Do what you will, be what you will, but remember there are consequences. There always are.
A person is, what they make themselves to be. Negatives influence our course as much as the positives. Though at some point there is a flow we follow, and like a low stream we can stand up, look around, and begin to see the rhythm of life we are wading on. At this realization do you change your stream? Do you take more responsibility and let life guide you less, and your own mind more? Or shall we diverge upon another waterway, more turbulent and unknown? Life is a large multiple choice test, that has outcomes varying to our answers.
The loneliest time of my life, has also become one of the most insightful. What matters, and what doesn't. Who matters, and who doesn't as much. There are tough decisions to be made, and tougher questions to ask, I fear not the answers, just the paths that could happen. Those paths are much more grown up, that isn't scary, the unforeseen is.
The point I make, which has no previous place on this page is simple. Growing up is a very easy choice, but I like many for a long time chose to "come back to this question later."
Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.