I hear frequently, "I witnessed a person tell me things they could nothave known."," I know what I saw.", and "Something strange happened."
All in response to paranormal matters.
So this implies confidence in what one observed, or active credibility from a reporting source.
So the question is how do you present a supernatural, or paranormal experience?
Should you allow for inquiry?
Are you open to mundane revalations about what you saw?
Are some accounts of experiences more credible then others? By what criteria?
What motives are there for fabricating experiences? What exposes a fabricated experience?
What demonstrations convince you a person has occult powers?
Please be specific.
let me ask you a couple questions, dabbler.
if I was convinced that a elf lived in my closet, would you believe me?
even if i told you that he folds my clothes and sometimes steals things?
would you take my word for it? no matter how convinved I am on the matter would you think me mad? or would you pray to my closet friend to return your socks to your sock drawer?
I question everything that is generally called paranormal.
Having questioned, and received answers which satisfied me, I move on trying to understand and learn other things.
As has been said many, many times before, fakes abound in all walks of life, caution and common sense are my watch-words.
It is difficult for anyone to learn anything 'new' when the people presenting that 'new' are continually mocked.
So, if I am interested in a certain topic and know that a member on this site is also interested then I will read that persons journal or message them for more information.
I will share something that has been frustrating me for quite some time now. By means of an example I will share my thoughts on most of Dabbler's questions. This is a true account that has not been contrived.
The phenomenon is really quite simple. My girlfriend firmly asserts that the telephone consistently "cuts-out" on her more than half the time she uses the telephone.
I have setup VoIP in our house. So, an overview of the variables. The telephone is connected through the house wiring to the VoIP converter. The converter is connected through ethernet to the router. The router is connected to the cable modem. And, the cable modem connected to the internet.
I accepted her assertion as true. She is of sound mind and capable of operating a telephone. There is no reason to think that she cannot operate a telephone and also no reason to think that she is simply fabricating her claim that very often the phone does not work.
I began to troubleshoot the system. I did find that under certain circumstances the cordless phone and the wireless router did not play well with one another and sufficient interference could be caused so as to disconnect a phone call in place. This was remedied by replacing the 2.4GHz cordless phone with a 5.2GHz cordless phone. The phone and router had their own frequencies and were separated by a sufficient distance. The functionality of all devices and all wiring was tested as well as the connectivity to the internet was tested for ten days with no interruptions.
However, she still firmly asserts that the phone always cuts-out while she is talking to someone.
I have used the phone several times for more than an hour from all parts of the house. I have done so while downloading as much as possible (three separate computers downloading while on the phone at the same time) in order to stress the available bandwidth. Two children and various friends and relatives have all used the phone at various times as well. All without experiencing the dropped call (cutting-out) that my girlfriend experiences very frequently.
I am confident that the telephone system works properly. From my own experience and from the experiences of two children and a few friends and relatives, I can say that the phone works 100% of the time from all rooms in the house at any time during the day or night. At the same time, I can also say that if it is my girlfriend that is using the phone under the same conditions, it works less than 50% of the time. Am I mad???? What have I missed?
From my observations so far, I am lead to make an assumption that the problem with the telephone is related by a currently unknown means, to my girlfriend. Following Ockham's Razor, the theory that my girlfriend creates an unknown effect on the telephone whereby a call in progress is terminated unexpectedly, introduces the fewest number of variables and assumptions. And, I therefore must accept this as the most reasonable theory to explain the events she has described to me. This theory fits all of the observations while making the fewest assumptions and introducing the fewest variables. Logic and reasoning has lead me to believe in the unexplained in this example.
Furcifer > from time to time I experience the same thing with my house phone.
Then after checking the obvious much as you did yourself, I realised when I was talking to some people I tended to hold the phone too close to my ear, thereby cutting the damn thing off myself lol
Inbetween checking the obvious and finding out the actual truth I considered a paranormal explanation, but could not think of what purpose it would serve.
All things have purpose so I discounted the paranormal before realising the problem.
Molly I would know your elf as a Squat Monster. But I would know, and relate to your observations regarding the activity of your elf.
When people prefecite any report with, "I don't believe in such, and such.., but I saw something I could not explain." it lacks the sensationalism of "I just saw a ghost!" To me (having been responsible for sightings) I learned through studies, how accountability works, how witnesses very by degree.
The subtle shifts in narrative. I grew up learning the art of Tall Tales.
