“If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?”
“Whatever you proclaim as your identity here in the material realm is also your drag. You are not your religion. You are not your skin color. You are not your gender, your politics, your career, or your marital status. You are none of the superficial things that this world deems important. The real you is the energy force that created the entire universe!
- RuPaul, Workin' It!: Rupaul's Guide to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of forbidden
"Let your eyes crinkle, let your skin wrinkle.
Our lines show that we've lived.
If he doesn't love you when you look like a map, tell him to hit the road."
- Connie, Connie and Carla
"Girlfriends, big or small, thin or fat, worship that body, it's the only one you've got."
- Connie, Connie and Carla
"The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere of activity in which we are permitted to remain children all our lives."
- Albert Einstein
"Our task must be to free ourselves by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty."
- Albert Einstein
"Love of beauty is taste. The creation of beauty is art.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson"
"It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength."
- Maya Angelou
“Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death”
- Albert Einstein
“Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.”
- James Dean
“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”
“I reserve the right to love many different people at once, and to change my prince often.”
- Anaïs Nin
"Listen. Smile. Agree. And then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway."
- Robert Downey Jr.
"The strength of the vampire is that people will not believe in him."
- Garrett Fort
Describing myself, or my personality is pointless. People tend to decide for themselves what kind of person someone is and they never really look back on it. I don't need to convince anyone of who I am. Or what I'm like. But what I will say is... that I'm the kind of person that will obnoxiously push the elevator button just to decide I'd rather take the stairs. I'm the kind of person that slides down the hallway in my socks. I'm the kind of person that sings into my hairbrush, and not well mind you. I'm the kind of person that will answer the phone and pretend to be a pizza hut or something. I'm borderline awkward. My sense of humor is all over the place from sarcastic dryness to full on cheesy and even inappropriate. Morbid, perverted, just all around strange. I tend to be the one that breaks the silence only to have people look at me funny as a result of what I said or did to do so. I make references and jokes people don't get or understand. Make people silently say what the fuck. And I love it. I will gladly help a needy cause. I am always giving to others when there's things I could use or something I want. And I believe there is beauty everywhere and in everything.
I'm here mostly because meeting people is always fun and interesting. And it keeps me sane. I come and go on this site for months at a time. It's just life, although I like this site the real world is more important and I go where I'm needed. Which is with my family, my job, school, blah blah blah. Life is always a struggle, and balance has never been my forte. I'm pretty disorganized actually, but life couldn't be better. And I couldn't be happier. It takes a lot to be successful and I think I'm doing pretty well.
I don't care what you rate me, my profile is perfectly me! It isn't designed for your pleasure it's designed for me! You don't like it I don't care. My goal isn't to please you. And that's all I need to know. Rate me what you see fit leave a comment or a critique if you'd like. I intend on using all the numbers of the rating scale so if you don't like it I don't care. I will pretty much rate you whatever I feel like at the time I drop the number. I'm not going to be explaining my criteria its just a waste of profile space and time. If you message me to ask why I rated you what I did, well you may care enough to ask I however do not care enough to answer. And I will not apologize for that. I suspect that very few people with get a ten much less a nine from me, rage all you want I just have standards. Mine may not be the same as yours, but it's my right to have my own system, there is nothing wrong with that, and as Cancer has said, "A valid rating is between 1 and 10 with 1 being the lowest score and 10 being the highest. How you choose to rate a profile is totally up to you. Different members will have different criteria for profile rating." In terms of ratings, if you are stupid, ignorant, superficial enough to say anything to me thinking you are in some way better then me you will be made fun of and laughed at. I say what I think and if you have a problem with honesty there is seriously something wrong with you. I rate with honesty and always try to say at least one small thing to accompany my rating, if I don't say anything, I just saw nothing of interest to comment on, simple as that.
I'm not here for drama, in any shape or form. If you don't like something I said or did it really isn't my problem. I'm allowed to have an opinion, you are on a public site on which I'm allowed to share my thoughts. You put yourself out there, as have I. You can take things as their are which is meant as constructive criticism from a stranger, or you can exaggerate and create a problem where there really isn't one. At which point you will probably be made fun of. I'm not here to win a popularity contest, nor be the most 'honorable' you either like me or you don't either way works out fine for me. So block, dishonor, rage all you want I'll take comfort in knowing that I have real friends who stand by me no matter what. My goal is to put all the superficiality aside. I don't feel I should be judged for simply being myself. Yes I can be abrasive, but I'm not difficult to get along with; I am a nice person and a number shouldn't determine whether or not that is true nor should it determine my loyalty or respect.
Thanks for stopping by do your business and don't let the comment box hit you on the ass on your way out.