05:08 Apr 24 2017
Ok, this issue is a bit confusing and I will try to clarify. There is a problem here as well, which is making the issue more difficult.
You have 38 Friends.
You are on 1,208 Friend lists.
38 should be shown in your menu.
1,208 should be used to compute your status.
On your first screen shot, everything is correct.
On your second screen shot, the wrong value is being used to compute your status. I've modified the script that computes status, and this should be fixed now.
There is also a nightly script that runs and computes a bunch of site-wide totals (friend counts being one of them), this script was writing the "Friend Lists you are On" value to the "Your Friends" value. This has been fixed. I believe this is the source of the inversion you noticed.
I'm going to close this report. If the problem persists, please open a new bug report and link to this one.