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A collar is a precious gift, not just a mere trinket, as most would visualize jewelry. For one to be collared, there's a deeper meaning behind it all. Love in its purest form. The most authentic symbolism of bonding is love, loyalty, trust, and protection. In addition to the collar's symbolic message, there is also honor, ownership, respect, plus surrender. There is a mutual consent.

Moreover, collars can signify a power exchange, consensually that is. One who doesn't understand will never know the true, genuine value a collar places on the commitments for both the wearer and the bestower.
Much like wedding rings, collars can be the kinky equivalent. However, just as a variety of rings exist, different collars exist too, which all can represent a different kind of power exchange. Within the BDSM lifestyle or D/s dynamic, the Bestower is usually the Master or Dominant, although the wearer is the submissive, slave, or vice versa, depending on the type of negotiated dynamic they have with one another.
Another vital point of collars is when the partners begin what's called a "Collaring Ceremony". A collaring ceremony is a deep, ritualistic, intimate ceremony similar to a wedding, where the partners in the dynamic further their trust and commitment by having the submissive's neck receive their collar from the Dominant/Master. Vows are even exchanged.

To be collared is one of the most intimate moments not only for the wearer, whether they're a submissive or a slave. But it's also intimate for the partner as well. Each of them knows just how much of a connected bond they share. Emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and physically. They know that by receiving a collar in this emotionally intense moment. They are permanently agreeing to signify their dominance and submission.


More so, when a collar is placed, it can change how one envisions oneself and the role one has. All in all, to be collared is truly an enlightening and empowering experience.

While I do appreciate everyone who I give honor too thanking me in my messages and in turn presenting honor to me as well. You are always welcome. Just sharing the positivity ya know what I mean. Sometimes I give honor just to be polite & kind, if I had positive encounters. Other times, I give just to help out.

Even though I'm trying to level up and become sire the honor system baffles me a bit.
I tend to split my honor all equally and distribute the number accordingly.
Not that I'm saying there's anything wrong or bad. But I notice that when I give someone a 5 honor, on their honor chart the number is shown to become a 6. However, there's been instances where I've given a 10 honor to a person, and on their chart it's a 5.
I guess I still got a lot to understand about how the honor system works out, as my level progresses higher. As the saying goes, "give credit where credit is due"

How about give honor, where honor is due

Anyways, to those I've gave honor too you're welcome 😎👍🏻👍🏻

But to those who have pissed me off, straight up annoyed me and even harassed me at some point (you know what you did) I gave y'all negative honor for very valid reasonings BUT
let me be clear on my feelings