By Stanley Collymore
Love comes in many forms and manifests itself
in numerous ways; but the best and most
convincing expression of genuine love which
readily springs to mind and that anyone can show to
another person: let alone their own biological son
or daughter apart from asking nothing of them
in return for the love shown to them, is to
strive earnestly and always, even in the
most difficult of circumstances,
to see the good in them.
Then by example and constructive
persuasion, but never pretentious or
gratuitous condemnation, ably assist
wherever and whenever possible
in the permanent eradication of any bad
or potential inimical traits that might
bedevil that person’s character;
and doing so in the ongoing
process of seeking to
make him or her a
much better
person. That was the very least I could
afford to do or wanted in your case;
and whether or not I’ve actually
succeeded in doing so, you
alone my son you must
be the judge of that.
© Stanley V. Collymore
22 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I looked danger in the eye,
refused to blink, and
won the day!
© Stanley V. Collymore
13 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You talk constantly and conveniently
of your undying love for me and as
well fancifully speculate about us
sharing the future together, stubbornly
refusing at the same time to even fleetingly
acknowledge let alone plan for the major upheaval
that such a scenario would bring about not only
in our two lives but also that of our respective
spouse, neither of whom is remotely aware
of what we’re secretly up to behind their
backs; and that makes me feel quite
uncomfortable, terribly guilty
and decidedly dirty!
For although I entered this clandestine
relationship with you of my own free
will and likewise with my eyes
wide opened, I none the less knew
perfectly well at the time that I was no
longer in love with my wife and was simply
waiting for the most convenient moment to
tell her this; that our marriage, from my
perspective, was well and truly over
and I wanted to end it; something
which I’d honestly confided
in you from the very onset
of our marital affair.
You said you understood for your situation
was very similar to that of my own, then
conscientiously and persuasively you
set about to and actually succeeded
in convincing me that it was;
which with hindsight was not a
particular onerous task on your part as
I was completely smitten by and totally hooked
on you from the very start. Consequently, I’m
as much to blame as you are for the state of
affairs we’re now in, and therefore I’m
neither seeking to exonerate myself
for my cheating conduct, excuse
it nor cowardly offload the
blame for it on you.
That said I desperately need to be honest once more
with myself so as to openly create an atmosphere
of decency where I can comfortably regain
my self-respect and once again become the
man I know I am, and be such in a truly
meaningful relationship completely
devoid of dishonesty, lying and deceit;
and irrespective of what I may have to
ultimately do or what the eventual
outcome of my future life may
be that is an aspiration that
can never be credibly
realized, I know,
with you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 February 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Hold me so the warmth of
your body can freely
stimulate the
ardour in
mine!
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I want you and with such passionate
intensity that my entire body, fully
conversant with how I personally
feel about you, spontaneously
erupts in convulsions of
violent anticipation
at the minimum
thought of
you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You not only know how to rampantly
turn me on but also how best to
sustain and reinforce the
interest you initially
created in me.
I love that!
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
If I hadn’t known differently I could so easily have
thought I was dreaming or even hallucinating,
but thankfully I was not; for the experience
I pleasurably underwent was real enough,
enabling me not only to meet but also
get to know the most beautiful
lady that even in my wildest
imagination I wouldn’t
have thought was
at all possible.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I don’t know what it is that you really want
of me, nevertheless I’m sentient enough
to know that if your intentions were
honourable you would have said
so already or at least have
made this known to me in some other
conventional way. But you havent’t;
and that justifiably gives me cause
for deep concern, and in the
circumstances, even if
you won’t, I’ll say
our goodbyes.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Ride the whirlwind of hope, sit proudly in the
saddle of optimism, and with the spurs of
determination give new impetus to the
admirable quest for the Holy Grail
of personal achievement, letting
the sturdy reins of ambition
serve as the guiding
principle to get
you there.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I much prefer my own company; it’s a matter of
personal choice, for I like the peace of mind
that it evidently affords me. The chance
to hear myself think and not have to
listen endlessly and uninterestedly to
the garrulous garbage of blithering idiots.
So why then, under these well-known
circumstances, don’t you respect
my preferred privacy and
sensibly leave me
permanently
alone?
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Dance with me as I like you to,
for I have this strange but absolutely
wonderful feeling that the momentum
we generate when we do is what keeps
the world spinning unnoticeably,
while the rest of humanity
watches us spellbound
and in complete
fascination.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Stop putting on a show for my
benefit as I’m not the least
impressed by it. Frankly,
I don’t give a damn
what you do.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You tenderly held my hand and the incredible
sensation that it spontaneously evoked coupled
with the electrifying chemistry that we’d
mutually sparked in each other was
more than any sentient being
could physically withstand.
After that I knew I was
enduringly yours for
the taking and
forever so.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I run; I walk; I even dawdle at times, indulging
whimsically in every conceivable practicable,
physical motion that I know of and can
realistically carry out; but through it
all, in both good and bad times, thoughts
of you stay constantly in my mind:
a reliable source of optimism
and proof positive of the deep,
lasting, influential and
considerably beneficial
effect that you
have on me.
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Violent people one can mostly avoid, it’s the
same with known liars who are prone to
be such; it’s a different kettle of fish
though with those who smile to your
face and behind that false smile
happily plunge the dagger of
treachery in your back.
Avoid such persons
like the plague,
they can’t be
trusted.
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Fly bird! Fly high and far away from here.
Spread your wings as never before, for
you have your freedom now and it’s
yours to do with as you please
away from your gilded cage.
And for my part I truly
wish you all the
luck in the
world.
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 February 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
A genuine apology for an injustice which one has
caused and whose disastrous consequences for
the person wronged the wrongdoer fully
understands and seriously wants to
make full amends for is a highly commendable
thing, but apologizing merely for lip service
with no real intention of actually accepting
the harm that one has done and because
the wronged person isn’t of the same
mindset as the perpetrator and
therefore such behaviour is totally
alien to that person’s character is
no apology worth its salt, and
should not only be roundly
dismissed by the victim
involved but also under
no circumstance
at all ever be
accepted.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Were I to assemble all the dreams, hopes and even the
expectations I required in the woman of my choice:
someone to complement and invaluably enrich
the quality and general satisfaction of my life,
vast and far-reaching as this assemblage
is, it is dwarfed in comparison by the
exemplary wealth of qualities and
the veritable richness in terms
of character that you’ve
actually and abundantly
liberally brought into
this most grateful
life of mine.
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
After our short meeting together I was unsure
at the time how best to react to it. After all,
we were complete strangers to each other,
had come on separate holidays, and you
moreover would be leaving shortly to
return home; but most importantly
I wasn’t looking for a holiday romance.
