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Every single person who has ever disliked you for being real, for holding a boundary,
for saying no, for seeing through the game..
they have handed you the most honest compliment you will ever receive.
Because what they're actually saying is: you are not controllable.
And uncontrolled people make unsafe targets
Fake people need you performing.
Toxic people need you compliant.
Freeloaders need you guilty.
And Manipulators need you confused.
The moment you stop being any of those things: the moment you show up whole, boundaried,
and clear-eyed you become useless to every single one of them.
that discomfort they feel around you, that's not a problem you created.
That's a problem you solved. Being okay with being disliked is not arrogance
It is the quiet, unshakeable confidence of someone who has stopped outsourcing their self worth,
to people who were never qualified to hold it..
Being disliked by a Bunch of toxic people, because you're unwilling to play their toxic games.
Is a sign that you are very healthy.
Life is too short to spend it around narcissists and drama-filled people who weigh you down and make you feel less about yourself. It’s crucial to surround ourselves with individuals who uplift, nurture and inspire our well-being. Manipulators and gas lighters will slowly start to poison you, and in a world that’s demanding enough, who needs more turmoil?
“Some people are in such utter darkness that they will burn you just to see a light. Try not to take it personally.” –Kamand Kojouri
Stay away from those who play the victim
In a problem they themselves did create
Their actions and words are contradictory
Their lies and manipulations, hard to relate
They paint themselves as innocent
While causing chaos all around
Their victim mentality is toxic
Their selfishness knows no bound
They thrive on attention and sympathy
But their tears are just a facade
Behind their mask of innocence
Lies a soul twisted and flawed
So steer clear of these charlatans
Who play the victim card so well
For they will drag you down with them
Into their own private hell
Surround yourself with truth and honesty
With those who take responsibility
For their actions and their mistakes
And you will find true tranquility
COMMENTS
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Cadrewolf2
17:41 Apr 23 2026
Well stated
Janan
16:03 Apr 26 2026
So true.