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so I called the cops on Jerald. he threw my cat outside when I was gone and now I don't have a cat :( I keep having nightmares and I miss my furrbaby so much. he strangled me and had me pinned down so I finally called the cops. they didn't arrest him just had a talk with him and he tried to lie about me saying we were wrestling and I'm crazy but the cops knew better. idk If I should keep calling them if he abuses me or if I should just sit it out. I'm really confused and scared the cops helped me and gave me marriage advice and told me I have every right to defend myself. I have defended myself before but its scary cuz Jerald always gets the upper hand and someday he might kill me. Jerald hated me at first but now hes being all lovey dovey again and I just cant handle this rollercoaster relationship anymore

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KieaCakes
05:28 Sep 22 2016

The lovey act is how an abuser keeps his victim close. It makes you think they didn't mean it or that they can change. They won't change. And you need to call the cops every single time. If he leaves marks you need togo to the hospital to have it documented and make them take pictures to put in your file. Do not just sit it out. No matter what you do, it'll get worse. So you might as well do something about it that'll help you in the long run. When it comes to the law, if it's not in writing then it didn't happen. So document everything.

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chloesteele
05:55 Nov 11 2016

thank you. I have been taking pictures . I send them to a friend who saves and dates them on her computer .so if he ever trys to send me to a mental home or even get a divorce or if I just want to send him to jail I have evidence that he does this bullshit once a week. the reason I would do this during a divorce is so he'd have a domestic record and hopefully will warn future women about him

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so the abuse has toned down a bit and has turned into neglect... yea so I'm all alone while he practically lives on the couch and Ive been doing all the working cleaning cooking and paying all of the bills all by myself. so I have a built up resentment for it. I m tempted to drug him with Xanax and put it in his morning coffee so he'll quit having terrible anger outburst and moodswings. I just don't know any drug dealers and I'm a little scared to mess with that a lot of drug dealers will con you in my town. idk ive been trying haard to lose weight but cant with the stress he causes me. I just want to have a killer body again so he'll get jealous of me and want me. he never wants sex I have to force him into it. idk he just doesnst want me anymore and is just living off me cuz otherwise hed be homeless and I cry everynight I don't know what to do

my cat realy wants to play with me lol hiding behind the computer 'tryina get me with his paw but ive been on vacation and its been nive but has gone by too fast. jd has been really cruel to me but I found out it was the pill drugs he takes so I flush them down the toilet lol am leaving for the cities soon to celebrate being together two years. I'm really excited I need this get away with him. I'm kind of depressed cause I really don't want to go back to work lol I found out also that my bffs ex boyfriend told everyone i have an std. I don't know what I ever did to him to deserve that but Its true I got it after losing my virginity to my husband and its really affected me. sometimes I can get really bitter sometimes I cry. also tried weed for the first time and it was fun? lol I prefer being drunk. and I never approved of drugs anyways.. ive seen what it can do to a person. my life has changed so much. I never thought id marry a drug dealer. had no clue he was and a user! ive been very emotional about it. never grew up that way I was very sheltered had to use my imagination for fun. I feel disgusted everytime I see a druggie and think what a waste of space they are then remember they are gods creation and I shouldn't think that way. its just very hard