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My wife started awakening last night .How can I help her ease into the transition?She's psi or it seems to be she drains me and I have been trying to keep her fed.Is there anything else I can do to help?Any advice is welcome.I awakened to long ago to remember much of it.

all i can say be ther for her it makes any transaction easier

just be patient her tyme will come

Take her out to somewhere that has tons of possitive energy-- art fair, theme park (shameless plug, sorry), park, etc. This'll give her the chance to figure out how strong she can pull-- and it takes the harsh feedings off of your back as well.

Have her meditate and possibly catch a copy of 'The Psychic Vampire Codex,' as well. Us chicks usually like to read. :P It'll give her a few good exercises to use-- shielding, techniques to conciously feed without damaging the person too much, etc.

Any more info, just let me know.

~N

Exactly what Narakyndryn said...and always a shameless theme park plug... you need help to shield yourself and have her learn how to feed without harm... and I'm here to talk as always.

Thank you all for the advice.You are right she loves to read.I will try to find that for her to read,but until then I'll have to be careful and shield myself .plus,I'll have to feed her some,so she doesn't hunt,which I'm afraid she would.Like I used to and that was a very rough time in my life.That's when I found out the dreamworld was full of dangers.

Hello,

I'm slightly confused and I am hoping that you might wish to clarify for me- Would you be prepared to discuss this event which you believe has caused your wife to awaken just last night?

I would like to understand how it is that you know that she has been 'feeding' from you, for some time now I assume- do you mean that it has begun last night, or that some form of awakening event has initialised during a longer, extended episode, as part of an ongoing process?

Ok,will try to explain.I've been with my wife since 1999.She may have been draining alittle,but that usually is just interaction between two people and is normal,but she knew i would drain energy during sex.The night before last she told me she had drained energy after sex and last night it felt like she ripped through my psyche with a scythe.To the point of making my heart palipate and skip a few beats.I had to actually pull the tendrils out and shield myself and the kids.I'm still sore from this,but will live.Want to help her through this and teach her as fast as possible,so she can get some control.the kids is what i'm worried about if she would hit them like she hit me she would hurt them.I know she wasn't aware of doin'this because we talked,but she felt the energy she had gained,but she is a loose cannon and will feed if she is hungry.Which the feeding part i understand and I'm trying to nurse her until she gets control.Thats why I was asking for advice on how to deal with this situation.

Excercise more, eat healthier foods. You know, stuff to get you more energy.

help her to feed on others show her how to ,but be by her side helping her through the feeding .

I`VE HEARD THIS SPOKEN OF MANY A TIME, BUT AM NOT A VAMP, SO WOULDN`T KNOW.wHAT IS AWAKENING?

Please read my forum post on The Tree Meditation as it will help u and her to have all the energy you will ever need as well as ground u so you may release any negative energy you accumulate.

take her to a public place like a concert, learning to feed may become easier for her and less draining on you, but train her by yourselves, she will only learn to focus it if you are alone.

Yes... coming from a psi... all the advice is good ... but both learning to focus and learning to not target are both good things. TO feed on one person can be very draining... at a good show, I often find myself siphoning off lots of excess energy without draining any one individual enough to worry about it. Beyond that... keep up your own energy and be patient and caring

draven thats kinda harsh dont u think.
:((

it may be harsh but mabey it was usfull

Everyone is entitled to their perspective.... even if it isnt agreed on... skeptics and believers alike have views... i dunno maybe its the devil's advocate in me talking lol

Even so, last thing a thread like this needs is negative information.

Just show a LOT of TLC...that'll work.

Granted... but I think we can sift through information THAT obviously not in assistance? :P I will grant you tho, nop it would not be...... A Psi awkening poorly? *Shudder*

Be by her side and in large crowds so the energy is recieved but no one is drained. A lot of TLC. Good luck

Ive helped people thru awakenings. Just be there for her and does she mediate at all. Aridai on here in his Journal has a Trees Mediation that works very well. May blessed be to her soul :)

And draven that was so impolite in this situation. Its called respect others like you want to be respected :) ty

you know i don't know really what to tell you because i am going through all of this too. i don't really know how to control myself when it comes to draining people. i am getting help from a friend who is a psy, so i am getting a bit better, but i don't know how to explain how i'm getting helped.

