Agh, VR... How I love... and some days giggle at thee!
It looks like I have ruffled yet another set of feathers by sticking to my "You have to be my friend to be on my friends list" policy... Although for the life of me, I can't figure out just WHY that pisses some people off. Honestly, why would I want to have a trillion people on my list that... I don't talk to? (Or have any interest in talking too?)
Alas, This is how this conversation went... All rather mature egh?
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therealthing wrote
You are seriously fucked up.
Kiss my ass Bitch
On 15:18:50 Mar 18 2010 (-0 GMT) Alenia wrote:
Perhaps I dident make myself clear...
The people on my friends list are... actualy my friends. People I chat with, talk with, and KNOW. I chat with a lot of people... but until I actualy consider them friends, they stay off of my list.
Thats simply how I do things... Taking it personaly is up to you I guess.
As for stalking... Well, I am stalking only by BF on here, and one other fellow... An interesting fellow, who truly earned that stalk LOL.
I understand some peopls rush to make sire... I understand that it is easer to do if you get people to add and stalk and rate you. But I think their is an inherent dishonesty to that tact... If that is how you want to make sire dear, feel free... But you shouldent really be shocked when you spam message someone to add you and they tell you "No thanks."
And if that makes me stuck up... so be it I guess.
~A~
On 01:07:14 Mar 18 2010 (-0 GMT) therealthing wrote:
I am not looking for anything, I have found what I was searching for a long time ago. And completed a 25 year apprenticeship. I spent that time earning knowledge and proving myself worthy, so it is highly offensive that you would speak to me about worthiness. You seem a bit stuck up. Humility is a virtue you know. And BTW I could care less about popularity, however, it is difficult to Sire just on time spent and pages turned, and I want to Sire out soon. So the add thing helps level me up, plus it is my way of breaking the ice with someone. My way of reaching out and making contact. it seems to work, because here we are talking
XD
So, you are way off the mark...........
Good luck with that attitude, you are gonna need it.
Bye
On 23:35:20 Mar 17 2010 (-0 GMT) Alenia wrote:
Im afraid that I dont normaly respond to automated messages.
Im flattered that you have decided to stalk, add, and rate me, however... I only stalk thoes that I find truly worthy of stalking... and Add thoes as friends who prove themselvs as such.
Im not here to win the Vampire rave Popularity Contest.
I hope you find what you are looking for here on the rave... and wish you the best.
~A~
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So there you have it folks... I am a fucked up, stuck up bitch... because I wont add someone to my friends list when they spam me :)~
Its all good... Im leaving my rate of 10 on his profile, and not blocking him... He may undouchbag at a later date, who knows :)
~A~
COMMENTS
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ThothLestat
03:36 Mar 19 2010
Riiiight. Kinda like throwing things at people hoping that they'll be your friend, if only you could hit them HARD enough.
*rolls eyes*
Alenia
03:39 Mar 19 2010
Well... it worked in kindergarden :)
~A~
Angelus
16:59 Jan 20 2011
they're a woman, not a man.
was surprised at the discourse tho.. always been very friendly and helpful.
Alenia
17:13 Jan 20 2011
Woman, Man... it's not really a concern. I posted this because it was the worst example of something that I have been running into a lot.
Mainly
Them: "ADD ME! ILL ADD YOU!"
Me: "Thanks, hows the weather? Also, Ill add you when were friends cool?"
Them: "You BITCH! HOW DARE YOU NOT ADD ME!"
Me: "Well, I only add my friends, and stalk practically no one, but we can talk, get to know eachother... Really, its just the way I like things, keeps my real friends on my list"
Them: "THE HORROR! THE HUMANITY! AGHHHHH!"
Then this person rated me a 1, then blocked me.
*Shrug*
Don't get it myself, and had forgotten all about it LOL!
Theban
17:07 Apr 18 2011
Hmmm..