However the manner in which you
said your parting goodbye the night before
your departure made it relatively easy
for me to change my views on the
matter; and to be quite honest
with you, I’m immensely
delighted that I did.
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I should really hate you as your influence
on me is such that I instinctively and
completely lose all control over
everything I say and do
whenever you’re with
me; but on the
contrary, I
love it!
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ll have you know that I’m a good
girl; and, what’s more, there’s
a string of bad men out
there who’ll only be
too willing to
vouch for
that!
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Oh boy! If what you just did to me is
any indication of your overall
sexual capabilities, then
thankfully I’m in
big trouble!
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Everything about you is so absolutely perfect except
for one thing – the man whom you’ve chosen to
entrust your love with; but even so I’ll do my
very best to justify the faith which you’ve
confidently placed in me; even though,
quite typical of you, I know that
you’ve never or would you
ever try to make any
such demands on
me to do so.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Can I seduce you? I only ask because
I’ve some time to kill and, for the
life of me, can’t really think
of how I can otherwise
more productively
make the most
of it.
© Stanley V. Collymore
9 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I must be reaping the vengeance that’s being meted
out for the sins committed in someone else’s past
life; for I sure as Hell don’t know nor can I
think of a solitary thing I’ve done so
terribly wrong in my own life that
makes me deserving of the
way I’m being treated.
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Dance with the ferocity of the wind and
let the untamed fury that it unleashes
disperse with dismissive and
lasting disdain the vicious
calumny that you’ve
so unjustly been
subjected to!
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You’re just another unfortunate casualty of
a world possessed of a distorted notion
of what its priorities are and as a
good, decent and caring person
who always put the needs of
others before your own it
was only a matter of
time before your
own victimhood
was itself
assured.
But despite the
cruel injustice and futility of your death
your memory and what you ethically
stood for live on permanently in the
hearts and minds of those of us
who were fortunate enough
to have known, loved and
deeply respected you.
Just as these attributes of yours will undoubtedly be a legacy
I’m sure to generations of as yet unborn Barbadians and
others globally who will hallow your memory and the
work that regrettably you were cut short from
completing, but which none the less must
continue for all time in the manner it
deservedly and proudly should be!
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 January 2011.
Footnote:
A solemn but deserving tribute to the late Right Honourable David Thompson MP, QC, friend and Prime Minister of Barbados who died in office and is much missed.
By Stanley Collymore
Give me everything that you have;
and I mean just that; for at this
particular moment I feel
absolutely and quite
uncontrollably
ravenous
for you!
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Some people drink to drown their sorrows, others to
boost their shattered self-confidence; you however
do so because the alcohol is freely available,
there’s plenty of it and, significantly, you
like drinking for its own sake. Therefore,
one doesn’t get from you any cant
or concocted excuses for your
alcoholic pastime. If only
more boozers were as
honest as you are!
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
So you think you can make me fall in
love with you! Fat chance of that
ever happening I can tell you;
so don’t waste your time
and effort needlessly
chasing rainbows.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Would you consider it an audacious
imposition on my part if I were to
ask you to personally take care
of some sperm I urgently
need to off-load in
the next hour
or two?
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Is sex still important nowadays? Only if one wants to delude
himself or herself that it is. Realistically though it’s not any
longer necessary for procreation – IVF adequately takes
care of that already. As a sweetener to marriage or
female financial security it’s no longer relevant,
with the increasing social and economic
independence of women together
with their upward mobility and
the casual acceptance of
promiscuity stark
realities in full swing
and all thrown
into the ring. For pleasure,
mental stimulation and or even sexual satisfaction then?
Sorry; but sport and Reality TV do the same things
emotionally and even physically and, furthermore,
just as effectively and excitingly for most people,
so why bother with sex? Speculatively and
even seriously one must ask what’s its
real purpose? None really you must
concede, except custom, force
of habit and an instinctive
urge for dreary intimacy.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You are my life, my major reason for living and the
cause of so much happiness in my life that were
I to enunciate all the benefits your presence
in it has brought me it would take a
lifetime to do so; so instead I’ll just let my
body language and what we obviously
do so wonderfully well together
speak eloquently for how I
really feel about you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Controversy is the bane of my life, and were it to
be a situation which I actively or even passively
courted than I would logically have nothing
to complain or worry about; but that’s
not the case. So why then does
something I meticulously eschew and
passionately abhor continue to impose
its oppressive dictates on me, when
frankly all I genuinely want and
truthfully need is to be left
entirely alone and
in total peace?
© Stanley V. Collymore
6 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
Brevity is the soul of wit, therefore I shall
be brief. In his infinite wisdom God made
a unique woman when he created you,
and having done so he then sensibly
and permanently destroyed the mould
in which you were so cleverly and
painstakingly fashioned; for he
instinctively knew that his
handiwork was of itself a
perfection and logically
saw no good reason
therefore for him
to duplicate it.
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
I don’t know your marital status and your personal
circumstances I’m equally unaware of, but all the
same I’m inclined not to care; for I have this
overriding desire: selfish though it might seem,
to get to know you, and whatever action you
might decide on in relation to my quest to
satisfy this pressing need in me I’ll
fully accept and thoroughly respect,
but nevertheless I must warn you
that I shall never forget you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
You are an incredible young woman and an amazing
inspiration: a fertile and welcoming oasis in an otherwise
austere and unforgiving desert copiously littered with
smashed hopes, unrealizable dreams and broken
promises. A cool and invigorating breeze delightfully
tempering the sultry heat of a tropical paradisiacal
island, and from a personal, aesthetical perspective an
exceedingly beautiful woman with a sumptuously
eye-catching figure that strikingly stimulates
the physical and mental senses in a way
which sensually reinforces the huge
positive impact you made on me
from the very beginning and
quite evidently still wield.
Just as your feminine presence with its enervating,
powerfully seductive and enduring sensuality is
such a massive turn-on that only the blind or
totally imperceptive, arguably forgivably
so, are either unaware or else would be
unappreciative of them. All of which
is my personal invitation and the
prelude to my saying to you:
“Welcome into my life!”
© Stanley V. Collymore
30 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
Your concept of love is different from mine, for with
you there’s no realization that universally accepted
civilized standards of behaviour are inherent in
any meaningful relationship let alone one that
purports to be special between two people;
and I’m fearful that you’ll never grasp
this crucial understanding of what
genuine love is all about. So
taking this into consideration I must
inform you there’s no future, and
never was, for us together; and
for your own sake it’s best
that you understand
and accept this.
© Stanley V Collymore
5 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
I’d much prefer to be on my own, as frankly it
appears better that way; for even the problems
I then encounter appear to have a rationale
that I can better understand even if I
don’t empathize with them all.
