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We all get mad, every single one of us. Things are said and done in anger that have crumpled people, relationships, and nations alike and though we are are aware of it, we all, always think we were right at the time.



Emotion can lend to our strongest moments and lead to our largest down falls.



Recently things became out of hand and people were hurt and so reacted. In their reactions they did what the felt was best at the moment but may have lost sight at what was best for the community. Reguardless of who you may be if you are in a position of power your number one duty is not to yourself but to those who look to you.



The need to draw in an entire group for a battle of personal nature only paves way for falsehoods, rumors and copykats. When given to the masses information becomes skewed and lost and is instead replaced by tales from people seizing the moment for their own attentions.



While the actions to warn others is noble it is best to first resolve the issue quietly with as few people as possible. The allows for truth to in fact be shared amoung those involved for their reflection and understand.



Then bring the information to your people and rather then have them ralley behind hate for another let them strengthen with in their own ranks so such threats do not bloom in to battles where sides are forced upon them.



For those of us who are uninvolved and still drawn in it causes us to loose faith in those we ralley behind because if they are unable to resolve things without letting it interfere with those uneffected how long will it be before they lead us down the wrong path in their own misjudgements.



Most of you who will read this will have no clue what I'm talking about but the few of you that know of the incident I will leave you with this. I mean no harm in anything I have said above. I have been a member of one of the groups in question and all though I have had contact with the "Starter" of the fire at no time in all my questions and conversations was anything negative ever said about either of the groups leaders. From the outside looking in, things were blown out of proportion and could have been handled differently instead fear, uneasiness and even a bit of lost respect have resulted.



In moments like these, No One Is Right and everyone gets Hurt.



Thank you

I like everyone get mad but to get me deeply upset takes a lot. My boss is one of those few people that have the ability to push those buttons in the right consecutive order to make me light up. Now you would think that by now I would know he does it just because he’s an evil sadistic man who enjoys watching me contemplate the strength of a pencil in relation to my temple while I mentally do the math trying to figure out the proper amount of force needed to drive it through my skull and end it all just to avoid him. Now I know too many of you that sounds ridiculous and I am by no means the type of person who would ever do such a thing but that in its self should serve to explain the level of hatred I have for this man.



So why don’t I quit? I stay for 2 reasons. The first is I love my job except for the president of my company and 2nd if I quit before I’ve been here for at least a year it hurts my chances at being an Exec Assistant or Personal Assistant somewhere else. I’ve tried every approach I could think of. I tried ignoring him but what do you do when you’re on speed dial and your cell gets IM’s and emails as well. I told myself that if I didn’t let him see me sweat that he would stop. WRONG: he just tried harder. I tried avoidance but it’s hard to always do my job from home. So here I am. My mistake was by letting him know he doesn’t intimidate me with his bigness, I should have been impressed with his bigness like everyone else. (Note: Boss also competitive body builder)



Well if you need me, I’ll be here.