Currently I have a job at a small family owned and operated store. It is my job to be friendly to the customers. That is part of customer service. It is a small neighborhood store so I get the same people everyday. No big deal for the most part.
Anyhow, there are some male customers who get confused. Well, to clear up any misunderstanding that may extist Johnny's Food Mart ( you can insert the name of your local neighborhood store here) is not a dating service. When I tell a male customer thank you and have a nice day, I am not wanting their phone number, I do not want to give you my phone number and I am not looking for a romp in the sack. If that was the case, I could get a job with someone similar to Heidi Fleiss. Since I do not seek that line of employment, chances are that neither romance or anything else is what I am after on a job. I am attempting to pay my bills and support my son. Love is wonderful. The things that come with it are wonderful. I just do not go to work expecting to find any of it.
If you are a customer in a store, please understand that the friendly person behind the counter is not looking to be set up with your brother, brother in law, cousin, neighbor, ex husband or the guy who works in the store down the street. Unless they specifically tell you they want to be set up, chances are the thought has never crossed their mind and you are overstepping a few boundaries.
Ny boss is not a pimp. I thought I would add that. You can get an employee in trouble by trying to get personal with then while they are at work. The even t is being videotaped and there is audio. My boss is not the write up king, but in some stores I would have already had fifty write ups or more , because some customer is either attempting to get frisky or trying to get me to get frisky with a third party. That is not a nice thing to do.
For those who do not attempt these things and go into a store purchase your items and leave, thank you. Come again.
Fidel Castro Resigns Cuban Presidency
HAVANA (Feb. 19) - Fidel Castro, ailing and 81, announced Tuesday he was resigning as Cuba's president, ending a half-century of autocratic rule which made him a communist icon and a relentless opponent of U.S. policy around the globe.
The end of Castro's rule - the longest in the world for a head of government - frees his 76-year-old brother Raul Castro to implement reforms he has hinted at since taking over as acting president when Fidel fell ill in July 2006.
President Bush said he hopes the resignation signals the beginning of a democratic transition, though he doubts that would come about under the rule of another Castro. The State Department denigrated the change as a "transfer of authority and power from dictator to dictator light."
Castro temporarily ceded his powers to his brother on July 31, 2006, when he announced that he had undergone intestinal surgery. Since then, he has not been seen in public, appearing only sporadically in official photographs and videotapes and publishing dense essays about mostly international themes as his younger brother consolidated his rule.
"My wishes have always been to discharge my duties to my last breath," Castro wrote in a letter published Tuesday in the online edition of the Communist Party daily Granma. But "it would be a betrayal to my conscience to accept a responsibility requiring more mobility and dedication than I am physically able to offer."
In the pre-dawn hours, most Cubans were unaware of Castro's message, and Havana's streets were quiet. It wasn't until 5 a.m., several hours after it was posted on the internet, that official radio began reading the news to early risers.
As the news across the island, Cubans went about their business as usual, accepting the inevitable with a mix of sadness and hope.
"It is like losing a father," said Luis Conte, an elderly museum watchman. Or "like a marriage - a very long one that is over."
Cuban dissidents welcomed the news as a possible first step toward change.
"The change of a person does not signify the change of a system," said Oswaldo Paya, whose pro-democracy Varela Project sought an unsuccessful referendum on civil rights and electoral reforms. "We have always maintained hope and today we are more hopeful."
Reaction was subdued in Miami's exile community. Dozens gathered in Little Havana, where motorists honked horns, but reporters nearly outnumbered the revelers who shouted "Free Cuba!" and sold little flags.
In Washington, the government said it had no plans to change U.S. policy or lift its embargo on Cuba.
Bush, traveling in Rwanda, pledged to "help the people of Cuba realize the blessings of liberty." But he implied that wasn't likely under Raul Castro.
"The international community should work with the Cuban people to begin to build institutions that are necessary for democracy," he said. "Eventually, this transition ought to lead to free and fair elections - and I mean free, and I mean fair - not these kind of staged elections that the Castro brothers try to foist off as true democracy."
If Cuba remains much the same, "political prisoners will rot in prison and the human condition will remain pathetic in many cases," Bush said.
The United States built a detailed plan in 2005 for American assistance to ensure a democratic transition on the island of 11.2 million people after Castro's death. But Cuban officials have insisted that the island's socialist political and economic systems will outlive Castro.