But to go to great lengths to
avoid something with the utmost meticulous
care only for it to perversely follow you
around and wreak its devastating and
incalculable consequences upon
you is not only hard to actually
comprehend but also quite
impossible to ever accept.
© Stanley V. Collymore
14 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
I feel fully vindicated over what has happened between
us; for I always suspected that you were no good for
me although against my better judgement I went
ahead with our marital relationship. But now
even you are forced to acknowledge and
accept that I was right about that all
along. And unsurprisingly it’s the
only thing I’m pretty sure of
that you and I will ever
voluntarily agree on.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 January 2011.
By Stanley Collymore
There’s beauty and there’s attractiveness, and
while the former is very difficult and often at
times impossible to quantify, the principal
characteristics that make beauty highly
desirable, much sought after, and easy
to empathize with are nevertheless
predictable and outmoded; relying
instead on intrinsic qualities
over which the recipient
has no control to
make their
mark.
Attractiveness, however, is an altogether
different entity which combines the
best that beauty can offer
with a transposable
individualism
that is intentionally vibrant
and scrupulously discerning, drawing as
it does so on a wellspring of stimulating
sexuality and emotional feelings that
uniquely and colourfully establish
their own hegemony to the utter
delight of those fortunate
enough to draw on
this experience.
Superlative attributes that you evidently and
in abundance charmingly embody my
Lady; although in itself saying that
is undoubtedly a significant
understatement to make.
© Stanley V. Collymore
22 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
I don’t give a toss what other people think of me
just as it isn’t my problem, or will it ever be,
that such people are bloody idiots with
uneducated, boring and unfulfilled
lives, because I have in my head
a very astute brain which I
regularly use to do my
own thinking.
But I think that the problem I’ve previously
referred to, great as it is for these people,
in reality is much greater for you, as
you have the same attitudes they
do with one major exception;
they have the courage of
their convictions,
and you don’t!
So, instead, you conveniently hide your own
contribution to this unbecoming saga by
hypocritically lambasting the conduct
of those who were created in the
same mould as yourself!
© Stanley V. Collymore
28 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s neither a duty nor is it obligatory to fall in
love, live with someone or have children. Since
to the typical intelligent person all these things
are actions that are entirely voluntary; so it’s
perverse in the extreme to embark on all
or some of them without due care,
then when things go wrong
blame others for your own faults. For
there comes a time when one must
accept responsibility for and take
full control of their own life,
and you my dear seem to
have mastered that art.
© Stanley V. Collymore
19 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
I’m fully aware I don’t know you personally
but I’ve lived long enough in this world
to recognize a decent person when
I come across them; therefore
out of this recognition on
my part I’ve written
you this poem.
© Stanley V. Collymore
29 December 2010.
By Stanley Collymore
How and much more importantly why is it that
so-called love that sensibly is not reciprocated
can instantly, destructively and with all the
vengeance of hate show its true face?
Fortunately for me, and
despite this realization, I did nevertheless
manage successfully, having gone, seen
and experienced firsthand Tunisia’s
Riadh Palms Hotel, survive both
you and everything that that
den of iniquity, and you
yourself stand for.
© Stanley V. Collymore
3 January 2011.
Footnote:
Tourism and vacationing should be about the ability and opportunity to relax in peace and quiet if one chooses to not have to run the gauntlet of management sanctioned sex-tourism, prostitution, paedophilia and stalking that is so endemic at Tunisia's Riadh Palms Hotel, Sousse. Please read the contemporaneously written article: “Riadh Palms Hotel Souse, the ugly face of Tunisian tourism” to be found at: http://www.politicoacademic.blogspot.com.
By Stanley Collymore
Relax Darling, and don’t you
worry! Some things happen
much quicker than others;
it’s just that you tend
to come a lot faster
than most men
I know do,
that’s
all!
© Stanley V. Collymore
22 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
If time heals, why the hell
is it that so many years
after our divorce
you’re still
mad at
me?
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 January 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
The searing pain, agonizingly wracking every
sinew of your bodily frame; the unashamed
hollering and even the crude obscenities
angrilydirected at him, your partner or
spouse, for putting you in this most
excruciating of situations, as you
solemnly swear a pledge to
yourself never under any
circumstance to ever
let it happen again. Then that concluding
screaming push which encouragingly
but rather business-like you’re
told by the midwife is a must
and cantankerously you
reluctantly accede to;
anything as far as you’re
concerned to finally
get it over with.
Then as your body vigorously contorts with
yet more pain and the physical and psychological
strain of your shattering ordeal looks quite set
to drive you thoroughly insane, your shouted
outbursts are suddenly joined by an
entirely different refrain. That of a crying
baby, which in the interim has slipped
unseen by you from within your heaving
body, defiantly making known to the
strange world it has now found
itself in its eventual arrival.
It’s finally over thank God your fevered brain in silent
tumult exclaims: this age-long but personal ritual of
procreation characterized first by the consummate
satisfaction of sexual pleasure to predictably
end in the birth pangs of being a mother.
And as you cradle in your receptive
arms amidst your shamefaced
apologies for your conduct and the genuine
congratulations of those few who were present
and witnessed it all, your newborn child and first born
you marvel at the miraculous phenomenon of birth and
motherhood: the pleasure, pain and everything else
in between that accompanied them and of which
you’re now an inescapable part, knowing full
well in your heart that transformatively both
in stature and name you’ll never be the
same; and what’s more will in all
probability do it all over again.
© Stanley V. Collymore
23 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
Come! Let me hold you and with a
great big hug ease the obvious
hurt that you’re now
feeling inside!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Responsibility is considerably more than
simply taking charge of something and
being happy or even feeling rather
smug for doing so; for it also
entails knowing exactly
what it is that you’re
doing, and most
important of
all why.
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 January 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
He thinks that because he’s
a butcher to the rich and
famous, he’s now a
cut above the
rest of us.
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 January 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
Altruism is the art of being a
saint, irrespective of what
the devil anyone else
thinks about what
you’re doing!
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 January 2002
By Stanley Collymore
Concentrate less on who I am
and much more on what
I am – that’s where
the essential
difference
lies!
© Stanley V. Collymore
27 February 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
The only thing you have on ice
is that ice eventually melts
and disappears – you,
unfortunately,
don’t!
© Stanley V. Collymore
22 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Sow the seeds
of tolerance and
reap the harvest of
human understanding.
© Stanley V. Collymore
28 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You’ve been such a vital part of my
life for so long now that it’s hard
to think of a time when you
weren’t actually there;
and that’s a truly
magnificent
feeling!
© Stanley V. Collymore
31 January 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
Look, I’m ambidextrous –
I can wank with
both hands!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Celibacy? I’m afraid you’ve totally
lost me pal! What the fuck is
it anyway that you’re
talking about?
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 March 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
Sex is Nature’s sick way
of screwing us all up –
a right fucking
carry on
I’d say!
