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If I'm going to get ghosted, simply for trying to make genuine and sincere friendships/connections here on VR. Then openly tell me; what's your issue with me and why I'm being ghosted; and or left on 'seen'-
just so I wouldn't feel I'm the one to blame.

Considering that's the default setting with friendships nowadays. Point the finger and blame me, while they lack accountability and refuse to acknowledge their own wrongdoings.
It's better for them to paint me as the villain in their narrative.
Meanwhile they ghost me, just so they would not have to deal with guilt and deflect responsibility.

To me, ghosting means I'm not worth an explanation as to why I've been dropped, left hanging, abandoned or cut off.
That I'm just not worth anyone's time.

Truthfully, 𝙄'𝙢 𝙣𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙜𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙙.


Hell I've been ghosted by supposed 'friends' I knew for 20 years. Yeah I know life happens, shit happens. But come on!
Be an adult and own up to someone you supposedly cared about.
Give them the reason you're leaving. Otherwise your actions will just end up causing more emotional, dare I even say mental wounds for them to heal.

To be honest, I was the type of ride or die friend and they knew that wholeheartedly; but frankly it wasn't good enough. They cut me off without a moment's hesitation. While folks targeted me online & offline, bullied me, came at me, accused me all because of my affiliation with said friends. I always defended their honor, name and reputation even if it had cost me my own. I took a lot of bullshit for those I once held dear to my heart and in my life. Only for them to abandon me like trash.

So best believe me when I said I'm 𝙉𝙊 𝙎𝙏𝙍𝘼𝙉𝙂𝙀𝙍 to ghosting.
I just want to make a clarification that friendship ghosting does happen and if there is a chance that I'd become a ghostee yet again for no reason at all. Then give me a valid statement before making claims of wanting to become my friend. I'd rather ride solo than to deal with people who can't show up for me, as I've always done for others.

I rather hurt while I am healing than become vulnerable again, especially on VR