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As interesting and well written as this may be I have to say that I disagree on this one. Though lots of times love is something that we do not control, I also believe that someone can choose whether to love or not. And that being the case I find it hard to believe that once we have no more to learn from a person, we stop loving them. Because there are so many different forms and degrees of love. For example you love family unconditionally forever and always. And when you get married, that spouse becomes family. I can safely say without a doubt in my mind that my wife is the mother of my children and the person that I experienced alot of firsts with and for all of that, no matter what happens between us ever, my love for her will never die. All I'm saying is in my opinion, love doesn't die just because you stop learning from the person that you love. Again it was very interesting to read your thoughts on the subject. I hopw you aren't closed to a little friendly debate. ; )

I am very open to friendly debate so long as it stays friendly and both parties understand that each has there own opinion.... I understand the everlasting love.... there are people that I have grown apart from.... I still care dearly for them... but the love has changed.... it has become a different love.... much the same as the family love.... it isnt like the love that makes you feel it impossible to stay away from that person for another moment.... it is just that yes if they were to come around you would smile and be happy but the desire to be close to them and learn from them is less... they sort of get filed in the "still care about but grown apart" part of your heart.