What sets you apart from everyone else?
what makes you different from superficial people, and what makes a person genuine?
How many people do you think are caught in the confusion?
Cabrion, one of the better questions.
a sense of individuality that set me apart at age 16 and led to years of bullying, as I was percieved as 'different.'
so yes, a sense of self: and, the perception of others.
75% of people want others to believe who they claim to be. 25% are just being who they are.
People who say, "That's who I am so deal with it.", are transparent, phony, and insecure.
To many people compensate for lack of personality by adopting group identities.
Get to know people long enough and you'll find, everyone is basically the same.
"There is nothing new under the sun."
I don't believe that anything sets me apart.
I am a human being, the same as everybody else on here. As a human, I have certain physical and mental differences but so does everybody else. So I am really a follower of the greatest and most widespread trend there is. Biologically speaking anyway.
question is, are you part of the herd, or not?
do you identify with other 'thinkers'?
or
don't you bother??
In some ways yes. I don't have any delisions that I am different or special. I listen to the people who do say that and think, "funny, I know someone just like you".
Maybe, just the fact that I can accept this and be happy just to blend in, does set me apart:)
Naylastar, every time i look at your profile picture, the first thing i see is penguins hugging. and it makes me smile.
I think a lot of people are trying to be who they are but are unaware of how to do it. Everything around them pulls them towards being specific things, regardless of whether or not its them
the individual can take part in a thread like this and, resond as they have something to say about the very nature of individuality, simply because they can reognise the difference tween them and the herd.
Funny thing, I don't identify well with others, they are all "sheeple".
Most of the time they try to identify with me and fail miserably, as when they try... I change my outlook. One can never truely figure me out.
I like to keep it that way.
But yes, the identity crisis seems to have not only become a fad or trendy, but a HUGE stereotype.
Even if a person is themselves, they are always seen as something different to the minds of others only because those others have or had been influenced by the stereotypes throughout their own lives. Thus a reflection takes place.
I have always been a freak, not good enough to be a part of society. However I am not one in a million, hundreds, thousands of people can make the same claim. I try to be individual, but its a personal perspective. From someone elses point of view I am just the same as the rest of the world. But to me, I am a stand alone.
I think the fact that I don't care at all what other people think, to the point that I've moved into the freakin woods to b away from other people, breaks the chains of some sort and sets me aside at least a little bit!
Nocturnal Mistress...a truly beautiful answer to the questions..:)...and I am in agreement with you on much of it, however...based on my own personal experiences with personality changes within myself as well as observing first-hand a complete personality change in a loved one who suffered a severe head injury (which is rare on its own to occur medically), it raises questions for me on whether or not any of us can truly "know" who we are on a level ascribed by the questions posed in this thread.
What sets you apart from everyone else?
At our basic, neurological levels...we are all susceptible to influences upon our psyche and therefore can be trained and led astray by the least of any visual and audible influences. Whether you realize it or not...your brain is programmable to suit whatever fashionable trend it out there simply because the majority of people are an open book and leave themselves unguarded by such invasive programming....thus, you will always have the presence of "sheeple."
what makes you different from superficial people, and what makes a person genuine?
Again, even superficial people can be genuine about something...and genuine people also in turn have something they're superficial about. This is also dependent upon the fluctuating, inner-workings of the consciousness and personality.
How many people do you think are caught in the confusion?
99.9% There's just as much dis-information out there as foundational knowledge presented to us. Some of us have pretty good filters, while others do not...and much of what we filter through is also dependent upon our personal experiences and perceptions...that which we conceive as being a part of living reality and those things which we assimilate as not being plausible in our minds.
As for my own questions concerning personality changes...this is what I've observed in my own experience:
As an epileptic with complex-partial seizures and secondary generalization, I live with personality and mood shifts on a daily basis. Anti-seizure drugs taken to bring seizures under control can affect the brain much the same as the seizure can, affecting mood, thinking, and personality, however subtle or extreme they may be...dependent upon each individual's reaction to any given treatment due to the neurological/chemical make-up inherently "different" in each person. No matter how human we all are, your chemical balance is the actual signature of your individuality which is why some people can take a medication with little side effect while others can react badly to them.
The extent of our personalities is based upon the chemical neurons firing off in our heads and can be influenced by internal stimuli as well as outward stimuli found within our environment. This is why it is considered rare for an individual to experience a complete and total personality change due to trauma as personality changes are known to be linked to the chemical fluctuations found within the neurological system of our brains, hearts, and the chemical process of the body as a whole.
