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Hello everyone, I would like to start by telling you what gave me the idea for this thread, yesterday my mother and I were driving back home from the doctors and talking about the relationship I have with my boyfriend. Me and him challenged each other with a "no touching rule" next time we got together, a night spent just playing video games and farting around but no touching each other, just for fun.. to see if we could do it. Now, I told my mother about it and she said, "Well then what is the point of getting together then". This statement struck me hard, I screamed at her, "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!" I think that relationships should be based on more than just physical activities.. (ahem, you know what I am talking about) I feel in love with his mind.. before anything else. Anyways, enough about us.. I just needed to bring up the thought, am I like.. mentally retarded just because I don't really look at my boyfriend as a hot guy that I can fuck any time I want..??

You are not retarded by any means. You are showing maturity and morals, 2 of the many things lacking in people this day and age. I commend you for your choices. You go girl!!

no, theres absolutely nothing wrong with it hun, seriously, its true, a relationship should be based on personality and trust, not sexual activities, *hugs you* more people should think like u

oh how i could talk about this...

but oh how many points i would make that would contradict.

i would post. but my thoughts occur in my head all at once, and leave me more confused than i ever did...

attraction... lovely... but i couldn't be happy with just an attraction, and for me. part of the attraction comes from other factors than... "that" which is sometimes hard for me to say...

I'll just end up offending the women if I post to this thread....

I firmly believe in people doing what comes naturally in relationships ... be it fucking all night long or just blaying board games ... don't put restrictions on yourself .... just 'cos society might 'say' you should behave in a particular way ...do what comes naturally !!!!

I can say I have had "relationships" that were just physical it was all about sex. We didn't have much in common other than I had what he wanted and what I wanted. Now I have a relationship with a man that is more mental than sex. For he lives in an other country and we have never met face to face yet. I feel more like it's love than just after sex.. I mean how many guys would be interested in a woman that is over weight and in her view ugly and be close to each other for 2 years??? Most would loose intrest and find someone else..
Some would say it's cause he is not a "looker or hot" well to me he is better looking than some of the "hot" guys I've been with for they were just looking to get there dick wet..

It won't help matters is you go around to your BF's with your fav perfume on and looking like you're going for a night out.. how could he resist? No touching rule, just for a day? i'd end up drinking a fair bit, then falling asleep, after letting you beat me on the video games and boring me with diseny dvd's (have a put what you wanted to cancer? lol)

same here relationships shouldnt be based on sex no thats probaly shocking coming from a guy but it shouldnt when ever i date a girl its someone that i can talk and do social things with not sex thats usually a benifit

THATS NOT WHAT I MEAN!!!! ARGHHH .. Look, I am very sexual myself but what I mean is I get turned on by his MIND not by the size of his fucking dick! It will be very hard for me to keep my hands off him I am almost positive that it wont last, and we don't get bored together dhampir, me and Greg together .. hehe, not boring at all thank you very much!!! GRRR I just want to make it clear to the men of this site that this isn't another girl complaining about how men are all about sex.. because frankly I am big about sex, I love it.. BUT! It isn't because he has a nice ass or anything lol it's because he is brilliant.. *shakes angrily* Damn, you think just because I am a girl I want to go out to the movies and watch a chick flick, hold hands then go home and just go to sleep.. nooo thank you, I prefer some "action" before I am done seeing him .. grrrrr *sighs and calms down* I wish I had a penis..

yea.. thats what I mean something like what vampkamui