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lately , at home, things haven't been exactly pleasant. My parents yell at me for no appearent reason and ive been getting into arguments with my sister and the rest of my family, and ive been more depressed than usual because of it. have any tips on how to deal with this crap??

Daire does....

::loox at dhampir::
daire?
ne ways my advice would be to just try and avoid talkin to them for awhile

daire as in he will rip it ?

just sit them down and tell them that the yelling wont last

move out and start a cult...the only thing you can do is talk to them , communicate and try to fix the problem like civilized human beings..

hmm.. try and look at the reasons behind the 'fights'.. and look at it from their point of view, imagine yourself as the parent and you as your child...

This is for eveyone as well, not just you...

There is an old saying "I brought you into this world and I can damn well take you out" harsh as to some it may sound, but that's the truth, they brought you into the world, they porvide / provided for y'r clothes, food and shealter all these years, you make changes for them, it doesn't work the other way around...

Hate to say it .. but let's put it this way, according to y'r profile, y'r 14 going on 15 .. you have no say so, it's y'r parents house, what they say goes, there's not a whole lot you can do about it, so you might as well learn to deal with it.

Obviously they don't like something y'r doing, better to figure it out, then to butt heads going against their rules, no matter how stupid you think they are.

As for y'r sister ... who's starting the fights you or her???

i guess the answer is simple, jus let it happen yea i know it hurts but you jus gotta go in your mind and think of things that dont relate to it, my mom yells at me all the time and i jus think of her being a bitch and then i think of my friends and think of what id do with them and shit and be happy, so jus ignore it... i did

grin and bear it for two more years...then you are legal to move out
I moved out just after turning 17...never looked back......but no it wasn't easy...I finished high school while paying rent and working 6 days a week....not easy...but what price will you pay fro freedom

i have got to agree with HellChildDami
here on this one

wether you are christan or not the commandment 'Honor thy mother and father' still holds. As a teen that has gone through the same bs as you it really does work, being prideful in this situation will only make things worse. Hate to say it but the best thing to do is suck it up and let them have their way untill they say you can have yours or offer it to you. Again it sounds like a buncha crap but hey i also go by the saying

Life is a bitch, and then you die.

not very insprational but hope it helps

peace be with you all

I only have one tip thats talk to them. guessing got no one anywhere

Hey annabelee, It be moi! Sometimes people, for all of you that say do what your parents say, what happens when your parents just.. Don't listen? When they just like to hear themselves yell? Not all parents care for their childs well-being. And that's the truth. Some had the kids, now think of them as 'mistakes', and just use them as a status symbol or something of the sort. Sometimes they're just unagreeable people. That's life. My parents may have brought me in this world but that doesn't mean they're the ones that have been keeping me here.

And I just realized, I said unagreeable. Sorry, its about 1 in the morning and i have school in about five hours. I'm tired.. *disagreeable*

just be perfect that will fix every thing

i find writting helps... writing poetry/lyrics... playing an instruments helps me or talking to friends that can help u 2 just do things you enjoy and try your best to forget about it.. i know its hard but you'll get through it.

Eat less sugar, do more exercise and eat more fruit.. thats the secret to a happy life!!!

Well, if this happens to me I spent some time with them, help them to make them calmer and to give them no reasons to yell on me.....Usually it works...and then you can again do what you want :)

Dhampir you are........I dont have the right word....(better)

the same crap happens 2 me everyday but im not depressed (that i kno of) people say i am but i dont think i am anywayz bak 2 the point i hav learned 2 just live with it

face it life sucks

::mumbles:: (sounds formiliar..)

just try to keep your cool around your parents and stay positive, negative thoughts will only lead you astray from your family unless that is what you want to...

~AmaliA~