Males are quick to say how crazy or emotional females are due in part to their hormones. Females have even accepted and supported this assumption.
However, both Males & Females have hormones and are susceptible to their influences.
So why is it that some Females find it difficult to understand just how hormones also effect Males?
Take the sex drive hormone Testosterone. If Females had as much of this stuff coursing through their system 24/7 as Males do, then they'd understand Males more.
I use to think that my ultimate life goal was to be in a healthy, happy and loving relationship with a woman.
Although that is a life goal, it is not my "ultimate" life goal.
I've reached the enlightened level to realize that my ultimate life goal has always been to be in a healthy, happy and loving relationship with...Myself first.
I've made some pretty tough sacrifices and have made some really good life choices to be at the point I am in my life. I consider myself successful and I know what I have to bring to the table.
What I've come to realize is not everyone deserve to sit at the table with me and I don't have to convince anyone that they should be with me. I mean probably they really shouldn't. Although it took time and meeting different people, I realize that people are truly different and one person can't be everyone's cup of tea.
For example, a woman will say her body is her own and no man has the authority over her to make her have sex with him whenever he chooses. Then she meets a man who wants to do just that. When he wants sex, he wants no rejections, excuses or arguments, but that's just what she gives him while saying she loves him.
Now the problem is these two types of people would try to make it work via compromise and it may last for awhile, but at some point, one's true nature will win out.
It's not that either of these individuals are bad people. They just know what they want and don't want, but because of convenience or fear of being alone or becoming tired of searching or having been convenience that no one will accept them the way they are, they jumped into the relationship that appeared as it was as good as it was going to get.
The great thing about time and having the courage to experience new things and meet new people of all kind is that it will enrich your life.
That same guy, for example, that wanted sex when he wanted it and how he wanted it need only explore the BDSM Lifestyle. Guess what, there are women who live to please men in just that manner. Seriously! They actually exists. No shit! What one woman won't do another woman will. That one says 'No'. The next one says 'Hell Yeah'. That one says, 'I don't like that'. The next one says, 'I Love That Are You Kidding Me?'. That one gives you a list of reasons why the two of you are not compatible. The next one gives you a longer list why the two of you are.
So relax. Don't rush it. Build your world. Get to know who you are and what you want. Enjoy life even if you have to do it alone for awhile. It's not going to kill you. Try focusing on the fun so much that you forget about society telling you that you should feel lonely.
Society's Programming......Fuck That Shit! LOL!
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