How could you do this to me?
I trusted you with my whole heart and soul
now you tear down everything that we built up
You tell me nothing but lies
How can I trust you now?
You deceived me
made promises you cannot keep
when we said our vows,
i thought you meant every word
but now that I think about it
I dont know anymore
So I am confused on my marriage right now. I am not sure as too whether or not I should stay with my husband of 8 months or leave him. he has gone against my wishes and blew $1500 at a strip club in about a 2 day time frame. He is supposed to be looking for a new place to live since he is currently living out of my car. but he would rather spend his money and help strippers pay their rent! Any advice?
COMMENTS
You are on a ship still I assume??
He is in the States I take it??
Instead of helping himself out and you for when you get back...he is wasting money on useless things.Being married 8 months or 8 yrs...he should think about the marriage and you.Not getting his jollys off while you are away from home and country.
Maybe you should think about what you want in your future...whether it be with him an or being alone.
i would not give up on something so sacred like marriage,no one is perfect and we all lose focus sometimes,you need to just help him understand things.
HA! Okay the comments circling around the sacred bonds of marriage are kinda broken when you're loser husband is wasting money on cheap thrills and living in a car.
Not to offend or anything but even if you are a bitch, there is no point in staying with someone like that. Say goodbye.
if u care about yourself leave him he is no good for u u r better than that and deserve more
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Fizbop
06:50 Oct 17 2009
Bad things happen all the time in relationships. Sometimes it's better to make a pros and cons list of staying with them or giving them another chance. best thing to do is move on unless they are willing to work on it.
Ka0ticLust
09:05 Oct 17 2009
Thanks Fiz.... I have done a pro/cons list... and the pros outwiegh the cons thus far and I have told him what I think about everything that has gone on and am waiting for him to fix the small errors... I do not expect him to change for me but i do expect him to try and make things work