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What happened to you in past wasn't your fault.
What you choose to do now as an adult, to heal, to fix what's broken, is entirely on you.
Get your shit together.
Or don't.
But accept the consequences, the fault is yours alone at this point.
As an empath it's crucial to learn the difference between people who want/need help, and are trying to help themselves get out of a dark place, and those who merely want your undying attention, and effort showered on them no matter how badly they treat you.
I see the good in everyone.
I see the potential for healing in everyone.
But not everyone wants to be healed. Not really. Some people are nothing without their trauma. They've made their trauma their entire identity, and they feed off the sympathy, compassion, and attention it has gotten them. They are nothing if they are not constantly the victim in every situation because being the victim means they can be a shitty person with zero accountability.
"Boohoo, my trauma."
"Boohoo, my childhood."
"Boohoo, I'm constantly left alone, and misunderstood."
Making you think if you just love them enough, try hard enough, reach down deep enough to get to them that you'll make a difference, you'll help them... just to be attacked, abused, traumatized yourself by them.
You're not a shitty person because of what's happened to you. You're a shitty person because that's what you choose to be. You're alone because it's what you deserve for biting every gentle hand that tried to comfort you then crying abandonment when that comfort, being bitten numerous times, eventually completely disappears..
Being hurt doesn't justify hurting others. It's just pathetic.
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