Alright this might be completely unfounded but about 4 yrs ago i think my ex-boyfriend tried to bind/bond me to him. i woke up one morning with him putting blood in my coffee and speaking in a different language. i later found a journal written in a different language also (not runes but similar in jagged lettering) i couldn't read it. afterwards the journal dissapeared and we had a horrible falling out. although time has passed i still have horrid nightmares about him and even though i have moved he still finds me. now my current fiance is starting to get the dreams (my fiance and i are very attuned to each other and empathic with each other) any suggestions on how to break this link with the ex? the dreams are becoming more and more violent and gruesome
I agree with mrd.
Free your mind and soul of him. Render him powerless. If you believe he has a bond to you he will.
hemight have tried to bond to you.... by pouring blood in coffee and so on... the nightmares might be also a sigh that he is thinking of you and that you are uncoftable....
i had an expierence like yours with my ex (he didnt pur blood in my coffe tough).. yet i found out that he had possess on me because i have let him do it... i was fearing him... fear is a good factor to make you vunrable.... let fear out and clear your mind....
be firm that you want to move on and that you have a new life and a new man.... cut the invisible bonds there are between you... when i did this i could live in peace even when i see my ex everyday....
the mind is indeed is powerful mind... i know a person whom doesnt do spellcasting, yet with the power of his hateful thoughts he managed to harm a person near me..... but when your mind is firm, nothing will harm you...
you have the power within you to cease the bond... as said before bonds can be there when a person sunjects to them... thsts very true...
keep strong!
It is all in your mind...try to focus your energy on forgetting that and redirect your thoughts on something or someone else...Don`t forget that dreams are often the result of what you do or try to solve during a day and if you keep thinking about him (with negative energy since is your ex) the nightmares will continue... He doesn`t have your soul... it is you who doesn`t let your soul to be free... embrace life, forget about him and focus on a real purpose...
the human will is a very powerful thing. you need to beleave that your breaking the bond . by what ever means makes you the most comfortable and is the most beleave able to you.
I'm sorry that you found out your ex was a bit more odd then you counted on...but I agree with everyone above me. Allow the fear of what he may or may not have been doing to rest. Contact your local police about a restraining order. Do what must be done to move on and make your life peaceful again.
mrd is right if you believe hes bonded to you your gonna be . the mind like everyone has said is a very powerful thing so just try to meditate and clear your mind and after a while you should be ok ....you just need to break the cycle, your the one who is still dwelling on him so clear him from your mind and it should get better...
I agree with both mrd and Rowiel. Try relaxing yourself and thinking about something else. Meditation also helps a lot in sistuations like these. If you tell yourself that you do not fear him, you won't. Once you have a blockade in your mind from him, you have a blockade from the negative energy you get from him.
Well, I have never experienced this type of thing and it's all new to me but I believe that someone only has power over you if you let them, shut him out of your mind and i believe that he will no longer have that bond! Hope it all works out for you
I agree with mrd but dont just assume that he was trying to 'bond' you or something worse. But still keep on ur look out.
I agree with all of the above. You have to belive in yourself and your own power. Positively ignore all the bad thoughts hee might be sending you. it is good that your bf feels the same as you because together you can beat it.
Be strong!
i am currently experiencing a bond situation my self me and my now ex broke up and we were bond i can feel him and smell him and i see hin in my nightmares....i have tried to make this stop but it seems the harder i try to get away from it the stronger he pushes.....i know how you feel my dear and to desire a way for this to stop
Bonding can be a powerful thing, I have found shielding tecniques useful in these situations.
Restraining order perhaps? ...ok, maybe not that harsh...but I agree with previous statements, someone only has power over you and can make you feel bad about yourself if you let them...good luck !
If you believe in casting spells maybe this will help. Just remember always be careful of casting any spell.
UNBINDING SPELL
Note: This spell cannot be turned and there is no spell that
will rebind the person once unbound. Their power will come
back; their body will be free. I would not try to make a
spell to undo this; there is no spell which will achieve
this and people that tried have been bound themselves as a
result. It should also be noted that this spell does not
help those who become bound as a result of trying to break
it.
Needs:
Two White candles
Two Black candles
Movements:
Take the person that is bound and place him or her on his or
her back looking up. Place the two black candles at his feet
and the two whites at his head. Light them and then start
the spell.
Spell:
I call on the gods and goddesses of the old days
as well of those of the new.
Break this spell that they call a binding with your power.
Gods of light move about this man or woman's body.
Allow your power to break the holds on him or her.
Goddesses come down and wake his or her body.
Allow the power that you have given this person to be woken.
I call on the East gate.
Break the binding spell that was placed on this person.
Let it be removed for good.
Do not allow a spell of binding be placed on he or she that is before me.
Movements:
Place your hands to his or her chest and speak once more
Spell Continues:
Gods and Goddesses and the East gate,
help me within my workings.
Allow your power to move within my hands
and allow the binding that was put upon my friend
to be removed and never to come within him again
may he live or die.
I call on the element of the East, the element of water,
to fill these hands and move within this body
to allow the walls that hold him or her fall.
I call on the gate of the West, the gate of fire,
come forth and burn these walls that hold him or her from awaking
and burn the walls that hold back his or her power.
I call on the gate of the South, break the walls down with your power
so my friend may awaken as well his power.
I call on the gate to the North
to come and let the winds move air within my friend's body.
Unlock the binding that was placed on my friend
and awaken his or her power and body to never be locked again.
Movements:
Move your hands down the sides of his or her body and say this.
Spell Continues:
O great gods and goddesses
and the gates that hold the elements within,
Send your power within my hands
and break free my friend from this binding.
I call on my friend; within your walls,
break that which holds you.
Open your body to my power and break the walls that hold you.
Come to me, my friend.
O great gods and goddesses,
do not allow the binding to work on this person any longer.
The power of both sides, of the Light and Dark,
Your onus is broken and you are free once more.
As the day and night,
so shall you be of both this day, and not just one.
Movements:
Back away once getting to his feet and dot move close tell
you see the light of light come over him or her and then the
light of Dark come over him then see his eyes move little.
Then you may go to him or her to hold and help him.
Note: How do I know this works? Because I was bound and am no
longer or I would not be speaking this, so it works. I have
not been able to be bound since and those who tried were bound
themselves.
© 1998 Blue Shadow Dragon Wolf (RWall51240@aol.com)
I tried the restraining order and putting him in jail but a restraining order is just paper it doesnt protect from a gun. and jail only lasts so long. thanks for the spell im gonna give that a shot
Thank you i am trying to find an affordable bullet proof vest and my fiance is purchasing me a gun (probably should have mentioned that earlier in the post) I work at a conveince store so i can legally buy a vest but money is an issue. yes this guy is a nut it took 5 cop cars to take him away last time and i can't figure out how he keeps finding me i have changed my name and moved a couple hundred miles at a time (about to again)