Your new life is going to cost you your old one. It's going to cost you your comfort zone and your sense
It's going to cost you relationships and friends. It's going to cost you being liked, and understood.
But it doesn't matter.
Because the people who are meant for you are going to meet you
on the other side. And your going to build a new comfort zone
around the things that actually move you forward.
And instead of liked, you're going to be loved. Instead of
understood, you're going to be seen. All your going to lose
is what was built for a person you no longer are.
Let it go.
Maybe you're not healing because you're trying to be who you were before the trauma.
That person doesn't exist anymore because there is a new you, trying to be born.
Breathe life into that person.
There is light in your eyes, and love in your heart.
It's not naivety, it's wisdom.
You have seen the worst the world has to offer.
You have come out brighter on the other side.
Not because those days didn't hurt.
Not because people haven't left their scars.
It's because you know your stronger now
That strength gives you purpose.
That purpose allows you to spread your light to others
So, shine on. Let love be your strength.
Things can happen in this life that don't make sense. You might even ask yourself how certain things could happen to someone like you. As you navigate your way through life, it becomes clear that nothing is out of the realm of possibilities.
While you can't control what life throws at you, you can control how you rebuild and rise above from the moments that turn your world upside down. There is good and bad in life, and you can't let the bad hold power over the good.
You are blessed in more ways than you might realize right now, and this is not the end of the road for you. There will be more laughs and many more moments of pure joy surrounded by the people who love you.
Sometimes you need to push through the tough times to truly appreciate the good ones. Your heart may be in pieces, but this feeling will not last, your heart will begin to heal again in good time. But for now it's time to be strong, It's time to accept, it's time to feel, it's time to mend.
It doesn't matter who you used to be. What matters is who you decide to be today.
You are not your mistakes. You are not your mishaps.
You are not your past. You are not your wounds.
You can decide differently today and at every moment.
Remember that. You are offered a new opportunity
with each breath to think, choose, decide and act
differently in a way that supports you in being all
that you are capable of being.
You are not less than. You are enough.
When you spend your life feeling misunderstood, out of place, as if the frequency you send off isn't picked up by anyone.
The song of your heart isn't heard by others in the same way you hear it, it can be lonely.
But then there comes a day when someone picks up on your energy. They hear your music, and for the first time in your life you feel heard, understood, seen, and that connection is more powerful than almost anything.
So, if you find it, if you have it, hold it close. Because that's rare type of magic that should never be wasted.
People know your name, not your story. They have heard what you have done, but not what you have been through.
So, take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it is not what others think, it is what you think about yourself that counts.
Sometimes you have to do exactly what is best for you and your life, not what is best for everyone else.
If you only carry one thing throughout your entire life, let it be hope. Let it be hope that better things are always ahead.
Let it be hope that you can get through even the toughest of times. Let it be hope that you are stronger than any challenge that comes your way.
Let it be hope that you are exactly where your meant to be right now, and that you are on the path to where you are meant to be.. Because during these times , hope will be the very thing that carries you through.
Be the kind of person who isn't afraid to ask someone if they are okay twice if they say they are , but look like they aren't.
Be the kind of person who smiles at people even if they don't smile back.
Be the kind of person you wished for when no one was there for you.
Be the kind of person who is brave enough to stand alone in a crowd for what is right.
Be that person because we need more people like that in the world.
Be that person because people like that are rarer than the rarest diamonds and gold.
I wish that we all could be like that 😔 But today in this crazy world we became selfish and greedy we chase money, we don't have time for our family and friends, we don't even notice what going on around us. Before few months my good friend commented suicide, to me see seemed OK, and I surprised when I found out what happened to her. We all didn't notice or care what is going on with her.....now is late.
You don't have to be what other people want you to be.
You don't have to be interesting or agreeable or entertaining.
You don't have to tone yourself down, quiet your voice, or hide your feelings.
You don't have to be outgoing or spontaneous.
You don't have to be thin or beautiful, or anyone's definition of attractive.
You don't have to be anyone other than who you authentically are,
and you sure as hell don't have to spend your time and energy trying to convince people that
your worth keeping around. The right person is gonna recognize your worth.
They are going to respect you, appreciate you, and accept you.
Without forcing you to compromise who you are.
Life is too short, and your happiness is far too important, to make room for anyone who treats you otherwise.
It just takes one small step in the right direction to profoundly change your life forever. One small moment of courage can show you that your fears were never as scary as you once believed. One tiny spark of hope can set in motion the beginning of something extraordinary. Your life isn't defined solely by the bold jumps and daring leaps. Sometimes it's the small moments of courage, the things nobody sees, that can make the biggest impact on your future. Take one small step today. Take one more small step tomorrow. Show up for yourself , even when nobody else sees. Even when it isn't glamorous. Even when you have no reassurance that you will succeed. Trust your authentic path. Trust the pull in your heart guiding you forward. Trust that your hard work is paying off in ways you can't see yet.
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