My first step-father was nearly killed in a motorcycle accident and was one of many rare cases documented as experiencing a total and complete personality change. He was also found to be schizophrenic, but his schizophrenia was not the issue of his personality changing so completely...the brain injury was. He also had permanent amnesia of who I or my mother were to him. He could remember everything else in his life from before the accident...except us...and to my knowledge, still does not have any memory of us prior to the accident but can only relate to our existence in terms of after the accident...that nice lady and her daughter that visited him in the hospital and re-hab for the whole year.
As for myself, due to my epileptic nature and the drug therapy I take, for the most part it is difficult to discern, even for myself, what I will say or do next. In the perspective of predictability, I do not conform to the norm.
Based on that tidbit of knowledge...my question is:
Do we really know who we are individually?
I am thee,
What I before wish to be,
The Curiocity of mine lost the entity of mine,
Min will go with others,
Guidance choosen which are better,
The path to lead Min.
Yes I am what I am yet not concrete, the nature of my and nature around us is involved in and it changes me with each move and turn of waves. Yet whatever is me is an individual like a lake the current waved with each thinking.
I think I am an individual which try to follow my consciousness. I will find my higher self.
Sorry please read it as
I am me,
What I before wish to be,
The Curiocity of mine lost the entity of mine,
Min will go with others,
Guidance choosen which are better,
The path to lead Min.
Well I used to know the answer - Nothing.
Then everything I knew got turned upside down in Christcherch , afool indeed.
Then I realised I had been promoted to a Knight from a Pawn and slowly the pieces of the Chess game were revealed.
Now here's the kicker. Go to any dating website and see how many people said the exact same thing as you guys did when asked what sets you apart ((defining characteristics, 'about me', etc))
Most of what i read were ideal forms that most everyone scurries after, as well they should. As for some of you... dun dun dun... congrats, you're the Only one like you save for your people. That's cool, it's nonconformist and it floats your boat. Next step is to come to a site like this and make sure you're nonconforming correctly..
Original Questions:
What sets you apart from everyone else?
what makes you different from superficial people, and what makes a person genuine?
How many people do you think are caught in the confusion?
I do not view myself apart from anyone, rather connected to everyone and all things.
What makes me "different" from the superficial ones is that I accept who i am and what i am becoming and do not hide that fact and am completely honest to others without a care as to what they want to hear. They either accept me for me, or not at all. I believe that is also what makes me genuine.
As for how many people do i think are caught in the confusion....that is not of my knowledge.
~BP~
If you really think about it, there is always something that sets a person apart from another. Whether it be their looks, their voice, the knowledge they possess, they way they think, or their actions. If we were to be alike in all the same ways, we would be annoying, bland, uniformed, and uninteresting. Life would feel like a routine and there wouldn't be anything that would make us want to move forward in life and in the experiences life can and would give us.
For some reason along the lines of thinking of that, it reminds me of the book "The Giver" by Lois Lowry.
i would like to counter that with an experiment
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7EpYlKaBM8
watch that video and then this one: they're short, but should effectively illustrate my point.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oZPOHIndSVQ&NR=1
So which guy was the bomber?
Point is, people can be different as much as they like, but people can't always tell what those little differences are, even when they're trying REEEALLLY hard.
well most of my life i felt normal..but then i realized that im wayyyy off being normal...but im happy about that...i never cared about what random people think about me....and i have awesome friends who got use to me and im really happy about that...
and for me weirdos and "freaks" are more interesting then those "normal" people..
Don't worry =] nobody's normal, at least the ones that are normal these days aren't necessarily worth knowing..
so it's the oddballs according to every other group that get together "I'm an oddball, cuz i'm unlike those people over there, over there, over there, and over there, but it's ok because i found these other people like me who are my friends"~jocks/goths/steampunk/etc
I don't know that I'm really that different from anyone else. I'm not the only one that hallucinates. I'm not the only white/native girl in the world. I'm not the only brunette with a big ass and chest... The only thing that really makes me different is the way I think. That's the only thing that really makes anyone different. Someone can think LIKE you but no one thinks exactly the same way you do. A lot of people get lost and confused because of the some of the stuff I just put. They don't feel that they are different enough, that they are just like everyone else.
Hmmmm....I think it's that there is no one real me. I am many different things to many different people.
To my parents I am a loner, someone who prefers my own company. To my sister I am a weirdo. To my friends I am bright, bubbly and very random. To my dance teacher....a thorn in his side haha.