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Educating
16:49 Nov 05 2011
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Slave
1. a person legally owned by another and having no freedom of action or right to property
2. a person who is forced to work for another against his will
House Wife
1. a married woman who manages her own household, especially as her principal occupation.
Now perhaps i am mistaken but these two terms are greatly different.
Honestly i am tired of hearing that a woman whom cleans her home, cooks for her man and children and looks after her family is a 'slave'. No that is what is called a GOOD WIFE!
So many women now-a-days have this fantasy of finding prince charming and getting married and think life will just be peachy keen. No hunnie your wrong. Yes we have advanced in times and there are many men who don't mind cooking and cleaning, but let me bring you down to the reality of the situation. Men want a woman to take care of them as a woman should. Ultimatly they crave the same sort of love there mother gave to them.
I am not saying women must abide by every word and command of a man No, but if you are planing to live with your spouse,mate,significant other w.e perhaps you should learn to take care of one another.
I personally like to keep my house in order, to have breakfast,lunch dinner ready for my family to enjoy. I enjoy being a helping hand to my man, to give love and attention. Why? Because that is showing him you care, that you want this to be not a house you both reside in but a home. You are establishing a strong foundation. Communicating and such.
Ladies if you have a man that wants to cook and clean hey let him enjoy himself, but the reality is they want you to do so. Just like you expect your man to keep food on the table and the roof over your head. Yea he dosn't have to do it alone but as women we all expect that.
Im tired of these women calling women like me who maintain there households and family's slaves.
No Hunnie your just upset because you dont know how.
You dont become a surgeon without learning surgery, you dont become a hairstylist without knowing at least basics. You dont become a wife unless you know what it entails.
Every relationship is different, and every person craves something different from there partner. Learn what you want, figure out what they want and see if it works. If it dosnt, move on.
* tired of the idiocy behind these women.*
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COMMENTS
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DragonReborn
16:59 Nov 05 2011
well i for one love to cook and i have always cleaned so that is not a problem either.I don't expect my wife to cook and clean esp after working all day.I work too but it is nice to be able to share the chores of course.Yes alot of guys might look for their mates to be like their mother..someone to take care of them..i know one that is that way that lives here..daughters b/f..sheeesh what a baby arse....lol
it is great advice for people to know what the other wants..otherwise your just gonna have a hard relationship.
r0yaltysfin3st
17:07 Nov 05 2011
indeed. I am not saying ALL men want that but most do, especially older men. There is nothing wrong with sharing chores *shrug* hey i hate washing dishes lol so there will b days damnit i REFUSE!
but all in all i do enjoy keeping my house cleana nd most men like it too. *shrug* thats the way i was raised
Lordpeace
19:55 Nov 14 2011
bravo there is a huge difference and every man and woman should realize that