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What is a family? Brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, mothers, fathers, sons, daughters.



But there is more, a family helps each other, they are THERE when they are needed. Never leaving there family for something that might seem better.



Any fool can make a "family" in the loosest of terms. All takes is a bottle, a moive, and a late night lapse in judgement.



Instant "family". Or so they think.



However its not real, because it was only a fling, even if it lasts for years, Its not a love, only lust, even if one person feels it , the other does not show it. Love is not ownership, it is not telling people what to do or how to do it. Its the abilty that no matter what you will be there for the person you love.



A plesant fiction, But in truth most dont have what it takes, most dont think in the long term, only the short term, they dont see the problems that will arise, they dont see the people that will suffer, they dont see the hurt in th others eyes when something happens that was unforseen. T



Yet they speak as if they have a family, as if they are still part of that family, even when in times of need they dont notice. or dont care. but they have a family.



Someone once said "love is not what your recive, yet what you give"



Its sad to see people that judge "love" backwards, enjoying there family only when they recive, viewing it as just another way to make sure that when they are dead and gone, they might , somewhere be remembered by someone, and that they are not wiped clean from this earth by some act.



I will end this with a quote i enjoy,

Taken from a man who knows a lot more about family then most, Dr. Suess



"Be who are are, and say what you feel, becuase those who mind dont matter, and those who matter , dont mind."



That is family.