© Stanley V. Collymore
28 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Throughout my life there has never been a murmur
of complaint from my lips when things didn’t
go my way; I simply accepted my failure,
examine where I’d gone wrong
and started all over again.
So why then should I be compelled to feel sorry
for and, what’s more, give every assistance
that I can from my meagre resources to
those that likewise mess up, but with
the crucial difference that their
privileged upbringing has
tutored them all their selfish lives never to
accept responsibility for anything other
than what is manifestly beneficial or
financially advantageous to them,
and who I know would under
no circumstance, however
small or big the adversity
I experience, ever do
the same for me?
Welcome therefore to the reality of the 21st Century
where corporate profits are studiously regarded as
the exclusive ownership of the corporations
and their shareholders but the massive
debts they rack up through their
reckless greed, incompetence and criminal
impunity, recurrently granted full immunity
by our venal and dishonest lawmakers,
become the sole burden of the hard-
-done-by taxpayers and ordinary
citizens. Privatized profits
definitively; but socialist
debts in perpetuity!
© Stanley V. Collymore
21 April 2013.
Footnote:
Welcome to the reality of the 21st Century where corporate profits are studiously regarded as the exclusive property of the corporations and their shareholders, but their massive debts caused through their reckless greed, incompetence and criminality for which they bear no responsibility become the sole burden of the hard-done-by taxpayers and ordinary citizens. Privatized profits; socialist debts!
By Stanley Collymore
You did the right thing in
voluntarily leaving me, for
my deep principles prevent
me from being cruel to
dumb animals and
thus having to
tell you that
you had
to go!
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 January 2002
By Stanley Collymore
Anger is more profitable spent on
something that you can change
rather than on the personal
and futile indulgence
of blind hatred!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Adultery is like living on the edge
of a precipice – you don’t know
if or when you’ll fall off it,
or how difficult the
landing will be.
© Stanley V. Collymore
28 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I can’t stand people who rabbit
on about sex – why don’t
they just shut up and
get on with it?
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ve tried all my life to be civil to
everyone I meet, but alas with
some people it just doesn’t
work – and you, I’m
afraid, are one
of them!
© Stanley V. Collymore
27 February 2002
By Stanley Collymore
Reach courageously for the stars
and build your own stairway
to the waiting universe
of opportunities!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Personable, dedicated and trustworthy
you, David have been an absolutely
sound, thoroughly inspirational
and significantly exemplary
influence, by any tangible
criteria, on our family.
© Stanley V. Collymore
21 February 2002.
A tribute to my brother-in-law David.
By Stanley Collymore
You floated into my life like
a dream – now unhappily
I’m left with the rather
rude awakening of
what actually
you are!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Your amazing friendliness, strength of
character and all round personality
Marion, uniquely outstanding in
their own incomparable way,
are but a small segment of
the several virtues you
unmistkably exemplify
so well and also serve
as an illustrative
example to
us all!
© Stanley V. Collymore
28 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’m the sperm that defied the odds
to be here – now I find myself
asking, why on earth did I
ever bother in the
first place?
© Stanley Collymore
3 January 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s very sneaky of you when
you have sex behind my
back but also very
erotic; I quite
like it!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Water maybe the fountain of
life, okay; but sperm is
irrefutably the giver
of it, wouldn’t
you say?
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I hear that most cacti are rather
envious of you, as it’s been
openly said that you’ve
accommodated more
pricks than the
majority of
them!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I hate having sex on
my own; would
you like to
join me?
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The stormclouds of my chequered
life are happily starting to fade
away and in their place an
aura of quiet optimism
blissfully dwells in
the air now that
you’re here!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Every time that I feel tense I
generally masturbate; it’s
the principal reason I
suppose why I’m
such a nervous
wreck!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
No one has a monopoly on
lying I fully accept – but
of those I know you
come extremely
close to it!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I can’t think of a time when I
enjoyed myself so much at
someone else’s expense –
other than, of course,
when I marrried
my husband!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
What on earth did you think you were playing
at shouting out “Yes I do!” embarrassingly
like that, when the vicar conducting
our wedding ceremony asked the
congregation present if there
was anyone who knew of a
just cause or impediment why
we should not lawfully be
joined in matrimony?
It wasn’t either of us, you idiot that
he was questioning; and besides, since
when is a bride-to-be unfortunately
starting her periods on her wedding day
justifiable or even sufficient grounds
for her forthcoming husband to
selfishly and self-centredly
behave in this utterly
unseemly way?
So don’t be surprised to know it goes
without saying that your absolute lack
of consideration, either for me or
my feelings, by what you did completely
ruined what for a new and considerably
optimistic wife should unquestionably
have been the most unforgettable
day of her life. And, I must say,
you certainly managed to do
that, you quite gormless
and insensitive prat!
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
You are unquestionably the
dream that has turned
into my worst
nightmare!
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Having expectations are all right -
basing them on unrealistic
hopes or delusions of
grandeur, however,
is a completely
different
matter.
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s not the easiest thing in the
world being a saint you know.
And to tell you the truth,
I’ve always found it
to be a devil
of a job.
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 March 2002.
By Stanley Collymore
Why do so many people treat God as
if he was a convenient stop-gap
who was readily available to
enhance their miserable
lives whenever they
either knowingly or
thoughtlessly get
into trouble?
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I want to be an integral part
of your life; that’s why
I try so hard to get
inside of you!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I regularly lied to and routinely as well cheated on
you; cruelly betrayed the unstinting trust you’d
so explicitly placed in me because I knew it
could be easily done, and besides I’d
arrogantly and egotistically convinced
myself I was God’s gift to women
and therefore making out with
them was the most natural
thing for me to do.
Quite assured in myself that if any
gossipmongers were to apprise
you of what was going on I could
boldly look you in the eyes with faked
pique, scornfully despise what they were
saying and pointedly demand of you: “Who
do you believe, your husband or them?”
Already fully aware of what your
reply would be, because of the
trust that you’d so faithfully
and unquestioningly
placed in me.
But in conducting myself in this entirely
self-centred and rather appalling way
I hadn’t reckoned on the vengeful
retaliation of Fate: patiently
standing in the wings
and surveying it all;
then having witnessed more than
enough of this intentional deceit
that I’d played out on you and
quite naturally appalled by
it decided to step in.
Calculatedly arranging while I was
in the throes of making love to you,
bodily there in bed beside you
but passion-wise psychologically
elsewhere, for me to inadvertently call
out the name of one of my many lovers.
A name that you were very familiar
with and unsurprisingly so, for it
was shamefully that of your
sibling and younger sister.