"The adversary to be defeated is extremely strong," Castro wrote Tuesday. "However, we have been able to keep it at bay for half a century."
Peter Kornbluh, senior analyst at George Washington University's National Security Archive, said the resignation will allow the next U.S. president to adopt a totally new approach toward dialogue and civil relations with a post-Fidel Cuba.
"Fidel Castro's resignation does present a true opportunity to revisit a U.S. policy of perpetual antagonism towards Cuba, even though the current U.S. president is unlikely to make any changes in a hostile position towards Cuba," he said.
Castro has been Cuba's unchallenged leader since 1959. Monarchs excepted, he was the world's longest ruling head of state.
There had been widespread speculation about whether he would continue as president when the new National Assembly meets Sunday to pick the country's top leadership, the Council of State which will be headed by the new Cuban president. Castro said Cuban officials had wanted him to remain in power after his surgery.
"It was an uncomfortable situation for me vis-a-vis an adversary that had done everything possible to get rid of me, and I felt reluctant to comply," he said in a reference to the United States.
Castro remains a member of parliament and is likely to be elected to the 31-member Council of State on Sunday, though he will no longer be its president. He also retains his powerful post as first secretary of Cuba's Communist Party.
The resignation opens the path for Raul Castro's succession to the presidency, and the full autonomy he has lacked in leading a caretaker government.
The younger Castro has raised expectations among Cubans for modest economic and other reforms, saying last year that the country requires unspecified "structural changes" and acknowledging that government wages averaging about $19 a month do not meet basic needs.
As first vice president of Cuba's Council of State, Raul Castro was his brother's constitutionally designated successor and appears to be a shoo-in for the presidential post when the council meets Sunday. More uncertain is who will be chosen as Raul's new successor, although 56-year-old council Vice President Carlos Lage, who is Cuba's de facto prime minister, is a strong possibility.
Castro rose to power on New Year's Day 1959 and reshaped Cuba into a communist state 90 miles from U.S. shores.
The fiery guerrilla leader survived assassination attempts, a CIA-backed invasion and a missile crisis that brought the world to the brink of nuclear war. Ten U.S. administrations tried to topple him, most famously in the disastrous Bay of Pigs invasion of 1961.
His ironclad rule ensured Cuba remained communist long after the breakup of the Soviet Union and the collapse of communism across Eastern Europe.
Castro's supporters admired his ability to provide a high level of health care and education for citizens while remaining fully independent of the United States. His detractors called him a dictator whose totalitarian government systematically denied individual freedoms and civil liberties such as speech, movement and assembly.
The United States was the first country to recognize Castro's government, but the countries soon clashed as Castro seized American property and invited Soviet aid.
On April 16, 1961, Castro declared his revolution to be socialist. A day later, he defeated the CIA-backed Bay of Pigs invasion. The United States squeezed Cuba's economy and the CIA plotted to kill Castro. Hostility reached its peak with the 1962 Cuban missile crisis.
The collapse of the Soviet Union sent Cuba into economic crisis, but the economy recovered in the late 1990s with a tourism boom.
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I was one of those who assumed that Fidel would hold on to his position as dictator until his dying breath. I never once thought he would resign. This comes as a shock to me. I do not think Cuba will be a democracy overnight and I doubt if relations with the United States will be cozy. I am sure Fidel's brother did not take too kindly to the CIA's attempt on his brother's life or the fact we have supported various attempts to overthrow his brother's government. Perhaps, modest reforms will take place and the people of Cuba will have more freedom.
I will say this much for old Fidel. He outlived both of the Kennedys. John was in office as president when Fidel declared his intentions for a socialist government and cozied up to the former Soviet Union. Robert, John's younger brother, was attorney general during this time.
I sure we will have to wait and see what happens in Cuba. Good thing Georgie boy is leaving office soon. I do hope Bush does not feel the need to get into a fight with the Castros. IF he does, I hope someone reminds him that he is not Robert or John Kennedy and that Cuba is ninety miles off the coast of Florida.
ROME, Italy (AP) -- An 83-year-old former SS prison guard who was sentenced to life in prison in Italy for Nazi war crimes was jailed near Naples Saturday, hours after he was extradited from Canada.
