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I’m not your fucktoy

Living as a girl is torture, especially a teenage girl. I love girlhood, I love femininity, I love women. I hate the sexualization of my every action. Every single thing a woman does is a porn category. I cannot express myself without being sexualized. God forbid a girl loves to dress up, wear black, indulge in the macabre and even express her sexuality. My expression is not yours to consume. I am not for you. My world in a man’s eye is just pornography. I am some succubus to those who live in filth. My style isn’t an expression, but an invitation to them.

Sex work, kink, fetish, and sexuality have played an enormous role in the goth community, but that does not mean it is okay to project your filthy carnal desires onto me. I am not your object.

(Originally uploaded on tumblr.)