© Stanley V.Collymore
18 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
I regularly lied to and routinely as well cheated on
you; cruelly betrayed the unstinting trust you’d
so explicitly placed in me because I knew it
could be easily done, and besides I’d
arrogantly and egotistically convinced
myself that I was God’s gift to men
and therefore making out with
them was the most natural
thing for me to do.
Quite assured in myself that if any
gossipmongers were to apprise
you of what was going on I could
boldly look you in the eyes with faked
offence, tearfully despise what they were
saying and pointedly demand of you: “Who
do you believe, me your wife or them?”
Already fully aware of what your
reply would be, because of the
trust that you’d so faithfully
and unquestioningly
placed in me.
But in conducting myself in this entirely
self-centred and rather appalling way
I hadn’t reckoned on the vengeful
retaliation of Fate: patiently
standing in the wings
and surveying it all;
then having witnessed more than
enough of this intentional deceit
that I’d played out on you and
quite naturally appalled by
it decided to step in.
Calculatedly arranging while I was
in the throes of making love to you,
bodily there in bed beside you
but passion-wise psychologically
elsewhere, for me to inadvertently call
out the name of one of my many lovers.
A name that you were very familiar
with and unsurprisingly so, for it
was dishonourably that of your
sibling and younger brother.
© Stanley V.Collymore
18 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
I could tell you were a man of culture
And good breeding - the Perfect
Gentleman - from the way you
Slipped your condom on
Before inviting me to
Screw with you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
It really makes me very vexed
When the critics of oral sex
Can only point to getting
Hair between one’s
Teeth as the only
Reason for not
Doing it!
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Hold me tightly; and in doing so
let the strength of your love
recharge the personal
batteries of my
struggling
life!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
In the frenzied and thoughtless search
for love its true meaning and purpose
are frequently advantageously or
else conveniently overlooked;
or, worst luck, commonly
and totally forgotten.
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Love knows no boundaries
and will not be curtailed
by restrictions – its
only enemy is
mistrust!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The news that you’ve heard
is completely true – I’ve
flipped my lid and
fallen for you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
When you asked me for a fag
I thought you meant a cigarette,
that’s why I said I didn’t smoke –
I’d no idea it was an easy
woman you were after
keen for you to give
her a gratis poke.
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
For someone who openly maintains you drink
Only in moderation because you abhor the
Excessive use of alcohol and the social
Consequences that stem from
Unchecked alcoholism,
You sure as hell
Drink a lot!
So why won’t you accept what the rest of us
Know but you continually refuse to admit
That you’re a piss artist and an alchi,
Who drinks like a fish and doesn’t
Even know your own limit?
© Stanley V. Collymore
17 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The fount of knowledge is the golden
fleece that all intelligent minds seek
to discover; your personal odyssey
in this regard Antje and the zeal
with which you undertake it
are matched only by your
intellect, elegance and
the sophisticated
approach you
adopt to
life!
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 August 2001.
A tribute to Antje Huebner.
By Stanley Collymore
Always strive to reach the top and
never let go of that goal – for
there’s nothing better than
success to inspire the
optimistic soul.
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Positive thinkers already know
the negative aspects of what
they’re doing – and that’s
the genuine hallmark
of their success!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Decisions taken in the heat of
The moment are often
Regretted in the cool
Deliberation of
Reality!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
In your indecent haste to be
The first make sure you
Don’t lose sight of the
Goal that you’re
Actually after!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
For some people sex is the natural reaction
to something rather personal in their life,
while others take to doing it in order
to alleviate their boredom, tension
or strife. With me, however, I
can honestly say it isn’t any
of that; as I’m just your
typical conventional
SEX MANIAC!
©Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Right now I only want a
snapshot of your life -
the big picture
I’ll view
later.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
If it were easy to deliberately make mistakes,
say sorry and know that we’d be readily
forgiven and our mistakes instantly
forgotten, do you think that
anyone would really
want to make
them?
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The ease of success is derived
through the hard knocks
of achieving it.
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Survival is the only potent
antidote to the innately
destructive forces
that are within
mankind!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Sex with you is no guarantee I’ll
ever marry you, but without it
I’ll never have an overview
of how well you’ll shape
up when it comes to
something I very
much like and
often do.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The caravan of life is rolling
Unstoppably across the
Desert of my
Blighted
Life.
© Stanley V. Collymore
19 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Resolve is necessary for carrying
through most things, however
purpose is the instigation
for starting them in
the first place!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Love is like a lottery - the more
desperate you are to win at
it the more likely it is
that you’ll end
up losing!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You’ve only touched the surface
of me for underneath there’s
much more just waiting
to be fully explored.
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You don’t have to say you love me,
as there’s plenty of love going
on my side to make up
for any shortfall
on yours!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Fight by all means for what you think
is right, but also make sure that
there’re solid grounds for
starting your battle in
the first place!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Ride the wild horses of fear
And taste the thrill of
Discovery!
© Stanley V. Collymore
30 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The desire to be first is perhaps a
natural and satisfying one; but
being last and recognising
you’ve done your best
is an ever greater
achievement!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Living with the pain which you’ve
deliberately inflicted on my
life is an experience too
great to warrant my
forgiveness.
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Secretly I’ll sleep with you – indulging in
the most intimate act there is between a
a woman and a man – but publicly I
must condemn and betray you, for
the race I belong to would never
openly countenance what I do,
knowing that you’re black – a fact,
which I must always bear in mind
along with its attendant hostility:
something that is quite difficult
for me to take on board or
even deal with properly.
So I’ll remain as I am – hypocritical,
cowardly and white to the core –
knowing that I can continue to
live out my sexual fantasies
with you with impunity
and no one but us
will ever know.
And it’s only
right that it
stays so!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
With the consummate charm, panache
and unassuming genius of the Irish
you’ve carved out an empire
all your own – but one,
which, nevertheless,
dispenses to those
who’re fortunate to be a part of
it a sense of well-being and
belonging – and that my
friend is the true art
of leadership.
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 August 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ve been warned that my blood
level could seriously affect
the alcoholic content
of my body.
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
With imagination and commitment
This fledgling relationship could
Become whatever we want it
To be and so I’ll give my
Pledge to both. How
About you?
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Dreams are the secret messengers of
our thoughts; and the frequency
with which I dream about
you underscores the
seriousness of my
intentions
towards
you.
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
There’s really no better or more
Tangible way to make a valid
Point than by skilfully
Demonstrating it!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Not only having but also being with
you everyday in my thoughts is a
preoccupation that takes up
much of my time; but
then - it’s also a
labour of love!
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
There are those who pass through life
without making any kind of impact
whatsoever – you, however,
are not among them Anja;
for your youthfulness, natural charm,
intellect and exquisite beauty are
qualities, which are so glaringly
obvious, that only the blind
or undiscerning could fail
to see or appreciate
them fully!