Not all accounts are assumed to be paranormal, or supernatural. Those that go into a story insisting that what they saw, or claim to have seen are already lack in credibility. As mentioned with the phone case. What has been said, the phone cuts out. That is an unexplained occurence, with a consistent loggable pattern, an investigation was done, unbiased I might add. Sinora expanded the data source by relating a variable.
So what makes a case? WWWWWH who, what, where, when, why, and how. Is it first person account? Or "My cousins neighbors sister, mentioned that.."
What details of the environment are offered?
"We where in the grave yard.. we saw a lady wearing a plaid skirt, run right through a tomb.." "Really? What was the weather like?" "How should I know?" See that is a telling account.
yet n some ofthese first witness accounts are pretty convincing, would tell every little detail, even the weather. yet the skeptism is that there is no evedience.
well duh a ghost, maybe leaves ghost fingerprints on the tombstone, or ghost pants laying on the grass. no evedience sorry LOL.
so where is the proof, minds warped mind producing the image?
Who was present? who was immidiatly present. Who shared perspective with the primary witness. Where were any light sources located? Gas anyone in the group been known to be a prankster?
Who was present? who was immidiatly present. Who shared perspective with the primary witness. Where were any light sources located? Gas anyone in the group been known to be a prankster?
Even believers are likely to ask probing questions, not just skeptics.
Is a person willing to admit that they where scared by a stray light, shined in a Mylar balloon, or will they stick by their story, even after what they saw is duplicated?
questions are good to have, yet if there is five witness and they all give the same story, than we must look to other things.
Pranksters, lights, underground gases. your right yet the five people say that it was a figure or shape, with defining features, wwell rules out gases, ballons,
so the next step, probing on drinking or drugs or mentall issuse. well n0on of that.
than were? no evedience so it did not happen, a group mirage i guess.
Another thing that makes multiple witnesses to the same "unexplainable" event no more reliable than a single witness is something my mother was taught when she worked at a bank. They were taught that should the bank ever get robbed, the second the perpetrator left, they should remain silent and write down everything they remembered before talking about the event. The reason is simple: each of us perceives events slightly differently. We sometimes remember things that aren't accurate, and when we discuss the event with others, we're prone to thinking, "wait, maybe what [he] saw was what really happened." What you eventually "remember" is a distorted and subjective interpretation of the event that is no longer necessarily accurate. Especially when one is in a certain mood, say, in a graveyard, the slightest illusion can be turned into a full-blown ghost after a few minutes of speaking with the other "witnesses."
When it comes to demonstration, find that people who watch an entertainer perform mentalist routines with an audience, will swear that a person claiming to be mystically gifted actually divined something.
Well we all know its like a carney act or whatever alot of them have people helping the, but we are talking other events,
Seeing lights in the sky, ghosts whatever.
People tend to work backwards, assuming the supernatural, or paranormal, and then wanting to cement that as what they saw. Rather then figuring it could be something as mundane as a blimp, or glow in the dark bubble mix.
Even an unexplained event is likely to produce a false witness, such a person can be damaging to any credible case.
Having performed effects, and studied the responses to those effects ( not being a witness to the effect) I learned how people relate sudden observations of unexplained occurences.
Example: A table lap jerking, and falling from an end table. While my back was turned. I turned back at the sound, and asked"why did you knock the lamp over?" The person paused.. and asked what I saw.
They questioned what they saw, they had shock. They said, U don't know how it fell.
So a what percentage of claimed sightings are Tall Tales? What percentage are pranks? What percentage are naturally occuring illusions? What percentage are Drug, or hormornal inducted hallucinations?
My experience is that people look for mundane explanations before the paranormal, that is certainly the case for the people I know personally.
Earthquake, yes rational ideas of a sane mind, yet all humans i have seen are not truly sane.
Glass falling from a table, tremors or titl of the world, better explaination than the theory uncle joe is visiting from the grave and letting you know he is in the house.
Alot of events are never proofed yet always seem denied. for if there is no evedience that can totally justified the event science debates it even happened or they say weather ballons caused it and gave it a justified answer, walks away.
faith or belief in paranormal is no means to call a mind insane or that they are irrational. eveidence is alway the path to knowing and justifying, yet this world holds no truth in what is not explained.
I for one am very excited at times by what I consider to be a manifestation of the power of God's love in whatever form it takes.
I consider this to be a very natural response.
For those who do not believe in God/Gods...well then I can only imagine it must be very difficult if not impossible for them to appreciate how and why I feel as I do about it.
I don't know anyone ( sane ) personally who loves God and believes they are the most important person in the universe.
Most of us face trials in this life, some we find the strength and grace within and without to overcome and some which we don't.