Thank you for the information and am working with her on her control.Right now using alot of TLC,but she is getting better at it.Thanks for all the input.

Be there for her. I agree about taken her some where with healthy spirits.

just be there for here and try to get rest yourself so you don't seem so drained to her. it will not comfort her if you look exhausted.

be patient.

just be there for her,be very patient,sometimes it takes weeks,or even years,i am going thru a simialar situtation with someone so i know what ur going thru

what can i say that hasnt been said already?? just be paitient and let her wake slowly..if you try and force it..ya'll hurt her more then yhou could ever imagine

don't be too worried about the kids. if you and your wife have awaken, then i am pretty sure the kids have the power too, and won't be like a normal person and have a huge effect on them.

al you can do is wait in my awaken while i was sleeping i had a dread that i would a bad wreck that would some how set me free and a month later i broke my back and awoke 3 week later chaged stronge ut still not knowing what was ging on only found out when i had another vision of my past wear every thing was expland everything to me my past my futore and what i was and need to be to protect my loved ones so just wait and it will come

Support makes any transition easier..... but that is a tough one

magnesium, potassium, calcium all are neurotransmitters for the heart, it stops arythmia, do a search on the internet for proper doses.

Well to me awakening sounds like a good thing, would you prefer her soul was in quietude? Relationships evolve, and if she is becoming more of a woman than you first thought, perhaps you should try to grow with her. Communicate, find out where her head is at, and get on her surf board. Her direction should have aim. People going through things do not see their destination. We marry people because life is frightening, episodes like these it is integral for someone to be by our sides, we are only as stong as our nearest link, be a significant significant other.

Is it a mental draining or a sexual one? Yeah, true vampires can get the spunk drained out of them. From what I gather, awakening.... well actually it isn't important of what my concept of it is, can someone fill me in, this topic is draining me too....

i never heard of such thing is this even true i dont know on this but i agree be patient time will heal

Give em coffee or esspresso?

Just being there to help and support her will do wonders for her.

Being Awakened myself, yes it is possible to be drained in various manners-- and to even drain when you're not conciously feeding, either.

Your body will do what it needs to better itself-- for example mine has also made me horribly lactose intolerant, and sick to many types of meat products. However, my senses especially as of late have heightened, and I've been able to focus a bit more.

Try to keep your strength up and stay strong. Be patient and try to help her as much as you can but, do not let her drain you to the point you are unable to be yourself. Only allow her to drain so much from you and work it up as you go.

it is very important that you help her in fact... i am passing through a harsh expierence right now.. i am not a vamp... but i noticed that lately i was havign a loss of energy and i even fainted more then once... then through dream work and meditation i have discovered the cause of it all.. its my ex friend.. we were very close and once he even confessed that he felt something for me... thus when we fought he must have been really taken aback by it.. then trough dreams i literally saw him draining me... the event must have triggered his awakining but he doesnt know what it is and all he does is draining my energy constatly.. as he thinks of me often seems... thus it s very important that she learns how to manage it... as this freind was slowly killing me.. seriously! i had to really protect myself against it!

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I suggest a double shot of espresso, maybe a couple energy drinks?

Just be patient her time will come and when it does talk, that is really all you can do.

get heaps of metallic suppliments like magnesium, zinc, and potassium.
doing this is like giving her a boosting blood, fyi, in case you havent noticed, blood tastes like metal.

try calming her or if you know acupuncture that would help to.

yes its important... or else you might get sick but too much energy draining

I have found that I can gain energy from the ground. I stand outside with my shoes off and feel the energy stream into my body.

yes that is called grounding and its a very important process to do as well...

you need to guide her through it. The awakening can be a very tramatic experience. I went through an awakening not too long ago and the only thing that kept me going was the comfort of my friends and the fact that I was able to draw energy from the animals around me....

Yes, just be there for her as best as you can.