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 August 2001.
A personal tribute to Anja Lebrenz
By Stanley Collymore
Climb as high as you aspire to
and ultimately can but always
be resolute not to let your
ambitions be dampened
by the limitations
of others!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
In the untrammelled quest for personal
recognition some people would do
almost anything except, of course,
work to achieve their goals by
means of their own efforts!
© Stanley V. Collymore
26 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Never speak ill of the dead we’re constantly and solemnly
exhorted regardless of who they are or the life that
they freely chose to live, as they’re no longer
around, is the lame and unconvincing excuse
that’s often and dishonestly given in explanation, to rebut or
defend their name, any accusations or adverse criticisms,
however concrete or valid they might be, being made
against them; and in those circumstances therefore
to then embark on such a plan would in itself be
quite unbecoming while serving as nothing
more than a cheap and cowardly way of
attempting to exact one’s own revenge.
But hang on a moment, how truly valid is this
simplistic and supposedly moral exhortation; and why
should the intervention of death, distinct from any
other known phenomenon, be the sole exculpation for
someone’s life-long sins and premeditated wrongdoings
that disparagingly have callously, schemingly,
perniciously, quite methodically and comprehensively
destroyed the lives of so many who were
exclusively picked on and especially targeted for
reasons of dogmatic political ideology, or
those specifically and illogically
associated with their race
or ethnicity?
I was never a miner viewed as the country’s low-life and
thusmalevolently castigated as the enemy within, but
I am and have longstandingly been a proud trade
unionist whose movement just as
viciously by this self-centred,
venal and privileged elite was likewise tarred
with the same condemnatory brush and
scandalously branded the same.
Similarly, I was an anti-apartheid activist firmly
committed, as I always will be, to the noble concept
globally of the universality of human rights, equality
for all human beings and the ultimate eradication
of racism, tirelessly working also in tandem
for freedom of expression by everyone,
genuine democracy and the lawful and
moral right to withhold one’s labour,
and particularly so in manufactured industrial
disputes specifically designed to disrupt the cohesion,
deliberately break-up and ruthlessly destroy the
bargaining rights of all trade unions.
So why would I, or anyone else for that matter
with a social conscience, want to actually
eulogize and not rightly despise someone who,
while together with their husband was
profiting massively financially from South Africa’s
apartheid system, none the less perversely saw fit
to label Nelson Mandela a terrorist and roundly
vilify the ANC as a terrorist organization, while
astonishingly and without a modicum of regret
laud the architects of apartheid and the
ardent supporters of institutionalized
racism as the veritable champions of
what they deem as democracy?
Unless, of course, such individuals have short or convenient
memories and are themselves a complete abomination of what
society, which we were told by this woman doesn’t exist,
or come to that humanity should actually represent!
So I’ve no apologies to make or will I relent from
the stance I’ve taken because Death, inevitable
to us all, has finally, and some would
justifiably say, long-sufferingly and somewhat
kindly stepped in and brought the life of yet
another tyrant to its end. So feel free those of you
who want to eulogize or even dress yourself up
in sackcloth and ashes if you wish amidst your contrived beating
of chests and sorrowful refrains; but in doing so, I’d like for
you in your unrestrained orgy of engineered anguish
and false grief to jointly entreat you to abstain
from ever doing any of this in my name.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 April 2013.
WE brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the Name of the Lord. 1 Tim. vi. 7. Job i. 21.
By Stanley Collymore
My weaknesses are nullified
by your strengths – yours
by my appreciative
understanding of
what you’re
doing!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You’ve skydived into my life quite
emphatically and ever since that
magical moment I’ve been
operating on a wholly
different plane.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s quite possible, I know, to love more
than once and do so in many different
ways; but my love for you is unique
and grows stronger by the day.
For it’s fashioned from the very
best of other loves: a rare kind –
whether in the dispensing or
the actual receiving of it –
that occurs only once
in one’s life time.
© Stanley V. Collymore
15 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
Absence makes the heart grow fonder they say;
but not having you near me each day is a
poor substitute in every way for not
being able to see you, touch you
or feel the comforting warmth of your soft, feminine
body next to me - while experiencing in full the true
joy of contentment I happily derive from living
a life blessed with the knowledge that you’re
Heaven sent; and no other woman but you
could have been half as successful in
making me so obviously happy,
as you can clearly see.
© Stanley V. Collymore
13 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
I don’t know if we shall
ever meet again, but
rest assured I
shall always
be with
you!
© Stanley V. Collymore
30 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Sex has never been a problem
for me – it’s what happens
after the climax that
bothers me.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
A satisfactory and genuine apology
can often wipe out an eternity
of hatred and personal
resentment!
© Stanley V. Collymore
30 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I know that I’ve no legal or moral
claims on you, as the only attachment I
have to you at present is the love we
share for each other – because the
wedding ring you wear is not
mine but given to you by another; and like
a beguiling moat, beneath whose unruffled
surface lurks many dangers, it shuts you
in: a prisoner of love in your fortified
castle. Therefore, the only realistic chance
I have of ever getting to you, other than
me storming the castle or else laying
siege to it that is, is for someone,
preferably yourself, who’s on
the inside to lower the
drawbridge down
and let me in.
© Stanley V. Collymore.
14 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
Perhaps, at times, my methods of courting
you may seem too much; and from the
contrasting cultural perspective that is your
own appear over the top. But, trust me,
it’s not. For what I’m doing is quite
normal for me if perhaps a little
strange for you; since it’s also
characteristic of my upbringing and the way I was
taught and encouraged to deal with such matters
of the heart. Of course, I can’t deny that with
the advent of you in my life, what for me is
a traditional activity has become much
more pleasurable in its actuality.
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
My man is unable to give me the big O
So, in turn, I’ve given him the great
Elbow – since then I’ve discovered
What I ought to have known, that
With my fingers I can perfectly
Pleasure myself on my own
Bringing me off to some
Truly wonderful, and
Multiple orgasms!
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ll never consciously stroke a pussy
without first donning one – that’s
why you won’t ever find me,
even in a dire emergency,
without a trusty pack
of condoms.
© Stanley V. Collymore
24 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Let me fast forward the video of your
mind and see what delights are in
store there before I begin to
explore you much more
thoroughly.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
When I realised that I was in
love with you I became the
happiest man on earth;
but when I discovered that you
loved me too - I knew, there
and then, what it’s really
like to be in Heaven!
© Stanley V. Collymore
14 December 1997.
By Stanley Collymore
Hold me tightly until it hurts,
for the pain of your affection is
what I now desperately need
to offset the grief of my
recent and terrible
humiliation.
© Stanley V. Collymore
19 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Be a winner, by all means – but in
winning don’t forget the losers
without whom your win
would never have
been possible!
