Malum in se is a Latin phrase meaning evil or wrong in itself. It is an act that, in its very nature, is illegal because it violates the natural, moral or public principles of a civilized society. I chose this name because fits my personality at times.
I absolutely HATE putting personal information about myself on websites, for the simple reason that some people like to use it for gossip mongering. Suffice it to say that this is not my only profile on VR, I am not new to VR, and I have Sired several accounts on my own. I have a fascination with Latin and all romance languages which has led me to study both Latin and Italian in my spare time.
I have been an editor, therefore, I despise bad spelling, bad grammar and the incorrect use of the semicolon. I think that spelling and grammar are both items of which a person should be cognizant before putting their words in writing.
I like to surround myself with intelligent people and it is my profound belief that intelligence is not necessarily gauged by a formal education.
I love to travel and have spent time on every continent with the exception of Antarctica. I have lived abroad and would very much enjoy living abroad again.
I am a very direct person but can also be extremely open and caring. I do not judge others and despise judgmental people. I am an accepting person, for the most part, and do not enjoy being around those who are critical of others.
Please do not message me and say simply "hi." I will not respond. If you would like to have a meaningful conversation, then by all means, do not hesitate to message me.
I am over being a nice person just to make others happy. My days of being people pacifier are long past. In this regard, I have decided to embrace my inner bitch. I always say what is on my mind and rarely edit myself before speaking. I have found it makes not one iota of difference in how people treat you if you attempt to be nice and friendly to most everyone. People will use you unabashedly. This may sound jaded, but I write this with no emotion, it is simply my perception. I, frankly, do not have time in my life for people who are nothing more than takers. I also do not have time in my life for liars, cheaters, drama creators or people who are certifiably insane. I am not your counselor. Go see someone you pay to try to fix you.
I use ALL the numbers. I rate as I see fit. If I want to rate your profile a ten, then I will, but if I feel you deserve a one, then that is what you shall receive. Do not whine or complain about the number I confer upon you, I can very well rate your profile lower and/or block you.
I will not be bothered with what rating you leave, whether a ten, a one or anything in between. Have at it, and do your worst if you feel you must.
I choose not to play the revenge rate game. Threats, do not work on me. Nasty messages? I will simply block you. If you rate me low but I enjoy your profile, then you will receive a decent rating from me. Honesty on a profile typically receives a ten from me.
I automatically block and rate a one to those I do not like, and I do not care what level you are. If I have blocked you, do NOT send me a message from another profile or send someone to ask me why I have blocked you. Truthfully, there are not many people on this website I despise enough to block, but there are a few. I use my block button very deliberately, so if you find yourself blocked, assume it was intentional not accidental. I have been on VR long enough that there are those individuals with which I simply prefer not to interact.
Do not send me messages asking me to rate, favorite or add to you friends. Since I have more than one account, I recognize those that send a cut and pasted, patronizing message asking this type of favor. I find mass cut and pasted messages loathsome and will delete them. I am not obligated in any way to add, rate, stalk or favorite your journal. If I wish to add you, then I shall. Sending me those messages will result in you being immediately blocked. The best method to obtain a rate or an add from me is to converse with me intelligently.
|Member Since: ||Oct 25, 2009
|Last Login: ||Mar 17, 2021|
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