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hey, i just want to know everybody's opinion on premaritual sex. What do ya'll think. Do you believe in waiting till marriage? I just need some opinions. this is just something that ive been wondering about for a long time.

NO...but thats because im Atheist, I don't beleave anybody sould wait a long time to experiance something good, like sex.

i think that its up to the people its up to them but if they do the girl isent saposed to were white

LMAO... you mean you guys have sex before the *first* bite? emmy giggles.. WOW!

I think that you should do what feels right to you. Dont do something just b/c its popular.

Premarital.
No u in that word.

But to answer the question...

I'm 25. Not married. And no Im not a virgin.
Apparently I didnt find it overly important enough to wait for that "special someone".

I'd have been waiting a long time had I done that.

Though you can always tell what the temperature outside is by...as someone of note put it... how many 13 year olds are walking their stroller strapped kids.
O_o

Apparently the context escapes many families in this day and age.

Ultimately its the persons decision as to whether or not they are going to wait untill they are married.
I think the parents have a lot to do with it.
The persons friends have a lot to do with it as well.

Meh.

I said "context".

I meant concept.

it is up to the person, and i am one of those persons waiting for her. but someone on this thread said you dont have to because its popular... well look around you staying a virgin isnt exactly popular anymore.

I believe what NetRang3r said was:

"I think that you should do what feels right to you. Dont do something just b/c its popular."

I took that as being intended for either direction.

If you want to have sex and you feel that virginity is popular... go ahead and have sex.

Vice Versa as well.

Meh.
O_o

That reads a little dickish in tone.
My bad.
:(

being a virgin is popular in my book.......

*giggles*

well i definetly don't believe in waiting to get married to have sex, i just believe you should lose it for the right reason...not just to do it. Hell i may never be married, if i followed the staying a virgin crap id be one for the rest of my life...thats kinda scary!

:-x :o

actually it's kinda scary just talkin about virginity...LoL those days...wow that was a while ago hehe

Ermm...
its good
keeps me healthy
and makes me happy XD
*giggles*

I have the same opinion as Khay said.
I think the most important thing is to do it with the right one, one u love, doesnt matter if u have a peper of being married!

and could you tell me which book that would be where being a virgin is popular in these days? That book's gotta be upside down cuz if you take a look around a lotta teens are parents now a days...bringing me back to what i said earlier, don't just lose it to lose with some random guy/girl. Lose it for the right reason that's honesly all i have to say. You are not gunna wanna regret the 1st time or person u were with ( i heard it's a shitty feeling) im glad i waited for the right person(even though i was young) Regret is such a terrible feeling...

oh and one last question, who the hell give a damn about what is popular?!!

Wow.. you have everything in America!! hehee

Seriously 'tho, I was brought up with the concept that sex before marriage was wrong, however, saving it for a meaningful, loving relationship I find nothing wrong with. Men, or woman flinging it around for the sake of just having sex, however is different.

I'm a strong christian believer, and i do believe in waiting to have sex till marriage, but not because i'm a christian, because it makes it special and shows your dedication to the right person, that you aren't in it just for the sex.

Yes I'm a Virgin and I'm PROUD of it.

I wouldnt mock anyone for wanting to wait..

I dont think I ever even considered it though.

My friends who were planning to wait until marriage all ended up cheating and just waiting until they were engaged to be married...and then ended up breaking off their engagements.

To me, sex is something that i want to be part of my decision to marry. Not that I'd divorce him if something happened to change the quality of our sex life after marriage, but the way a person acts in bed (or wherever we're having sex) is something that I want to take into consideration before deciding to live with him for the rest of my life, love him for the rest of my life, have children with him, and have sex with him and only him for the rest of my life.

*shrugs* besides that...i like sex, i'm old enough to be carefuly and deal with the consequences should there be any, and i dont have to be in love to enjoy it. maybe i'm morally challenged

Well I dont believe in waiting for marriage, because marriage isn't for everyone. But I do think that a person should wait until they are ready or until they can handle what may hppen due to having sex.

Now a days its very rare to find people holding onto thier virginty. I commend them.

Do what you feel is right. and what your comfortable with.

I'm 18 and for most all of my life I believed haveing sex before 18 or marriage was bad. Plus I have low self-esteem and thought no one would ever want to have sex with me. Well when I was 17 I basically said fuck it. I love this guy and we might as well do it.

Strictly speaking about people who are old enough and at a stage in life where they can be responsible.
I dont really feel that retaining virginity or losing it are commedable events...just...activity choices.

I feel that when you know the time is right you will experiece that wonderful moment with some one. I don't need a piece of paper to tell me when that is.

ha wright wrong good bad. sex an marriage have nothing to do with another once you think about it we only marry the people we have babies with for survival of the species. so the kid can have a protected inviroment which WE FUCK UP ANYHOW but anyhow. I do believe in waiting for one that you want to share your life with. I can't understand why its a big deal anymore yeah i mean i am twisted because i want that marriage or special relation then sex thing, but i know its just cuz of the way i was brought up. but speaking out of my little sheltered mind sex is just an act we do just as animals do there is nothing special about it one i use to go by this quote inspired by my wonderful brother. "sex is nothing but two organs rubbing against one another" and thats it. Yeah you can see we both are mordent people who don't believe in sex as mean of pleasure well mostly him now adays not that i've had sex but i've ligthen up and want people to do what they feel like whether or not it leads to thier uter destruction.
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whew sorry had to get it out

i myself believe that we learn from our parents. i myself is not pure but if you are ever planning to have sex before marriage then make sure you do it with someone that you at least care about and use protection. Both parties use protection, your both resposible for your own sakes. Just because the males have the condemns don't let the females off so easliy. we females have to step up to the plate and use protectin for ourselves. so go for it and make sure you catch his name and use protection

Why use protection?! SEX IS FOR REPRODUCTION!!! so i say if you decide to do it hey why not be ready to carry the burdon. The pleasure part was just put inside of us by our creator to make us reproduce we get something we keep doing it that way we never get tired of it and the world keeps going. think what if sex was just painful as hell and there was no pleasure. I dont think anyone will wanna do it. one question. how many of you ever say lets make babies instead of lets have sex? huh?! huh?! THOUGHT SO I AM TIRED OF MOST OF US BEING THE RESULT OF AN ACCIDENT. HEy tommy we love you but ur only here cuz the condom broke my god yeah and i am suppose to believe that my parents really wanted me alive. suuuure

re: babies
tubal ligation, vasectomy, birth control pills, iuds, diaphragms, condoms, spermicide, morning after pill, abortion, adoption.

re: on birth control

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