© Stanley V. Collymore
25 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The Ship of Life has only
one destination –
the Port of
Death!
© Stanley V. Collymore
30 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
The rain is falling quite heavily
and the thunder is creating
a loud din, the wind is
howling terribly
and all hell
has broken loose
it seems. But despite the awful weather
and the threatening storm clouds
everywhere, it doesn’t really
matter because I still
have you here!
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You call yourselves religious
Yet you behave like this?
Then all I can say is:
“Thank God I’m
An atheist!”
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Sex is too personal a matter for me
To deal with lightly; and besides
I need something much more
Conservative, which either
Doesn’t touch or impact
On me so intimately!
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
How can I ever convince you in words which
you will clearly understand that I love you
as deeply as any other red-blooded man
possibly could, when you persist in
doubting me the way you do?
WHY?
Never allowing me or the great store of love
I have within me to ever meaningfully
touch you, as I’d hope it would;
or even get the chance
to have a look in?
© Stanley V. Collymore
13 May 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
You’re no stranger to me
even though we’ve only
just met; for you’re
the type of person
one would find
quite hard
to forget.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
To sit and speak openly about the kind of
meaningful relationship you’d like
to have with someone who says
they love you then carefully
listens as you make them
privy to the secrets of
your private
past,
only to find that having embarked voluntarily
on a serious relationship with each other
you’re subsequently and deliberately
betrayed by their yen for affairs
and, what’s more, infected
with HIV – isn’t just a
personal tragedy
but a symptom
too of a sick
society!
© Stanley V. Collymore
14 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Death is the only comforter
when all else fails and
the fury of betrayal
could well land
you in jail.
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Perhaps the sun will shine tomorrow and
perchance I’ll have a much better day
than what I’m presently experiencing;
but whatever happens eventually,
I just want you to know that
I’m immensely grateful
for you being here.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ve no idea what it is that you truthfully
want of me, or for that matter what’s
really going on inside your head;
as both situations are ongoing
mysteries to me, as you’ve
never tried to explain
or actually said.
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’m different I readily accept, but I’ll
not make any apologies for being
me; for what kind of a world
is it when I’m expected to
feel guilty simply for
acting honestly?
© Stanley V. Collymore
11 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Your penchant for the absolute
control and total dominance
of others is for me a dire
situation that I will
never accept;
nor will I ever accord
to such behaviour
the dignity of
tolerance.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Like the golden sun rays soothingly
Caressing the dew-dropped flowers to
Life at sunrise you too have calmly
Awaken me from my slumber
Of disquiet to reassuringly
Herald a new dawn in
My dormant life.
© Stanley V. Collymore
1 January 1998.
By Stanley Collymore
I love the comforting ease of conversation
that reassuringly exists between the two
of us: a communication not uttered
by lips because of the situation
which we find ourselves in
but beautifully conveyed, none the less,
through earnest yet encouraging eyes
that willingly impart the secret
contents of two exploratory
and romantic hearts.
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Although we’ve only quite recently met
I’m pretty sure we’ve always known
that we existed somewhere
on this planet, waiting for
the right moment
to discover each other.
And now that we have I simply can’t wait
to fully explore the several possibilities
and much more of this new and most
exciting friendship we’ve freely
and spontaneously begun;
and which for me
is a marvellous
opportunity
to be courted once again
by a black woman that’s urbane
and who, besides, is well educated,
clever, cerebral and culturally the same.
And amidst the euphoria of this new start
and the dizzy stirrings of my happy
and now contented heart
I have to honestly admit that
the long and, at times, heart-rending
search for you was well and truly
worth the pain and the many
sacrifices caused by it.
© Stanley V. Collymore
16 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I like being unique you see; and also
it’s a matter of my own integrity.
So I shan’t sleep with you
and thus willingly become
like all the other guys
we both know that
regularly do.
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’d no notion of what the big O was
and even sixty-nine was a mystery
to me, and when I heard talk of
oral sex I figured it was to do
with biology – then you came
along and enlightened me;
now I’m working on
the meaning of
ECSTASY!
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’m sick and utterly tired of your pathological
lying and ongoing deceptions whose transparency
are manifestly evident to anyone with a brain
in their head or eyes to see. And if you
had any kind of decency or morality
to speak of you’d realise exactly
how much you’ve not only
cheapened yourself
through the insanity of your
adulterous conduct but destroyed as well the
intense love and respect that undoubtedly
I once had for you, rendering all the
other positive emotions in your
specific regard that I fondly
held stone, cold DEAD!
© Stanley V. Collymore
14 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Give me the keys to your heart
and I’ll recompense you
with the personal
deeds of my
soul!
© Stanley V. Collymore
18 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Like a cool and refreshing breeze on a
warm, tropical day you effortlessly,
but oh so positively, blew into this
receptive life of mine to freely
kindle the dormant flames
of interest which were flickering there,
and hopefully I earnestly pray, will
likewise result in maintaining
a situation that will forever
remain the same.
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Don’t overdo it when you say you love
me, as I don’t want a performance
of any kind; instead, let your
actions serve as your mouthpiece,
for that’s the language I understand far
better than any number of fancy words
which say nothing and mean even
less in actuality, because when
looked at carefully they’re
so absolutely absurd.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Someone has to say it; that it’s best that
you and I like two ships passing each
other in the night, once our very
fleeting and unavoidable encounter
has gone by, sail on untroubled
on our chartered course into
the welcomed oblivion
of a permanent
goodbye.
© Stanley V. Collymore
10 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
There are women who inspire and those
that are loathsome; ladies who are cultured:
all graceful and winsome. But there’re
bitches, too, one can easily despise
with greed in their hearts and hate in
their eyes. A mass of femininity then - all
shapes and of every colour; likeable and
adorable or simply great horrors. Among
them are mothers, aunties, sisters –
other relations without end; or
women as lovers and
even as friends.
But is the latter really possible a cynic might
well ask? Yes, comes back the answer, but it’s
a rather difficult task. For the mind of the woman,
quite contradictory and Daedalian, is usually
inclined to independently work somewhat differently
from her brain. Therefore logic is seldom, if ever,
distilled from her private sentiment or habitual and
obdurate will; making it a lot harder for the average
woman to impartially assess the issues as they
generally stand, much less what’s really the
best for her, let alone that vulnerable
and highly endangered species
called contemporary man.
A blemish not found in your character thank God,
since you evidently use your brain as Nature
intended you should. And for that Dorial
those who’re privileged to know you
are greatly relieved that in this world
of contrived conflicts, oases of
commonsense and sanity,
thankfully still exist.
