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Honestly I think this place has become a bit of a popularity contest. I get on here and look around at all the profiles and it makes me feel as if I should be better and being "better" is just going to make me change, at least the way I act and say things online. Already I seem to have said soemthing to upset dear Alvens who is only trying to get me to see the beauty in things that don't seem beautiful. Maybe I'm over reacting or thinking to much. (Which I do all to often.) I hope its only that I haven't seen or heard from people who don't seem fake or trying to not be the sexiest...Other than Alvens and the select few friends that I have honestly made.

These type of things,you're going to find them in every on-line comunity.And even though it is a one comunity,you're still are going to find groups,and cathegories with labells.

Sadly. What a world we live in.

Yes,but there are still the positive things:)

You find nice people too:)

It is a sad state.
I agree.

I hope so. :)

the funny thing about people who try to be better then others ..is that they are easy to spot and you can stear clear of them...i just shake my head and feel sorry that they are so simple minded

Lol. I avoid quite a few profiles...almost to many.

Haha very true.

It's also true taht for some this site is an escape from reality so they become another person,I've got nothing against that,but when I see certain rude words and pics on pro's I get disgusted.

They are free to do whatever they want,yet still tey don't gain my simphaty.

Live by your own criteria. Rate profiles for their content and stick to it if that's the way you feel it should be done. Truly, the profile rating system is for rating profiles but we all know what's what, don't we?

That said: I've found that many of the people on here who are very popular ALSO have excellent profiles. If people take the time to go through dozens, hundreds, even thousands of profiles, they will find that the crappy profiles don't have high ratings even with all of the 10s that every teenybopper tosses to every profile. By and large, the very good profiles have high ratings.

I really could say that part of that leads to status, but I suppose I'd be shot down for it...

Part of what? Qualify your statement, please.

If you didn't want to risk critique, starting a thread on this site was a bad idea. LOL

We have had so many threads about this subject, it is getting tedious. I hope you got your question answered, if not please feel free to write another one and put it in the sandbox. Thankyou.