Confused...idk what to do18:46 Mar 18 2010
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Sometimes things dont go the way you were exspecting them to go. I cant complane about that, that would be crazy of me.
But...im just so confused. Relationships, so overrated. Honestly. And for you single people out there who may read this and think, "she dosnt know what shes talking about. Shes so selfish for thinking that. At least she has someone", get out of here.
Just because you have someone, doesnt mean that it makes anything easier or makes you feel better about yourself or makes you better off. The only people that think that, arent at peace with them selfs and have to have a boy/girlfriend to be able to look at them selfs in a mirror. That makes me sick. It also makes me so sad that people could be that confused in thier thinking and what they think a relationship is.
A boy/girlfriend makes things better by being your suport system, like a family should be. Thats how someone may be better off. But what if the person thats suposed to be there to suport you, needs more suport than you have to give. What if they are so insecure with themselfs and therefor their relationship, that you spend more time trying to ease their over active immaginations and paranoias, than you do having an actual relationship?
They say they trust you, they say they know you will never hurt them. You have never given them a reason to suspect you of being disloyal or anything like that. You have had no past history of straying away or emotionaly cheating. But they still obsess over the "what ifs" and are to afraid of "being hurt again" that they ruen a beautiful thing with the uglys that didnt even apply to the relationship at that time.
I dont know what to do. I love him. I honestly love him, but having to reasure him every day that I do and that I will never cheat on him or an of the above, is more than i should have to handle. Quite honestly, its insulting. Maybe he should take it as a complament to his "manly-ness" that he is dateing a woman that other men find atractive. I mean, all that says about him is he must be special to be the one that i picked. Not to sound full of myself in anyway, i just dont know any other way to put it.
I have never, and will never cheat on another person.
I just dont know how to make him see that i picked him, not the other billion million guys that are out there.
any ideas?
- Wow i just read that, and i sound like a total bitch. lol but im not going to change it, i dont know any other way i could put what i said.
Just know, im not a stupid bitch and im not full of myself. :) thanks. ahha
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DragonReborn
10:06 Jul 11 2010
with all the women out there that cheat on their b/f's and husbands on a daily basis..for him to find the one woman that trully only wants him..well yeah he should consider himself lucky.As for the other guys hitting on you or whatever they do..he can't blame you for that..i mean come on..wre guys..that is what we do..it says nothing about you or cheating..they just find you attractive..not your fault for sure..what he should be thankful about is that you have no desire to cheat on him and accept his good fortune..i know i would if i was in his shoes.
LordFangor
03:55 Jul 18 2010
save yourself the grief, dump him soon if you haven't