I keep asking myself the same question all the time . Why don't I want to get married . I have been engaged 5 times but still no husband . They all wanted to get married but its me when it comes down to it I just go cold and will do anything to avoid the subject . I had all the pressure packed down on me yesterday . When are you getting married ? What kind of dress will you wear ? What car do you want ? What kind of venue ? All I want to do is make a run for the hills . I really don't care about those things . It does not interest me . I don't get all dreamy and silly when I see a wedding dress . I hate them all of them I think they are hideous . I had a friend who once asked my opinion on a wedding dress . My response was what are you asking me for ? . Being married just feels like I'm under arrest and I have now got a life sentence ahead of me . If a relationship does not work out for me I like knowing I can just walk away . If I'm married that means he is on my back attempting to bleed me dry for years ! Plus when in opposition I can be very vicious and vengeful ! And its not a side of myself I like anyone to see !
We must accept who we are and not limit ourselves with societal taboos ... ~bows~
Being marry has its pro and con. Look like you are concentrating most on the pro then on the pro. The freedom of do what ever you wants, when ever you wants, that is the most major con in a married couple. The freedom, that you used to have, now depend on the "permission" (between quotation) that your husband will impose into you. My humble opinion, don't date with a commitment of a future together, but, date to enjoy the moment. As we get older, we become more aware of our freedom, and will not be an easy task to let it go. If you are happy, STAY SINGLE!!
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