Name: Alexa Kathleen Jane Sutherland
Orientation: Bi curious
Piercings: 6; 2 in each ear; navel; tongue
Tattoos: 2; 4 leaf clover on my right wrist; symbol for protection on my lower back
*My Man Drew
*Books and Reading (anything with Real Fiction like history)
*A Clean House
*Getting stuff done early
*Not being on time but being early
*People who leave random shit of theres on my desk
*People who dont respect other peoples stuff
*A dirty House
*People who think their shit dont stink
*People who are all talk and no action
*When im rushed
*When people constantly ask me for stuff when im obviously busy already (and they can see that)
*People who think their kids are angels and do no wrong
*Kids who wont clean up after themselves
*Kids that just dont listen of respect others
I grew up in a small community along the north shore of Nova Scotia with both my mom and my dad and my 2 sisters and one brother. We lived across the road from my Grandfathers farm which my dad helped out on when was younger, i also liked to help out and i would get the milk and eggs for my mom from across the road. I had a pretty normal child hood with the eating dirt and watching cartoons bugging my siblings and driving my parents crazy.
I went to a small school till grade 9 where I had to go to a school an hour drive by bus away for high school. At this point in time I thought it was a good time to get suicidal even though I never had a bad life really no big event led to it and after throwing myself in front of a car I wasn’t hurt because one of my friends pulled me off the road before I was hit. I was then put into therapy through school. Two years later I was out of school and out of therapy feeling a lot better about myself. Even though I know I still have some problems for some reason I know I will never go back to that time in my life I know there is too much to live for.
I am now known as peoples sunshine that I work with because I have such a happy spirit and outlook in life, even when I am in a bad mood or something I’m still happy happy.
I was brought up very Scottish and very Irish my Grandfather even go me to learn how to play the bagpipes...I’m not sure if I could play them not with my asthma. I was part of the Heather bells an all girl pipe band and when I left there I joined sea cadets were I was a piper in their band also. Our family crest is below and out motto `Sans Peur` means without fear.
After I graduated from high school I went to York University in Toronto for a year where I went nuts as a university student. Even though I took very little from the education there it was an experience that I will never forget.
I am a proud member of The House of La Bella Oscuridad.
Ok this is my Story....
I was very lucky my Boss decided to give me a nice 4 day long weekend. This was a big deal because I was an Assistant Manager at a clothing store and for anyone who works in retail they know having 2 days off together is awesome let alone 4.
So my plan was 4 day long weekend with my girls from High school that I haven't seen in years. My problem I ended up getting tonsillitis and with no medical coverage at the time I had to pay out of my own pocket for the drugs to clear this up. This meant now long weekend of parting with my girls because now I’m broke.
So for the next 4 days I sit alone in my apartment with nothing to do (I have no TV stations) but to play on the net. So one boring day when I was on Hot or Not a see a link that catches my eye Lost Cherry (now called FUBar) and I join up. It’s just like any other profile site but this one is adults only.
On this site a meet a few nice people and starting talking to them. One of the guys I think is pretty hot I talk to a little more (Drew) we get to talking a lot some times 7 hours straight on the phone, net and web cam. Eventually we decide we really like each other and he’s going to come visit me for the Christmas holiday. Then I was to move up and live with him afterwards, because I didn’t want to leave my boss at Christmas time cause that is retail hell.
I’m not sure what happened there but somehow he couldn’t come for Christmas. I was then told by my boss that she was quitting her job. I then decided I was going to quit my job too, because I didn’t want to be there alone a Christmas (hell). So I packed up my whole life and moved the thousands of miles to North Manitoba with the help of my parents.
It is now almost a year and a half later and we are engaged to be married this November. I couldn’t be happier and I am happier than I could ever be about taking a chance.
Originally I am from a very small community in Nova Scotia Canada, were I spent my first 18 years with my parents and siblings. When I graduated from high school I moved to Toronto (Ontario) for a Year were an attended York University taking Sociology. The next year I lived in Halifax (Nova Scotia) and partied it up. After a while I moved to a smaller town I Nova Scotia were I had my famous career as a shooter girl.
Soon after I met guy on the net and I now presently live in a very northern part of Manitoba but that’s a story in itself.
I have had many jobs over my 6 years of being in the work force. My first Job was as a waitress in a Chinese Food restaurant in my home town. Then I went on to work for a family of Mennonites in there restaurant that was a very intriguing experience. I was also a tour guide to the historical society’s museum in my home town. I have worked at a craft store, a golf course and a few other restaurants including a Pizza Hut and the one in a Best Western. Have worked for the chain of clothing stores Colmark everybody might know them as Cleo/Rickies/Bootlegger and another smaller one that I was assistant manager in Lindor/Dorlene.
I am currently working as the Administrative Assistant/ Educational Support Assistant at the school in my community. It’s a very small school but has great potential for becoming a great northern school of Manitoba.
Love and Kisses
The Little Green Frog