OK so you have someone here on VR you don't like? All this frigging fighting and drama for what? Does the real world really care/ Will the axis stop spinning? Will the real world be affected. Will the people you hate lose anything? What is there to be proven?
Folks, this is a damn website. Are you being paid top be here because CANCER is the ONLY person I know making a dime here, whether you like people here, or not.
Yes there have been some real hurts here, no mistaking that. But be a damned adult and move on. The earth eill NOT stop spinning, because of disputes. Do I have opinions on these disputes? Of course, and so do you. Regardless, the flame wars are silly
AS a Pagan, the only people I need to please are the Godd/ess/es and God/s, the most and try to get on with people as best possible. Am I perfect at it? Far from it! Made my share of mistakes, and will continue to. That's called being human.
So, how about keeping the "social" part in the "social network," unles you fancy having anger, bitterness and hate in the fabrique of your soul.
VR is fun, but remember it's a damned website
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DisturbedVision
23:49 Feb 19 2013
mel, you know as well as anyone else that the drama will never end. people can constantly mind their own business on here and shit will still hit the fan. hell, most people simply try to avoid it. but, people keep throwing fuel to the fire. hence, the name for them is "drama queens/kings". and those are the people that thrive on that drama. it's their daily routine to keep the fire going.
MasterMel2
23:53 Feb 19 2013
Yes I know. I have too many VR friends fighting here. Sickening
VRsZombie
13:32 Feb 20 2013
The reason drama goes on is that when one members says something about another member, the member that is being talked about feels the need to fire back some kind of response.
The ONLY way to avoid the drama is to shut up completely on such matters. Someone says something about you, regardless of the accusation or severity, say NOTHING. Ignore it altogether. Eventually, such people will move on as they will get bored.
What people are lacking in these situations is self control. Pure and simple.
deathnitegrl
17:22 Feb 20 2013
Zombie hit the nail on the head. The only way to stop, is to ignore n move on. I can understand the frustration but it will never stop if journal wars continue. Trust me I have been in this situatiation, and it stopped when I decided to stop n the other person left because they lost their goal to piss me off.