I have a friend who's dateing a compelte and total jerk I mean this guy drinks they argue he's jelous of her guy friends. How do I make her relizes there are better guys out there or can I?
Tell her the truth of what you think if she's your real friend at least she'll listen to what you have to say.
I dont think there is anything you can really do other than tell her what you think and be there for her. Until she realizes it herself, nothing you say or do will matter.
I dont know but if you find a way that works I would love to know it
she's blind just like I was, I saw the true nature of a bad person until you spy on she/he and really find out what kind of person that b**** was..
Ultimatly all you can do is tell them how you feel, and stand by them as a friend, because in the end if they choose to continue to see or like this person then ther isn't a whole lot that you or anyone else could say that would change their mind until they see it for themselves in that person ... it's their life, their mind and their heart after all to like and be with whom they choose, not yours . >;^}
in total agreement with Athena....
love is not blind....it's deaf dumb and blind!
tell her till you are blue in the face.....it will likely do no good....
all you can do is stay friends and help pick up the pieces of broken heart afterwards...
I was in a situation like yours.When I told my friend about it she told me to f*ck off and accused me of being jealous.Then she realised I was right and spoke to me again.
So I suggest to tell her even though she won't speak to you again.In the future she would realise about the mistake she was doing.
You can tell her all you want, she probaly isn't going to listen. She'll find out on her own. Then you have to be a true friend and bite your toungue, instead of saying I told you so.... remember, love is blind.
Yes, Thants the only possible way....
But I think she ll realize it sometimes.
Yes I know you dont wanna her to suffer....
Women love a bastard. Get over it!
I'd tell her what ya think and why ya think then let her get on with it. Maybe next time she'll listen. Unlikely but maybe.
...lol not all of women.
However I agree with you.Women tend to like bad guys.I really get upset when I see girls wasting their lives for some worthless idiot.
Hey dont say that I am that worthless idiot lol.
Seriously though when i was younger I used to be so good to women and they used to walk all over me and treat me like a dickhead. Now I treat em like shit and they love me for it.
i dont understand it but "if it aint broke..." lol
People have to make their own mistakes...
The only thing you can do is stand by her and be there when reality hits her...
You risk losing her as well, she is not ready to see, help her pick up the peices.