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Jaron,Sire/Domestic Abuse

10:09:39 - Mar 31 2011

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There is a member that has had many profiles, constantly changing his name, or deleating. He does so much to ladies on this site he has too, to keep being able to meet knew women. Two of the profiles he is currently using is Sire,and Jaron. He has to have 3 ladies at a time to maintain his nasty habits.. He munipulates these women, lies uses, leaches off of them, he had one lady conveinced he was gonna give her a new life and marry her, when she uprooted herself and her daughter and moved to him, she realized he had be lying to her, she had no where to stay, had to stay in a shelter until she could get back home. The lady he lives with, he has been very cruel to her. Its a long list of what he has done, but a very private list as well. To warn other ladies I will say this much, his last attempt of control and abuse was last night.. he took her cell phone and computer away from her, now again this is her house, her stuff, but he still using control over her, from years of abusing her, was able to do this.. He admitted to me in a vr messaged he was doing this, and would not allow her online or on the phone, I asked to speak with her, he refused and made the point nothing I could do about it being states away. Most may turn there heads on this stuff, but not me, any form of abuse is not right, I called the police station in there area, gave my information and her information, and that I feared she was in distress from this guy, they went out to the house and checked on her, after that I could not reach her.He admitted to being on her phone, and computer still wouldnt let her talk, I fear for what he may have done to her.. Ladies he will say or do anything to get you hooked so he can play with your head, abuse , and control you.. Dont let this happen to you... Guys... this could happen to your mom, sister, friend, or child.. watch out for this guy and this type of abuser. If you would like more information, such as real age, a true pic etc, if he has tried to talk with you, or you know of other profiles he has, you may contact me at nicoleharris1974@yahoo.com





Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships



Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical. Emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars.



Noticing and acknowledging the warning signs and symptoms of domestic violence and abuse is the first step to ending it. No one should live in fear of the person they love. If you recognize yourself or someone you know in the following warning signs and descriptions of abuse, don’t hesitate to reach out. There is help available.





Domestic abuse, also known asspousal abuse, occurs when one person in an intimate relationship or marriage tries to dominate and control the other person. Domestic abuse that includes physical violence is called domestic violence.



Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you. An abuser doesn’t “play fair.” Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under his or her thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you.



Domestic violence and abuse does not discriminate. It happens among heterosexual couples and in same-sex partnerships. It occurs within all age ranges, ethnic backgrounds, and economic levels. And while women are more commonly victimized, men are also abused—especially verbally and emotionally, although sometimes even physically as well. The bottom line is that abusive behavior is never acceptable, whether it’s coming from a man, a woman, a teenager, or an older adult. You deserve to feel valued, respected, and safe.



Recognizing abuse is the first step to getting help

Domestic abuse often escalates from threats and verbal abuse to violence. And while physical injury may be the most obvious danger, the emotional and psychological consequences of domestic abuse are also severe. Emotionally abusive relationships can destroy your self-worth, lead to anxiety and depression, and make you feel helpless and alone. No one should have to endure this kind of pain—and your first step to breaking free is recognizing that your situation is abusive. Once you acknowledge the reality of the abusive situation, then you can get the help you need.



Signs of an abusive relationship



There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs that you may be in an abusive relationship include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.



To determine whether your relationship is abusive, answer the questions below. The more “yes” answers, the more likely it is that you’re in an abusive relationship.



SIGNS THAT YOU’RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Your Inner Thoughts and Feelings Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior

Do you:



feel afraid of your partner much of the time?

avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?

feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?

believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?

wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?

feel emotionally numb or helpless?

Does your partner:



humiliate or yell at you?

criticize you and put you down?

treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?

ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?

blame you for his own abusive behavior?

see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?



Your Partner’s Violent Behavior or Threats Your Partner’s Controlling Behavior

Does your partner:



have a bad and unpredictable temper?

hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?

threaten to take your children away or harm them?

threaten to commit suicide if you leave?

force you to have sex?

destroy your belongings?

Does your partner:



act excessively jealous and possessive?

control where you go or what you do?

keep you from seeing your friends or family?

limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?

constantly check up on you?





Physical abuse and domestic violence

When people talk about domestic violence, they are often referring to the physical abuse of a spouse or intimate partner. Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone in a way that injures or endangers that person. Physical assault or battering is a crime, whether it occurs inside or outside of the family. The police have the power and authority to protect you from physical attack.



In the U.S., call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE).

UK: call Women’s Aid at 0808 2000 247.

Canada: National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-363-9010

Australia: National Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 200 526

Or visit International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies for a worldwide list of helplines, shelters, and crisis centers.