson speculates that the findings could encourage the development of new ways for people to overcome traumatizing memories. He is less optimistic, though, about the possibility of developing drugs or other lab techniques for expunging extremely complex memories, as in the recent movie "Paycheck," based on a Philip K. Dick story in which an evil computer company uses injections to erase its employees' memories of their inventions.



"It's possible in principle because your memories are implemented as physical changes (in the brain)," i.e. in the form of chemical and structural changes that could in theory be altered, Anderson acknowledges. However, extremely complex memories -- say, of a three-year period of one's life, as in the film -- are distributed throughout the brain rather than in single, easy-to-erase locales. Hence the total obliteration of such complex memories "is just so ridiculously complicated and improbable I don't think it could ever be done," Anderson said.



It's much too early to say whether the Stanford findings will prove useful in clinical psychoanalysis, the "lie down on the couch and tell me your dreams"-type therapy that peaked in popularity in the mid-20th century, inspiring innumerable New Yorker cartoons and Woody Allen jokes. Laboratory testing of the mental repression of words is one thing, while the study of repression of complex personal memories -- say, of child abuse -- is likely to be much more difficult.



Still, the Stanford research is a promising start, so it's welcomed by Dr. Charles P. Fisher, a faculty member at the San Francisco Psychoanalytic Institute. "The Science article upholds one crucial piece of Freudian psychoanalysis -- the existence of motivated forgetting," Fisher says. "It also provides us with an important tool for future studies."







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Areas of brain involved in controlling unwanted memories

Using functional magnetic resonance imaging, researchers determined the areas of the brain involved in the suppression of unwanted memories. These findings may have implications for the study of addiction and the ability of people to suppress unwanted thoughts related to craving, and in the assessment of people withpost-traumatic stress disorder.



Prefrontal cortex: Significantly activated during suppression of unwanted memories;the findings indicate it exerts executive control over activity in the hippocampus.



Hippocampus: Part of brain responsible for memory; there was less activity here during attempts to shut out unwanted memories.



Note: Part of brain is shown removed to illustrate location of the hippocampus. The controlling of unwanted memories was associated with both the left and rightfrontal cortex.


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Dave

18:41 Aug 15 2007
Times Read: 720


I am so glad Dave's operation went ok..





I was planning to see him again today but he sent me a text sayin he may be home Friday.. I could go see him then and help out at his place.



He'll be sore for a while and any lifting will be out.



I can't believe they made him wait for so long to get this tumour out.. SHIT.. It was the size of his fist. Half a Kilo he said.. 2.2 lbs to a kilo.

so, it was a considerable size!





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"Memory"

16:31 Aug 15 2007
Times Read: 723


How to find your keys!



You probably lost them because you were stressed. Simply remember what you were worrying about when you last had your keys and- ta da! By going back in to that emotion, you trigger the memory of where you put them down.



Try it with the remote control too...



Your purse... your bag....



Try it! :)


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BE, YOU

15:45 Aug 14 2007
Times Read: 730


In life one can make ones own decisions or, let other people make those decisions for You.



Being Above The Influence is about staying true to oneself, and not letting people pressure one into being less than 'YOU'.



So be yourself. Or be something less. It's your call.



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Weakness

14:28 Aug 13 2007
Times Read: 733


Those that will never allow, or accept, or be sincere to LOVE & Friendship.......



THOSE, are the weak ones.







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Profound!

16:41 Aug 02 2007
Times Read: 755


I found this part of a private mail to me to be COMPLETELY profound and ust beautiful.

I want to share it.

It taught me a thing or 2 and it reminded me to keep my heart open and my eyes to look at everything.

I thank the writer for creating theses words.

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There are so many beautiful things in this world…I don’t understand hate, lies, violence in light of the incredible and limitless freedom that comes with the human spirit. So many have a seemingly impossible capacity to see others as something other than what they themselves are. Commonalities of blood, flesh, bone….all with intellects that deal with changing emotions that flow from relationships. We are but part of a great sea of life, an existence we strive to understand.


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You Got me

16:36 Aug 02 2007
Times Read: 756


Walking on clouds...



I couldn't get down even if you wanted me to



So close you touch my soul


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