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so here has wht happen this year to me i got married on chistmas of 2010 to a man i was with for 6 years. through out the 6 yrs with him it has been hecktic but thats another story . when we got married my grand mother died and my mom went down to jersey to bury her cuz thats were my grandmom was at . she needed some help with the burial things so right after we got married my x a few weeks later went down to help my mom a week or so past and i wasnt feeling the greatest and i was in my senior yr that yr. so i went to the nurse and they do standard prego test. so i took one and found out i was prego. of course i was freaking out and didnt kno wht i was going to do. i told my parents first they said its up to me and then i told my x husband well he was my husband at the time any ways u get wht i mean . he was happy but couldnt come up from jersy and i said just get a job and save up the money he said ok . i knew i was going to get my high school diploma and not be a statistic in that matter. so in those 6 month my x nvr showed up . keep telling me he was saving the money and was going to send me money for the baby. i contemplated of getting an abortion but after i saw the ultrasound pictures i couldnt and i said im keeping her and would make the best. so its nearing my graduation and x suprises me with coming to my graduation. he said my mom spent all the money that he saved only his parents could bring him up there. i wasnt sure if i belived him in that but as soon as we saw each other out of his mouth he said damn u look fat. out of the hormons i started to cry . he just said ull get over it and we went to my graduation. we then moved into my x's mom house were i was working and he was doing temp jobs. we were getting ready for the baby and on july 4th 2011 my mom died. i was hiseterical and as usual my x was wonderin y i was crying. yes my mom wasnt the best mom but she still was my mom. few months went by had my birthday september came and we had my daughter x's mom says we cant live there cuz theres no space bt before her birth they said we could live there. so when i was out of the hospital moved out of my x's moms house and int my dads house. x's mom called child services on us. and they made us move into a shelter in october or november not sure the date. but any way we were there till january were then a friend said we could live with them . so me my x and my daughter moved in there. well from the start i could see my x and the friends mother getting along to friendly like to the point were he would come home and go straight to her room and not mine first. ok yes i did not give him sex and wasnt as loving cuz i was taking care of a new born and he wouldnt help at all. but that still doesnt give him justice to go to the friends mom frist when he gets home. we got into a big argument and i said u go with her im done with u . so i went to my dads with my daugter to cool off alittle and he cheated on me with her and his excuse was i didnt show him enough love and wasnt taking care of his needs. so i filed for a divorce and we didnt have any assets so the only thing were fighting for is custody of my daughter. the court gave him pysical custody and we shar legal custody. so now this story is coming to the present. a week or 2 ago he assulted me i put a restraining order on him for a yr and now his mom wants guardian ship and now im fighting to get my daughter in my custody. hopefully the judge will give me custody cuz i kno im a good mom and im bettering my self for my daughter. by going to school and now have a job. my x does drugs in the house right next to my daughters room . and is mentaly unstable. yes i do want a father for her but not one that im contantly afraid of and no that is not an ivitation guys . im not sure of if or when i get my daughter i will let my x see her but when that comes i will see. so i hope i get my daughter and the judge says no for the my x's mom for guardian ship. well i wil update soon with the new so until next time *bows and exits the journal*

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hannahrose
09:02 Oct 01 2012

WELL IF YOU NEED A FRIEND TO TALK YOU AND SUPPORT YOU UNCONDITIONALLY I AM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU . I KNOW THAT YOU ARE A GREAT MOM , I BELIEVE IN YOU AND I AM REALLY PROUD OF YOU. I AM SORRY YOU HAVE BEEN PUT THRU HELL WITH WELFARE.

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