Alright, I've heard about enough of this for people... I guess you could call this my rant for today...Hoping some other parents (or even not parents) have the same thoughts as I do?
"My children are rotten" "They don't listen" and my personal favorite "I don't know how this happened" etc...etc...etc... Really now parents?
Well. We all KNOW how it happens...So I wont bother with that. come on now. Ready or not for being a parent we know as adults what sex is SUPPOSED to do...don't stand there with your face in your hands like you just don't understand you look like an idiot. *laughs*
NO child is rotten, there is NOOOOOO such thing as a bad child. I can't stress that enough just no such a thing. A child is formed by their parents teaching and behaviors...up until a certain point at least. Even after that everything is made up of what they know, and what they see...
A baby cries until it is comforted. no comfort. no cease (until the poor thing cries itself to sleep in which case the parent should just rot) I cant be the only one tired of hearing "it just wont stop" OF COURSE NOT it can FEEL you. like you could never imagine in ways we could NEVER understand. it knows your emotions because you transfer those TO THEM (trust me) CHILL OUT and so will the baby...
As of for the "terrible twos" and "he just don't won't can't" (bullshit) they do, will and can...Who the hell gives their children options? why would you (as a parent) do that to yourself??
Give your children CHOICES not options.
(no spawns from no) They didn't teach themselves that word. lol how about "that's not right. you CANT (not shouldn't) touch that"
No is just an ugly word and ANYONE will defy it given the chance.
Children are BRILLIANT...Pure beyond anything you can imagine. EVERYTHING is brand new to them. Impressionable, What they see. what they are taught. What they come to understand something as is what that will be...
Everything you as a parent, brother, sister guardian grandparent etc..everything you show them or teach them is GOING TO STICK...think about that next time you ask your 3 year old if hes "fucking stupid" because hes going to start to believe he is...
Any idiot can have a baby...Very few will become parents...I'm sick of seeing children (mental children not speaking age though thats getting to be a little much too) trying to "raise" children...sweetie your not raising your child your destroying him the same as your parents did you..(noticing a pattern??)
I'd love more input on this subject...truly...Perhaps I am being ignorant about it. But the future depends on this new generation MORE SO the ones who have created it. (myself included)...
