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That moment when someone talks to you so quietly and you can't hear them so you have to say "What?" a million times. Some people speak up but not this guy. He continues speaking in the same tone and walks away as he does it. I don't like having to say what over and over but damn if I can't hear you the first time it means you have to speak up lol not say it at the same tone then make it worse by walking away like I understood you. On top of that this guy doesn't move his lips when he talks. So I had no clue what he was saying. Oh well.

Ok ladies this one is for you. Let's say your boyfriend or girlfriend, whichever way you swing, says that if you get fat they will leave you. You ask what the fuck they mean. They say that if you got fat and weighed like 200 pounds and felt horrible about yourself but didn't work out because you were too lazy that they would leave. Then goes on to say they would leave because they wouldn't want to see you slowly killing yourself and getting health problems from obesity and that they would have to take care of you and they don't want that. This is a story one of my friends came to me with today. Now one way it sounds like this guy is an asshole but if you look at it another way, it doesn't. But at the same time if he really likes her shouldn't he be there for her as a person instead of for her body? He also went on to say to her that he would be supportive if she got fat and was trying to lose weight and would even work out with her if that happened.....but also said that if she refused to work out that he would give her a week to start trying to work out or he would leave her. What do you think of this ladies? Is this a good motivating guy or a selfish prick?

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Tristesse
13:35 Aug 30 2015

It sounds pretty normal to me. Not everyone has a fairytale going on! I am on the plus-side myself and tbh, I don't have luck with guys or girls. Call me a prude, but I still yearn for guys even if I get treated badly by them. The pains of being straight.



Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I guess.

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Tristesse
14:25 Aug 30 2015

My apologies for posting twice, but I forgot to mention this:



A guy who seeks the approval/consensus of his social circle, also plays a huge part. It's not just about accepting someone fir who they are anymore... It is one's innate nature to fulfil self-glorification.



Just my point of view. :)

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BeautifulEnlightenment
23:15 Aug 30 2015

WOW... Oh to be young again...



Heed my warning... Leave and do not look back. As EVERYONE knows who's older than 30, being overweight does not equal health problems. Maybe if one is like 4 or 500 lbs, but 200 pounds??? Come on now, that's not even really all that big. The guy is a superficial, scumbag and is using "health problems" to cover up his true feelings which are, I want a skinny bitch. PERIOD. She should leave him. He is the type that's going to cheat and beat her in the end. I've seen it time and time and time again. Leave and don't look back. This guy is trouble. Trust me.

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So since I worked yesterday I feel bad for my little buddy. Yesterday was apparently national dog day. Today I plan to do something with her like let her skip around and explore the beach again. She really liked it last time but we didn't go near the water. I am curious if she will be afraid of it or not so its worth a try. I'm looking around to find some sort of nature trail as well. I've noticed in the past that when we go in wooded areas that she likes to sneak up on anything that makes a sound. Her little scruff bristles too lol she reminds me of a cat sometimes. Her back completely bristles when she sees birds.

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