Feeling a little sad today.
My sons came home from school this afternoon. My eldest in floods of tears.
The deputy head teacher had passed away on the sunday. She was one of the first teachers he had met when transferring from another school to the one they both attend now.
He is so angry and frustrated as to why this has happened.
I cant even give him an explanation as it was a sudden and unexpected.
The only answer i can give him is that she has learnt all that she needs to know from this lifetime and to carry it onto the next..............
Its been a difficult couple months living with my neighbors future son in law.
Since i first moved into the street i have always had a good friendship with the husband and wife. To be fair they have had to listen to my youngest, during the night screaming along with my eldest having his moments of a shouting match.
Its the same for myself listening to their son and daughter, having their teenage hormonal moments that tests any parents skills.
However at the end of last year their daughter brought home yet another boyfriend. To be honest straight off the bat i didnt like him.
You know when you get that sixth sense feeling about someone. Well i had one as big as missile going off.
The mother came round at christmas time and asked what should she do.
If the parents didnt give her boyfriend a chance then she threatened to pack up her stuff and that she would not speak to them again.
My answer to that was she is 18 crack on and help her pack up her stuff, when it all goes titts up the daughter would know the front door would be left open for her.
But the mother couldnt do it.
Shortly after the new year they got engaged and i didnt bother to pretend that i was all happy, as they had only known each other for just over a month.
He moved out of the hostel shelter and in with them.
So now he sits their playing on the Wii most of the day, signing on and claiming he cant find work, whilst she sleeps for most of the day and is awake for a bit of the night.
Over the last two months though her boyfriend has become well only way to put it is to be blunt.
HE IS BLOODY NUTS!!!!
He accused the daughter of going off with his best mate and that she was having an affair.
He has an anger issue to say the least and about six weeks ago stormed into my home telling me to keep my eldest son the hell away from him.
My eldest is 12 and he 27?
So i asked my eldest what the problem was that had happened next door?.
He explained that the future son in law had come out with a comment about him being on the top speed dial for michael jackson and when my eldest stuck up for himself and told him to fuck off the son in law didnt like the attitude he was getting.
So i said to my eldest to stay well away and not to go to next door and to ignore him especially.
To which credit where credit is due he has.
I did try to explain to the son in law but, he told me straight that he was not interested in excuses and so i left it that as i didnt want to start argument with the family.
So i have been very quiet and keeping to myself. Have not even been round to visit, its the mother coming to mine for the cuppa tea or coffee.
Problem is on the friday my eldest was out with some kids in the street playing away when the daughter and son in law called him on over for something small and trivial.
The son in law then had a five minuets kick about of football with him and then went indoors.
All my eldest said when the son in law was going in was" is that it" to him next thing the son in law comes again storming into my home telling me to keep my son the fuck away from him or he will be smacking the shit out of him.
He then stormed off out.
I was sat next to the window and although i could hear i did see the daughter motioning for my son to go to them both.
I gave myself a few seconds to calm down and got my eldest to explain what had happened.
So i told him not to go anywhere near him and to leave him well alone.
Well late yesterday morning the daughter came round for what ever ridiculous reason she felt was of most important.
I gave her the cold shoulder and told her i had a headache which in part was true.
She soon buggered off back next door and i had a some what peaceful day.
Come the evening the mother came round and my eldest and us were sat in the kitchen having a cuppa as the daughter and son in law were having a lovers tiff.
Half way through, in walks the son in law asking the mother for something.
My eldest gets up with attitude and says he is off upstairs.
The son in law smiles and asks if im alright to which i just looked at him.
He about turns and walks off out.
The mother then wanted to know what that was all about.
So i told her and told her straight that her son in law and daughter was not welcomed in my home any longer.
To which she understood and we are fine.
This morning has not been much quiet as the son in law stormed out the house twice to hit a lamp post on both occasions.
Kind of hoping it gets a little quiet soon. Or that the daughter come to her senses real soon.
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He has threatened your child. Get a restraining order on him because it seems like he is trying to get your kid to go over there precisely to get a reason to hurt him.
As soon as I read that the guy was staying in a hostel, I knew that he was trouble. I mean - if he is alone with no family to take him in, what does that say about him?
And I agree - no 12 year-old should be hanging out with a 27 year old crazy loser.
Well yesterday just about burned me out.
First up was a trip to the hospital as it was my four monthly check up to see if my knee caps have gone back into place. Not quite to my docs likening and made a comment about my weight, to which i replied if the N.H.S. are doing free breast reduction and a butt tuck along with my belly then for sure sign me on up.
He chuckled and replied to a diet instead.
So am on the hit list for someone to tell me off when i treat myself lol
Second up was my youngests turn to go to the doctors for a check up on his feet. He screamed the surgery down and the waiting room was very quiet when we left with little kids sat wondering if they would be screaming next. We got home and he was happy to be in front of the tv.
Then when my eldest came home from school all he did was have his head in a bucket throwing up till late last night.
I stayed up till the early hours of this morning but he slept right through, is now on light solids so fingers crossed for another good night.
Thing is i tried to get in some sleep this morning but i have nest of birds on top of my chimney and the cat next door is doing buggeral to help lol
So im a little but to throw into the mix i then logged on here today to discover that someone who had deleted is now back again and to be honest if he kicks up shit and i get to hear about it im going to be more than annoyed.
An apology for how he behaved what he messaged me would have been nice but even that has yet to materialize.
Lol still finding funny that the person who was meant to be a nice person and then acted like a dumb ass, is now wondering as to why he is being down rated.
Was nothing to do with me but i am enjoying watching him fall on his ass.
Couldnt happen to a nicer person.
Finds it really funny that one minuet your friends with someone one day and get along with them well.
Then they have hissy fit about something and nothing and remove you from friends list.
Even when the hissy fit was nothing to do with you and they feel the need to remove you.
Bloody grow up and should you wish to be friends again............ on second thoughts nope your not worth if thats how you treat your "friends" i can do well with out.
Have a nice all and keep on smiling :)
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I luvvers you my Rose!!!
~buys her new shiny,sharp play pretties~
oh yay is it a double blade axe with a pointy bit at the handle so i can use it as a poker?
Or is it a shiny knife set?
I do like to operate on victims be it willing victims or not~smiles at all the possibilities and eyes lighten up~ hunting time mistress?~
~purrs~ It's always Hunting Time!
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xxPAYNExx
19:35 May 28 2012
~hugs her~