© Stanley V. Collymore
May 5th 2001
By Stanley Collymore
I most definitely am not one for holding
grudges and don’t much care for acrimonious
or belittling arguments that tend, more often
than not, to be gratuitous and belligerent
affairs that prove to be counterproductive in
their intended purpose; and which from a
personal perspective I not only regard as
quite distasteful but also judge to be
most unseemly. Unless, of course,
such arguments are instigated by
me and centre exclusively on
my egotistical beliefs and
egocentric self-interests.
© Stanley V. Collymore
8 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
At first I wasn’t in the least interested in you.
But then, why should I be? You, after all,
are an unmarried and out-of-work mum
just turned 23 and, additionally and
quite evidently in the general mix
of things and significantly for
me, the single parent to
a five year old son.
On the other hand I’m much older than
you; am mutually and longstandingly
divorced with no dependent
children to take care of or seriously
worry about as they’re all now adults in
their own right; and who furthermore
have voluntarily and with my full
blessing vacated their parental
home to creditably create
productive and very
successful lives
of their own.
Smoothing the progression to a relished and
even selfish situation on my part, as you
can clearly see, where I’m entirely
free without the obligatory
familial responsibilities
I previously had: challenging yet delightfully
rewarding as these were, to now possess
and thoroughly enjoy the satisfactory
and even perfect life I happily
have and can comfortably
as well afford to lead.
Or worst luck, were this not so, find myself
seductively entreated by and even possibly
succumbing to the unrelenting forces
of unwarranted encumbrances or
emotional complications, that were I not
to strictly maintain my vigilance or be
resolutely level-headed enough
concerning such matters that
realistically could disastrously affect me
romantically, emotionally or even financially
and thus proscribe my ability to pre-emptively
and resourcefully head them off before they step
in and, unfortunately for me, irreparably ruin
the solace, peace of mind and the general
contentment with life which I have,
would unquestionably, I must confess,
be nothing less than an out and
out major catastrophe!
So why then, other than by virtue of temporary
insanity, should I perversely risk any or all
that I’ve diligently worked for in life and
fortunately have for someone like you, who
moreover is half my age, has nothing comparable
in exchange to offer me, and whose personal life
at twenty three has only just begun – even though
it’s been copiously littered, fraught with and
punctuated by numerous contradictions,
life-changing mistakes: some of them avoidably
so but nevertheless dare-deviledly embarked
upon by you and thoughtlessly brought
upon yourself; or come to that
ill-judgements galore?
While in marked contrast my life: very organized,
considerably experienced and cerebrally thought
out, couldn’t be any more different from yours. And
while too, sensibly, pragmatically and using every
adjectival definition that I can think of to bolster
this opinion of you and confidently reassure
myself you’re undeniably the wrong
woman for me, why then is commonsense,
notwithstanding all this and with its characteristically
routine and punctiliously active participation in
everything that I do; now choosing instead
to deliberately take a backseat in this
singular confrontation between
my heart and my head?
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
Young, vibrant and intelligent: an embodiment
of wit, charm and savoir faire that personify
a natural sophistication well beyond your
years, you Christine stroll majestically
through the corridors of the receptive
mind – an angel whose heavenly
virtues, yet bestowed on earth,
infectiously linger on long
after you’re not around.
The hallmark of the
Classic Woman.
© Stanley V. Collymore
May 15th 2001
By Stanley Collymore
Ride the storm of challenge
And reap the whirlwind
Of success,
For the essence
Of character building
Is knowing how to define
What’s best.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s nice to hear you say
You love me, but my
Heart, by the way,
Had already got
Your e-mail.
© Stanley V. Collymore
17 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
If words are the trumpets of the mind and the
eyes the telescope of the heart could it be
that silent thoughts, transmitted yet not
openly disclosed, are the engine to
provide the start of what we
hope to find?
Like an elegant goddess borne loftily
on the stalwart wings of chance
you swept in unexpectedly
but oh so majestically
in a unique, feminine
ballet de dance –
your welcomed presence creating a
charming and exciting situation
replete with its own magical
and tempting expectations.
© Stanley V. Collymore
20 June 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I see in you the hopes of my future
and the means by which I’m now
able to permanently forget
the nightmarish hell of
my troubled past.
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Once we were total strangers; our individual
existences entirely unknown to each other
and our separate lives complete worlds apart;
yet from that first encounter, not by any
means the easiest of situations, has
developed an interesting and
mutually rich meeting of minds,
which has gradually led to a
harmonious serenade of reassurance
between us and an exceptionally
strong empathy of the heart.
© Stanley V. Collymore
7 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
I’ve given you the gift of life
My child – Reward me, by
Making something
Worthwhile
Of it.
© Stanley V. Collymore
17 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Let me take you to a place
Where wishes are made
And dreams come true;
It’s called my heart
And is waiting
For you!
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
Whether you choose to stay or prefer to go
away is a decision you’ll have to make
entirely on your own. But won’t it
be much better if you were to stay
and fight for this relationship,
buffeted I know by many
difficulties cruelly heaped
upon it and painfully torn apart, and
by doing so seriously attempt to
make a brand new start?
© Stanley V. Collymore
12 July 2001.
By Stanley Collymore
It’s not love of but simply lust for me that you’re solely
concerned with, and even though with some difficulty
I could have forgiven you for that, involved both
physically and emotionally as I am with you,
had you even belatedly been honest and
straightforward with me; you none the less in
your macho and egotistical eagerness chose not
to, preferring instead by any suitable means
you could to seduce me: the willing dupe
that you took me for, as you routinely
sweet-talked your way into my bed
where lyingly, as I now know, you
callously betrayed the trust I’d
commitedly placed in you.
None of which you have since evinced or in the
remotest sense seemed inclined to show any
remorse for; simply expect me to readily
understand the rather perverse logic
you glibly espouse that as a man your
personal feelings and emotions are
perceptibly different from those
which are customarily and sentimentally
experienced by women. “Well thank you!” is
all I have to say to you; for unequivocally you’ve
made me fully realize how naïve and utterly stupid I
was to expend so much treasure, time and energy
on what was clearly a travesty of a relationship;
but putting all that aside and leaving you, as
it’s now my firm intention to, I can at least
still acceptably do so having managed
to salvage what’s left of my dignity.
© Stanley V. Collymore
4 April 2013.
By Stanley Collymore
There’s more to parenting than being a mother
who, whether consciously or accidentally so,
conceives and subsequently delivers into
a world of uncertainty the helpless
infant she’s successfully carried
for its full term, with or minus
the physical presence, moral
or the financial support
of a biological father.
For true parenting primarily embodies
the inculcation of those essential values
which irrevocably prepare that once
fragile child for the robustness of
adulthood; and you Teri, tender
in years as evidently you are
yourself, seem to have
already detected and
truly mastered
that art!
© Stanley V. Collymore
5 January 2013.
COMMENTS
-