Once again, speaking only for myself, God is my reality, it was not always so with me and I wont go into detail as I don't want this thread to go off topic.
There is also the "in the moment" reaction, we humans like to be scared, we like to see others scared, and after a scare we like to watch people perplexed
, or dumbstruck. So even if one or more people figure out what appeared to be paranormal m, they will have the option of milking it for entertainment.
Now when a person is scared in front of others they want others scared with them, this the common phrase"Admit it.. You where scared to..", or "So and so saw it to..".
Sorry to disappoint, but no, I don't like feeling scared.
But there are people that would attempt to scare you, or to mystify you, just to gain a position over you.
Then I must trust to my own common sense and experience, as must we all.
Not suspending Critical Thinking for the sake of others pet beliefs is a good way to avoid being embarrassed by the actions of a prankster.
I see too many people claiming to be able to perform mystic demonstrations bulk at demonstrating (even to curious believers).
My personal take on this....
1. I've heard some pretty incredible tales from people before, and my main criteria is not the story itself, but their demeanor when presenting it. I can tell that generally, the experience genuinely frightened them, they dont always have a ready explanation for what it was they saw, and they often doubt their own sanity. Mostly though, they expect to be ridiculed and disbelieved.
2. I've actually seen and heard some odd stuff myself, and I dont pretend to have any ready explanations. Perhaps it was hallucinations. I can say I was sober and straight when it happened, wide awake and alert, and of sound mind having been psych eval.ed a few times previously and passed with high scores in the sanity dept. ~shrugs~
I think that people see "somethings" every so often, and they interpret whatever they are experiencing in their own way, usually influenced by culture and belief system. I think one has to consider the possibility that people are not necessarily crazy, are not always out to put one over on other people, might be seeing something that can only be explained to themselves by the way their brains record whatever it is they saw.
But suspect it highly anytime someone is attempting to bring themselves to a position of authority over others. Sharing events or whatever shouldnt be a license to claim authority and power over others.
Reality, perception, religion and science all topics which are worthy of debate.
I think I understand what you mean when you refer to reality and perception, you have found your own path of investigation which you follow and believe in, and I have found mine.
However I for one can only share what I believe and why.
Re : I wonder. Is it really necessary to debate the success of science?
Yes I think sometimes it is necessary to debate the success of science, the sci fi group I belong to has a thread which shows that sometimes science is not the success that some say it is....sometimes....just sometimes science fails.
Re :....my use of the phrase 'your path'...I did not of course mean you owned that path exclusively...simply that it 'a' path which you have chosen to follow.
Re : The problem is the human condition. None of us ever wants to be shown to have been other than aligned with reality.
My own personal thoughts on this are, people who set out to explore both the physical and non-physical take the risk of being sometimes not in touch with reality which is recognised by the majority.
This is a good a way of learning than any other.
I'm so sorry I don't believe I did it again.
The line should read : This is as good a way of learning as any other.
Well now we've cleared that up...good lol
Now then, re:
When a conclusion of science is contrary to the demonstrations of reality, it is shown to be in error by appealing to the evidences provided by reality. Science is self-correcting. Religion can allow itself no such privilege.
That of course would depend on the religion.
I was refering to the 'science is self correcting', meaning that religion can also experience growth, now whether others will agree that growth is a form of self correction I don't know.
I see in some followers of faith degrees of expectation, meaning some settle for the after life established by their belief. Others advance to interaction between this present (now) and that after life. Then they set out to impress others with accounts of experiences that can be interpreted as signs of affirmation.. piety is often a factor in such cases. Meaning as Decembers Nrmisis mentions so well, seeks to support assumed authority.
well dabbler with me being a pharanormal investigator as a case manager i have seen quiet a few things that cant be explained or come up with a logical explenation for. what do i believe they are? ihave no answer other than yes i have seen stuff and i believe in what i see... are they the dead i have know idea are they demons who knows but they are there and very real.....does everybody believe in pharanormal no . why cause most of the time it can be scientifically exlpained away as not pharanormal.......i think each experiences are real to that person and wether they can be explaind away or not it is still real to those who have witnessed it...
silentsorrows,
In regard to your comment; "i have seen quiet a few things that cant be explained or come up with a logical explenation for."
What about the feats of Chris Angel, David Copperfield and David Blaine; how would you categorize what they do? Can you explain them? Can you present a logical explanation for the things we see them do? If you can't, does that make what they do paranormal?
A hundred years ago no one would have been able to explain a simple $10 calculator, a cell phone or a CD player. Would that make the technology paranormal or were we simply lacking enough knowledge of the normal to properly explain it?