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DanielleMoonchilde
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15:40:02 Feb 12 2019
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I didn't know where to place this post wise so my appologize if its in the wrong spot.


So as a transwoman, I am seeing things that give me a reason why I agree with women more and more. I am beginning to find some men repulsive and gross but yet I know that not all men are like this. So here is the stuff that I hate about men

1) They piss on the toliet seat and us women have to wipe that up. I hate that more than anything. It is gross and men never clean up after themselves.
2) You think of us as sex objects: EG. Hey you have nice tits or hey baby, wanna fuck?
3) You never listen to how we feel, you tell us we just being dramatic.

I can't think of others but I find it so repulsive when the first thing a guy says is"Hey you got nice tits". When I seen that on here, I was disgusted by the lack of manners. Like I was confused too how he seen my tits when my picture is just of my shoulders and head. So I messaged him and flat out told him how rude it was that you do not treat women this way and that saying stuff like that could get you punched for being a perv.

But alas, I am probably the only one that feels this way. I love being a woman but my god can't men be more respectful. Not too much to ask. Anyways, wanted to post this.




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XZenithX
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17:40:34 Feb 12 2019
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Do you realize more men are victims than women are?



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DanielleMoonchilde
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20:35:26 Feb 12 2019
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why would you say that? how would they be victims?



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Gristle
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16:37:32 May 02 2019
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This is probably more suited to a journal entry, but I agree.
I am also not surprised that on a website like this, the first response was "bUt ThInK oF tHE MeN!!!!".



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Terezi
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19:37:09 May 02 2019
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Men can be victimized just as much as women. Gender has less to do with that then some are willing to believe. Every person is different yet some think it's a "one size fits all" sort of mold for this sort of thing.

Sure we hear so much more about women being victimized, but as a gender women are not the only ones who can be hurt, severely injured or even killed. There have been instances which females have seen their mates either poisoned, assaulted (sexually or otherwise- this DOES happen) or even killed- the term "black widow" doesn't just mean the Marvel character, guys. To say that men are the only ones capable of victimizing someone is just ignorant as saying that a woman "deserved it". It's simply a different set of circumstances, which changes as easily as the individual.

Agree or not, that's my point of view. I'm willing to respect others' opinions regarding this though.


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Terezi
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19:47:25 May 02 2019
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Also, one more point:

You hate men because you met boys in a man's body.



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Archimedes
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20:08:01 May 02 2019
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I would like to apologize to who I offend with this post, but sadly someone needs to say something.

1. I am not against the trans-community do I personally feel insulted when a guy switches to my gender....you are beyond right....I am highly offended and insulted. Just because you change your name, your genitals, and you slap boobs on your chest doesnt make you a damn female. You can not possible understand the gift that each woman has the gift of giving life is something you will never have. It is like you are dressing for Halloween every day. I am sorry if this upsets people but honestly we made a mistake and open the doors for confusion and manipulation on our next generation. For example a son lives with both parents for lets say 8 years Mommy is mommy and Daddy is daddy....ok Daddy wakes up one day as a woman....can you imagine the torment you choose to inflict on that child for selfish purposes. How is that fair, what right do you have to subject a child to not only the embarrassment but the bullying they will endure. Children are cruel I will admit this we have no right to make their lives worse because we think swapping genders will fix the mental insecurity that we have within.

2. Each gender has its ups and downs. For example to bring most of the popular into existence a female goes through hell do it...yes the male a part a small part they dont carry it for the 9 months, they dont bleed for it, they dont possible die for it so there are some cruel factors for female. Now men they have the social standards beat into them from birth...you must provide, protect, honor and obey...sound familiar. If they admit abuse they are looked as if they are weak. If they admit sexual assault they are laughed at and not taken seriously specially if a female is involved with no sign of drugs. Both genders are looked differently females apparently we belong cooking cleaning and raising the children our only purpose...umm no. Men they are breeding machines, providers, and apparently superior which is far from truth each gender is needed for balance without one of them existing them human race would die off slowly.

3. My final point remember the following each gender serves a purpose yes it may not always be clear but they are needed to continue the population. Crossing the lines set from creation not only could cause future issues with the next line of generations, but we open our own gateways to different style of crime and I will bet that when bad things happen we will blame the trans, the gays, hell anything we can think of besides the factor that it would be our faults because allowed this shit to even start in first place. Everyone has the right to be whatever they want behind closed doors....but when you force it on others that is an issue specially when you claim you are something you can never be. No amount of surgeries will change your DNA, no about of surgeries will change when you die and they your blood you will be the gender you are running from not the costume you hide in. So Im sorry for offending people but this is my thought process.



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MooniePie
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17:16:29 May 03 2019
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This is more of a journal item than a forum post.



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