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So my 21st birthday is next month :3 which I am sooooo excited about. After much consideration I decided to throw a party at a local play place for bowling and fun. Well if I have more than 20+ people going I am going to have to pay $50 for both sides of the hall. Which is fine by me since I am paying for that. But it requires food and play time. I decided that if anyone is getting food they need to pay for it. I am not going to be able to bring food in. Also for drinks as well. The play time is $25 an hour for bowling which is not bad since there are 8 people to a lane and each would pay $3.50. After having TONS of people agreeing now everyone is "No I am not paying fuck that. I think you should pay for it all.". So my best friends arent coming. Makes me so mad.