Welcome to my profile.
First of all, I've decided to not post my actual name on my profile. If we get to chatting and we become friends (the only thing I'm interested in from this site) then I'll give you my name. For now, however, you can call me Venus or October (though I prefer October).
As for who I am, well...
**a grand daughter
**a dog lover
**an anime lover
**a photography major
**a good listener
**smarter than I let on
**one who notices things when you think I haven't
**Queen of the Space Monkeys. (Don't mess with them... they steal cell phones...)
**October. Nice to meet you!
This isn't my first time here on the VR. I established my first account back in early 2005. My original name was simply Venus, but things happened in my life and I felt it necessary to delete my previous profile. But now I'm back, and I'm not going anywhere.
To answer a question right now, no, I am not single. I am happily married, and would really appreciate it if you didn't hit on me.
My favorite band is Evanescence. They are, in essence, one of my heroes. Their music has helped me through some very dark and deceitful times in my life. If it weren’t for them, I’d probably be dead right now.
I’m also a writer. I’ve written many poems, some of which I will eventually post on here. When I do, please, do not copy them, print them or save them to your computer without my expressed permission. These are my works of art and I will not have them stolen from me. This goes the same for my pics.
First and foremost, I am a mother and wife and I love it. I love anything gothic and dark, but I also enjoy the bright side of life. I’m a huge Harry Potter fan, I play video games and actually understand what I’m doing, and I have a rather sarcastic and witty sense of humor. I also support same sex everything. Love is love in my eyes. I pass no judgement because it's not my place to do so. I was raised southern Baptist, however I no longer affiliate myself with religion. I don't believe in organized religion. [organized anything, actually. Gimme chaos. Haha] I believe in God and I am very spiritual, but I will never conform to an organized religion again.
My family is my life. Without them I'd be nothing. They were the ones there for me when my world was upside down. Yeah, they can get on you're nerves, but hey, they're family. They’re allowed. I find people who are willing to give up their families for petty things [i.e.- boyfriends, drugs, falling outs, so called friends...] not really worth my time.
Sometimes, I come off as a bitch. I'm not. I am, however, very sarcastic, and rather cold to people I don't know. Please don't take it personally. I'm generally a rather private person. It's nothing personal...er... rather, it's nothing personal against you. It's very personal for me.
Spending time with my family, being outdoors, taking walks, playing with my daughter, laughing, hanging out with my husband, video games, movies, photography, art, autumny days, snow, comics and mangas, poetry, chocolate, candles, music, relaxing, daydreaming, dogs, cuteness, stargazing...
Ways to piss me off:
--Message me and tell me how hot, sexy, beautiful, gorgeous I am and that you want to do me. See where that gets you. NOWHERE! I'm usually very modest when it comes to my looks and you attempting to "flatter" me that way makes me uncomfortable and want to block you. However, where as "I wanna get in your pants" messages will get you blocked, genuine messages/comments are more than welcome.
--Lie to me. I'm not a liar nor do I enjoy dealing with them. If you wish to lie, bother someone else.
--Be a poser. Most people use labels, and that's fine, but don't say you're Gothic if you look and act like you fell from Barbie's imaginary world of valley girls [a world, which consequently, makes me want to puke.]
--Drive slowly. *pauses* I don't think we'll have too much trouble with that one, but if we happen to find ourselves on the same road at the same time, don't go 39 in a 45. It makes me want to "beat you with a bat made of frozen stupid." (-Zero Punctuation)
--Assume I'm stupid/retarded/mongoloidic (I have no idea if that's even a word. Mongoloid is, though. Work from there.) My brain is not made of molasses attempting to flow on a cold day.
--Pretend you know it all. You don't. Get over yourself.
--Have no concept of what proper grammar and punctuation is. Go back to 3rd grade, learn something, then come talk to me using civilized speech.
--Push me around or into doing something I don't wanna do. I don't like people who are overly persistant like that. It irritates and pisses me off to no end. Know when to stop, because if you don't and I'm asking you to, it means I'm already pissed. If I say no, it's no. End of story.
I don’t mind if you add me to your friends list, but if you do, I only ask that you let me know so that I can add you! If you have any questions, message me. I love meeting new people. However, if you're just going to insult me, be completely closed minded, or just plain rude, I kindly ask that you avoid hitting the message button at the top of the screen. Thanks! ^_^