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I love it when either of my sons choose give me hug for no reason.

Only thing is they wont do that out in public with people arround lol



Be great when they are men and not afraid to show their true selves.

I am often told that i can be funny and say the most daftest of things at times.



But it is amazing that on another certain website that i joined my sister can make me feel so uncomfortable and i never know what to say.



Last year she sent me a friends request and i accepted it and things seemed to be going along just fine.

Every now and then i would post a comment here and there on her status to cheer her up for when she was having a down day.

After a few weeks one of her friends sent me a request to be her friend to.

So i did the sensible thing and privately asked her if her friend was safe and would she mind.

The reply that came back was a bit harsh and a bit childish to say the least as, she told me yes she would mind and that we should stop comunicating to each other via her status. It made her feels she was being bullied and it made her uncomfortable.

So i appologised for making her feel that way and as a sign of no problems i would remove myself from friends list.



A few months later i recieved yet another friends request from her asking if we could try again? It was not like we not in contact anyhow via email, so i thought fine i would give it another try again and it all seemed to be going fine.

I would not that often as i would have liked to posted the odd comment here and there ignored all her friends comments, didnt even click the like button as they did on mine comments i have completely ignored all of them.



However over the last couple of weeks if i posted a comment on my status and one of my friends made a comment. Their she would be popping up and have to put her two pence worth in.

I ignored it could have viewed it as bullying but have kept my mouth shut and laughed things off.

She also just before christmas befriended one of my friends who i grew up with and yes whilst my sister may have babysat her given that she is a little older than myself, this was a friend who i have known since i was 7 and she was 6.

They have had no contact since 1993 but again i chose not to the spit the dummy.



Anyway im getting my point now.

Everytime i go to comment on her status i get a private inbox message telling me i should not right something quite so below the belt. Then im told not be so strong opinion nated (is that even a word or spelt correctly?) anyway now im told that her status are ment to be light hearted and that whilst i am entitled to an opinion she would appreciate it if held back.



WTF!!!!!!



The messages i have recived from her privately telling me to be one thing and then to be something else the next.

I can feel the flippin noose around my neck getting tighter and cutting off my breathing.



I dont wish to fall out with her but its really driving me nuts.

Its like the pot calling kettle black half the time with her. If i make a mistake she blows up about but its ok for her to go and do it six months down the track.



I might not remember what happened exactly last week but i do remember certain things and they do stick very easily and not just in my head but in my throat to.

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Jens
19:56 Mar 22 2011

Yes, 'opinionated' is a word. ;) Just need to remove the space and the extra 'n'.

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LadyXblackXRose
11:29 Apr 05 2011

ah thank you i have since discovered my dictionary was in hidden in my sons room lol

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Ok who in there right mind adds someone and journal messages them that they have and that they want you to do the same??? Try striking up a conversation with the person to see if you actually like the person.

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Jens
19:57 Mar 22 2011

Very good point, I wish more people would think the same like you.

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LadyXblackXRose
11:31 Apr 05 2011

ah my brain is unique and if everyone thought like me then i would not be an original ;)

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