Michael Seifert arrived shortly before dawn at an airport near Rome aboard a military jet from Toronto. He was taken to a prison near Naples, where he was having a routine medical exam, said Bartolomeo Costantini, the military prosecutor who pursued the case.
"His legs were a little wobbly after he got off the flight" likely due to the stress and the long journey, Costantini said.
Seifert has a pacemaker but otherwise is apparently healthy, he said. If doctors deem it necessary, Seifert could be incarcerated in a hospital ward in the prison.
If someone is willing to host him, the former SS officer eventually could be allowed to serve his sentence on house arrest because of his age.
Seifert, known as the "Beast of Bolzano," was convicted in absentia in 2000 by a military tribunal in Verona on nine counts of murder committed while he was an SS guard at a prison transit camp in Bolzano, northern Italy.
At his trial, people testified that Seifert starved a 15-year-old prisoner to death, gouged out a person's eyes and tortured a woman before killing her and her daughter.
Seifert, a Canadian citizen of Ukrainian origin, has acknowledged being a guard at the SS-run camp but denies being involved in atrocities.
In 1944 and 1945, the Bolzano camp served as a transit point for Jews, Italian resistance fighters, Italians drafted for factory work and German army deserters who were being shipped north.
Seifert, who has lived in Canada since 1951, had unsuccessfully fought efforts by the Canadian government to strip him of his citizenship based on allegations that he hid his past when he entered the country.
Canada bars former members of the SS and related units such as the Nazi SD because of their involvement in concentration camps and with other war crimes.
Last month Seifert lost a bid to have the Supreme Court of Canada consider his appeal seeking to stop his extradition to Italy, clearing the way for his deportation.
His lawyer, Doug Christie, said Seifert called his wife Thursday night to say he was being escorted from a detention center in Vancouver.
Avi Benlolo, president of the Friends of Simon Wiesenthal Center for Holocaust Studies in Canada, said Seifert needs to face justice in Italy.
"It's critical that this happens," Benlolo said. "It sets an example for other war criminals, not only Nazi war criminals, but war criminals related to Rwanda, Bosnia, Darfur or any other genocide, that there's no time limit to justice."
I have been either too tired or too sick to spend much time on the rave lately. Monday was the worst. I spent most of the day in the bathroom. Nthaniel came to my rescue with some goodies from the Dollar Store. IT is wonderful to have a friend who will be there for you when you are at your worst.
Work is the same. Busy. I had one beer vendor in today and another will be in tomorrow. The beer prices have gone up and I am afraid the customers ( at least some of them are going to have a fit).
A friend of mine got told he is a shitty parent. I was taken aback by that remark. Children do not come with instructions. You will make mistakes as a parent . No matter how good you are as a parent, you can have children who will make bad decisions. The child does have a mind of its own. My friend is not abusive or doing anything that would cause the law to intervene. I think the person throwing the stones does not understand that her children are younger and cannot assert their independence as well as my friend's teenage daughter can.
Another friend of mine got into it pretty badly with her brother. It was Sunday night after the Superbowl. In fact, I watched the Superbowl at my friend's house. I did not witness the altercation, because I had gone home by then. IT was sad. My friend is close to her brother and already misses him. She is not the only one. I do too.
Well, I wanted New England to win the Superbowl. But as we all know the Giants got the ring this year. I do hope the Cowboys make it to the Superbowl next year.
I followed Super Tuesday pretty closely. It looks like my boy Barak Obama still stands a chance to get the Democratic nomination for president. I was happy to see him take the state of Georgia. Not too long ago, an African American male would not have won that state in a primary. The times have changed in some ways for the better . Things are still in need of improvement, but thank all of Heaven they are not where they were one hundred years ago.
I'm holding on your rope,
Got me ten feet off the ground
I'm hearin what you say but I just can't make a sound
You tell me that you need me
Then you go and cut me down, but wait
You tell me that you're sorry
Didn't think I'd turn around, and say...
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I'd take another chance, take a fall
Take a shot for you
And I need you like a heart needs a beat
But it's nothin new
I loved you with a fire red-
Now it's turning blue, and you say...
"Sorry" like the angel heaven let me think was you
But I'm afraid...
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
Bridge (guitar/piano)
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
It's too late to apologize, yeah
I said it's too late to apologize, yeah-
I'm holdin on your rope, got me ten feet off the ground...
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